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hlen5 -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 12:05:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisterP61 quote: ORIGINAL: hlen5 quote: ORIGINAL: MisterP61 I am with you on that Oside. That just does not sound like it is on the "up and up". Of course I really do not know why the add is posted or where, but even on a kinky site My brain would still scream "predator... run away, run away". Maybe the motive isn't malice, just more "all subs are sluts" ineptitude? hlen5... that of course is a possibility. Never said My first thought would be the accurate one. Just saying [:)] Oops, should have FR'ed it. I didn't mean to critique!!

DaddySatyr -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 12:12:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman That makes sense on some levels, as long as there's a clear-cut demarcation of what is reasonable and expected from both parties. I've recently been discussing a former roommate with someone here, and the idea of a formal sub-lease (the original term, not the kinky one) would be advisable in situations like this. I saw the post as well, and it could be entirely innocent and just somebody wanting a room mate he doesn't have to hide his toys from. I'm going to go just a bit further and say that it *might* be because if I am going to have a roommate (not again, in this lifetime, BTW), there are certain "rules" that are going to apply because it is still MY house. Someone who is submissive is going to be able to acquiesce to those rules a lot easier than someone who is dominant. To me, that means less stress in my life.

OsideGirl -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 12:41:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr quote: ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman That makes sense on some levels, as long as there's a clear-cut demarcation of what is reasonable and expected from both parties. I've recently been discussing a former roommate with someone here, and the idea of a formal sub-lease (the original term, not the kinky one) would be advisable in situations like this. I saw the post as well, and it could be entirely innocent and just somebody wanting a room mate he doesn't have to hide his toys from. I'm going to go just a bit further and say that it *might* be because if I am going to have a roommate (not again, in this lifetime, BTW), there are certain "rules" that are going to apply because it is still MY house. Someone who is submissive is going to be able to acquiesce to those rules a lot easier than someone who is dominant. To me, that means less stress in my life. I can understand that, but in this case, he's the one relocating, so it will be her residence.

MisterP61 -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 12:42:17 PM)
Well since I didn't take it that way, I guess I can forgive you [:D]. I just wanted to say that sometimes I see things in the "bad" first. It is the NYer in Me and also the NCO in Me.

DaddySatyr -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 12:57:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I can understand that, but in this case, he's the one relocating, so it will be her residence. Then, he's trying to "commandeer" a place to live. Not cool.

DesFIP -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 5:34:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders The cynical part of me would guess they're expecting kinky playmate, maid, and income source in one, without having to commit themselves to an actual relationship. Actually, all of me would guess that. QFT

Domnotlooking -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 7:46:48 PM)
I'm going out on a limb with a hope springs eternal rationalization. Either that, or he's a guy who comes hard from rejection. On the old LonelyPlanet website, guys would often advertise for a really attractive, younger woman to go on trips with them -with the women paying there own way!!

RemoteUser -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 8:16:40 PM)
Maybe he's just sloppy and hopes that subby girls can handle a vacuum. (Ok, yeah, or be one.)

littlewonder -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 8:44:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Based on some posts that have been made here: Why would a male Dominant say that he's looking for a roommate, preferably a submissive? Does he think that he's going to get a play partner by default? That it will be easy to control said submissive roommate? That he'll have first access to his submissive roommate's sub friends? I just don't get it, but just seems hinky to me. It's either that reason or they think that if he/she is submissive she or he will do all the work around the house and will be able to squeeze more money and chores from them.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/22/2014 10:47:49 PM)
I'm going with: a guy in his late 20's to late 30's, mommy's boy, never lived on his own & now has to move out. Not a clue how to do a thing for himself. (I know this from experience, having lived with 3 as SOs, not roommates.) They need a sub because in their little wanker fantasy mind she will clean, do laundry, cook, bake, dishes, wash clothes, pick up after him, look after the bills and have to chase after her roommate's share every month. O, and if he's really really really lucky he picks one with low self-esteem who'll have wild monkey sex with him even if he's got a sub already and brings her home. He'll convince the roommate she's really the one but he can't break up with the other one because she's crazy, destructive, psychopath, take your pick. Been there, done that, wore the t-shirt to shreds. [>:] YMMV of course

