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ORIGINAL: iFrustr8udrip

I personally think that what makes a Dom/Domme or Master/Mistress great is there knowledge of the submissive side of the equation or the relationship this is what separates so so Dom from the good Doms in the more the Dom understands the submissive side or he researchs studies , he learns and applies this knowledge and maybe he experiences fist hand a sub role for a time or a scene perhaps a previous relationship, if that be the case , actually have some real time spent in a role of a sub then the Dom ,on another level and on that level there is a variance based on time subbed lol a sincere time subbed and a real experience will change that Dom for they are on a completely higher level than other Doms they can see what the sub sees or what the sub does not see ,they can feel with the sub feels or does not feel and they can process these think with the power and control they have as the Dominant and which is brought with them to the scene the relationship the play the pleasure the whole entire experience has changed he or she has become great and it feels great if you are fortunate to be their sub. No charger for my thoughts.[sm=please_feedback.gif] flip[sm=please_feedback.gif][sm=ballgag.gif][sm=mistress.gif][sm=mistress.gif][sm=mademyday.gif]

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ORIGINAL: iFrustr8udrip

I personally think that what makes a Dom/Domme or Master/Mistress great is there knowledge of the submissive side of the equation or the relationship this is what separates so so Dom from the good Doms in the more the Dom understands the submissive side or he researchs studies , he learns and applies this knowledge and maybe he experiences fist hand a sub role for a time or a scene perhaps a previous relationship, if that be the case , actually have some real time spent in a role of a sub then the Dom ,on another level and on that level there is a variance based on time subbed lol a sincere time subbed and a real experience will change that Dom for they are on a completely higher level than other Doms they can see what the sub sees or what the sub does not see ,they can feel with the sub feels or does not feel and they can process these think with the power and control they have as the Dominant and which is brought with them to the scene the relationship the play the pleasure the whole entire experience has changed he or she has become great and it feels great if you are fortunate to be their sub. No charger for my thoughts.[sm=please_feedback.gif] flip[sm=please_feedback.gif][sm=ballgag.gif][sm=mistress.gif][sm=mistress.gif][sm=mademyday.gif]

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ORIGINAL: d3sign3rgirl

Are there any concrete qualities that must be present?

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

It's all very individual, so this is a question with so many possible answers that it won't provide much use.

I would say that probably the only things that go across the board would be trustworthy, mutual respect, honest and reliable.....which are all things you should be looking for in a partner whether it's vanilla, kinky, poly, traditional, etc.

Pretty much this...

Kinda if you avoid the instant Doms who are practising their swagger and rearrange their cyber crotch every 2 minutes to project their domliness online, you should do alright ;)