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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 3:50:48 AM   
FightingChains


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Yes, Aries, if you look at it, there were two questions:

1. How many of us have tasted it?

2. Do you regularly do it?


The first one implies "one time only", which I would not view as homosexual, but you seemed to ignore this. Heck, I think most men would have tasted once out of curiosity at one stage, but would never admit it.

The second implies the regularity. You focused on the second, and disregarded the first.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 3:54:56 AM   
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I have gone to the effort of making a detailed reply addressing this.
The least you could do is take the time to read it.
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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 4:01:13 AM   
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Do you also insist that your lady be sexually intimate with other women and give other women oral sex?

I don't care about it, haven't asked a partner to do it, and it has nothing to do with the OP of this thread.
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Aries....Aries....Aries....

Ok....you're not understanding what I"m talking about.

What I'm talking about is a Dom who wants his female sub to give another WOMAN oral sex.....when she is 100% heterosexual and had NO interest in doing it.


Tell me why you feel the following bolded reply doesn't address that.
Or why it shows me misunderstanding something.

"Date different guys.... In my last post I told you you are displaying misguided indignation because not all guys are what you insist on making them out to be. If you've had these experiences you may need to be clearer about the fact you are strictly heterosexual and monogamous before getting into a relationship with someone who expects you to go down on another woman. "

The fact is this isn't what you OP is asking.
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Considering how much men love the idea of women giving them oral sex, and swallowing their cum.....how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum?


If a man wants to be with a woman, who's gives him oral sex and will swallow his cum. The only double standard would be if he was not willing to do the corresponding act on the woman.

A man who would prefer not to swallow his own, or another man's cum... Does not translate into the bisexual double standard that you are now focusing on.

If you can't see that, explain to me what about that statement you are having trouble with.

The idea the woman should perform a heterosexual act on him, and so he should be willing to perform a homosexual act is a faulty argument.

If you can't see that, explain to me what about that statement you are having trouble with.

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So there's the question I am asking....yes...you insist that your woman gives YOU oral sex or else the relationship would never last....but do you also insist that she play with other women?? And if you do..... you're telling me that you want her to do this even though you think of another man's cum as "biohazard".....but she's not allowed to think of another woman's pussy in the same way?


To answer the part I bolded in the above quote. I don't insist on that. I recommend you and anyone happening to read this discard their generalisations and try to see the opposite sex as a group of individuals of varying quality and compatibility in relation to yourself.

Stereotyping most males as displaying some behaviour you feel is hypocritical isn't a healthy point of view. Does it make you feel smarter or superior in some way? Stereotyping either sex with any behaviour is immature, it's in the same vein as the idea, of all women being bad drivers etc...

These ideas have nothing to do with D/s as some people have suggested.


My original question is:
quote:

Considering how much men love the idea of women giving them oral sex, and swallowing their cum.....how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum? Do you routinely lick your fingers after you masturbate?


I don't think I stereotyped at all....I didn't say anything about ALL men or even MOST men. I said "considering how many". Plus....if I was making that stereotypical generalization I wouldn't have asked you "do you also insist that she play with other women?"....I would have just simply assumed that you do.

I think you are being a little oversensitive about thia and are just bringing more creed to what ET said earlier:

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You'll find that many aren't secure enough in their sexuality, or do not want any misperception of their sexuality, and may think responding to you may imply sumthin or the other.

Remember these two things:

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 11:18:40 AM   
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Yes, I have kissed the woman who indulged me and got a taste...no big deal to me really.

Same here. I wasn't all that squicked out by it, it just comes (no pun intended) with the territory.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 11:59:57 AM   
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Master Caneman...... Have you ever.... Or would you lick it from your hands?

I mean.... I think there is a bit of a "dilution factor" when it comes to licking your owns hands vs kissing someone after they've swallowed most of it (and diluted by their saliva)

Personally..... I won't lick my own fingers after I masturbate

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 12:43:12 PM   
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I haven't and wouldn't. But that does not stop me from EATING A PUSSY THAT I TOTALLY FLOODED the night before.

Jus sayin
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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 4:19:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: smileforme50

Master Caneman...... Have you ever.... Or would you lick it from your hands?

I mean.... I think there is a bit of a "dilution factor" when it comes to licking your owns hands vs kissing someone after they've swallowed most of it (and diluted by their saliva)

Personally..... I won't lick my own fingers after I masturbate

No, and when I work my pitch control, I'm pretty good at making sure it goes somewhere 'neutral' so as to exclude that possibility from ever happening.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 4:50:16 PM   
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So are you saying you get lots of.....target practice?

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 4:56:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

I haven't and wouldn't. But that does not stop me from EATING A PUSSY THAT I TOTALLY FLOODED the night before.

Jus sayin
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I don't know whether to laugh or cry--brings back a lot of memories....

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 5:05:34 PM   
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I just am not able to see the comparison between a guy tasting his own and you going down on another women.

You find the idea gross.
But it has nothing to do with what she might taste like.
The idea is repellent to you.

And if it is a hard limit then it is a hard limit.
After you have stated that once, when a guy brings it up again, then he has proven that the 2 of you are incompatible as partners.
You don't need to justify it.
It simply is a hard limit for you.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 5:06:19 PM   
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I am kinda taken aback that more of the men have not weighed in here.
I mean...it's only a little COME for goodness sakes.

It's not nuclear waste!!!!!!!!

Wusses.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 5:14:38 PM   
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miss fluff!!!


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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 5:26:33 PM   
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I just am not able to see the comparison between a guy tasting his own and you going down on another women.

You find the idea gross.
But it has nothing to do with what she might taste like.
The idea is repellent to you.

And if it is a hard limit then it is a hard limit.
After you have stated that once, when a guy brings it up again, then he has proven that the 2 of you are incompatible as partners.
You don't need to justify it.
It simply is a hard limit for you.


You don't see the comparison?? Really?

I'm giving the (straight) guys a bit of a break because I know they would all totally freak out if I suggested the true comparison of them blowing another man....I already KNOW that none of them would admit to doing that. But it irritates me that most of them are so repulsed by the mere mention of them performing a homosexual act. Yet they think that women should be willing to go down on each without any hesitation.

It's doesn't matter that it's a hard limit for me. I'm just asking THEM to not be such hypocrites.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 5:57:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: smileforme50

So are you saying you get lots of.....target practice?


Enough to not leave any evidence behind is all I'll say.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 6:07:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman


quote:

ORIGINAL: smileforme50

So are you saying you get lots of.....target practice?


Enough to not leave any evidence behind is all I'll say.

Hey wait...MC. You've got a girl!! What do you need...um...target practice for???

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 6:10:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Blonderfluff


quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman


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ORIGINAL: smileforme50

So are you saying you get lots of.....target practice?


Enough to not leave any evidence behind is all I'll say.

Hey wait...MC. You've got a girl!! What do you need...um...target practice for???

Practice makes perfect, dontcha know? .

In all honesty, I don't play with the flight simulator much anymore. Spinal cord injuries affect certain things. My woman pretty much takes care of my physical needs, except for kink. I get most of that out of my system here, and when I need 'real-time', I hit my local society's munches (munchies!) and chat up the denizens there.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 7:34:00 PM   
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Our relationship isn't egalitarian so what's good for the goose is good for the gander is just not going to happen. You won't ever hear of Master tasting cum unless it's completely by accident in some weird way. But that doesn't mean he won't have me go down on a woman. I don't like it but if he demands it, then it happens. It's not a hard limit for me but very, extremely few things are in my life.

If it's a limit for you then it's a limit. Just make sure you let guys know this limit when you are getting to know one another and weed them out early.


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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 9:57:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: smileforme50
Considering how much men love the idea of women giving them oral sex, and swallowing their cum.....how many of you men out there have tasted your own....or another man's cum? Do you routinely lick your fingers after you masturbate?

I've tasted my own.. once in a blue moon out of curiosity and every now and then because it's an easier way to get rid of one lone drip than going and finding a kleenex somewhere.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/19/2014 10:27:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Blonderfluff

I am kinda taken aback that more of the men have not weighed in here.
I mean...it's only a little COME for goodness sakes.

It's not nuclear waste!!!!!!!!

Wusses.



The issue is not fear of the thing, it's fear for their own sexuality. But I agree... wusses.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/20/2014 6:20:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FightingChains


quote:

ORIGINAL: Blonderfluff

I am kinda taken aback that more of the men have not weighed in here.
I mean...it's only a little COME for goodness sakes.

It's not nuclear waste!!!!!!!!

Wusses.



The issue is not fear of the thing, it's fear for their own sexuality. But I agree... wusses.



It didn't bother Dexter.



Jus sayin
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