ShaharThorne -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 5:12:03 AM)
I did the reverse...met him in a bar (I love pool hustlers), our relationship grew from there, I moved in a month later, paid my share of the rent and bills, did the cleaning (he was a chef), got free meals at his restaurant. When my endomerotis(?) got worse, he took me to the hospital for the outpatient procedure (I was at stage 4, severe case). Our relationship turned into 2 Dominants living together and then number 3 (Lizard) came along and we found an apartment that we could live in. Had our share of arguments but we took care of each other until I hit a bad depression mood. When he got sick with a TB infection (someone at his job was infectious with TB and he got the bug but not the disease), I took care of him, making sure he took his antibiotics for 9 months. Now, he and Lizard live together, I help out when I can (doctor visits, meds, food, cleaning, organizing). He admits he still loves me but I can't live with him...can't have any males dominating me because of my bipolar. Lizard is a Dominant also so when they have arguments I yell at them to shut up and work together. I also work on his computer (I 'accidentally' destroyed his old one when I turned it off) making sure the softwares are up to date. Because of his work hours, he is not able to pay the bills so Lizard or I do it when I go down there. They also got 2 dogs and a cat so half the time, the dogs sleep with him or me...and I kick them off...because they love my legs! Now, back to the subject, this looks like someone pretending to be a Dominant looking for a easy way out and figures that advertising for a roomie situation is perfect. That is when I do a background check...Lord knows I did plenty of those for Bo when he was working for the cab company. That man owes me a ribeye steak...

hlen5 -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 11:51:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I can understand that, but in this case, he's the one relocating, so it will be her residence. Then, he's trying to "commandeer" a place to live. Not cool. I missed the "her residence" part too!

kiwisub12 -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 12:06:09 PM)
I think he needs a submissive because they are the only ones that could handle his messy habits in the house. Because all submissives tolerate dirty socks in the living room and food down the kitchen sink. [8\|]

GoddessManko -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 12:13:23 PM)
Honestly, I get a lot of offers like this. The 24/7 no escape slaves. I responded to this fellow to say "so 24/7 no escape" pretty much means "blissfully unemployed". To which he replied "Yes! I'll be all yours!" All 500 lbs of him, lucky me. Just when I couldn't think of more creative ways to throw my money away.

TheHeretic -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 4:11:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman it could be entirely innocent and just somebody wanting a room mate he doesn't have to hide his toys from. The obvious thing a lot of people are leaping to could be exactly right, but I'm willing to see this as a possibility. Why a sub? Maybe it is, "been there - done that" on trying to room with another dominant, and tired of a constant pissing contest between alpha personalities.

ShaharThorne -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 4:15:25 PM)
I had a Master who was a clean freak. I kept the place spotless (he was a long haul trucker), fed all the cats (some of them had the extra claw) cooked healthy meals for him when he was home. I slept in his bed while he slept on the couch (he was impotent). Only thing was I got to run around nekkid in the house and wear heels. I kept twisting my ankles! When Mom asked me to come home in order to get treatment for the bipolar, he let me go. I did try to take one of the cats but Greyhound does not allow animals unless they were service animals. Now I am a switch, being on both sides of the kneel. I am not looking for anyone, I am getting treatment for the bipolar and various other problems (I am having a SIG done on Friday, the last one did not take effect). I have bulging discs in my lumbar section. Medicare paid for my back brace (I called a company that deals mainly with older people for it) when my new doctor tell them it was needed. I also see a chiropractor for my upper back (I hate my breasts....they are too damn big!) for popping. Goddess, I had a friend in Austin about 500 pounds TRY to make a pass on my mom. Told him straight out she is off limits and still married to my dad.

LadyConstanze -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 4:25:38 PM)
If I'm very very nice... He could want to have scene friendly people around and decided some D-types can be hard to get along with, so he's hoping subbies are going to be more mellow (and is setting himself up for a surprise)

MasterCaneman -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 4:28:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheHeretic quote: ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman it could be entirely innocent and just somebody wanting a room mate he doesn't have to hide his toys from. The obvious thing a lot of people are leaping to could be exactly right, but I'm willing to see this as a possibility. Why a sub? Maybe it is, "been there - done that" on trying to room with another dominant, and tired of a constant pissing contest between alpha personalities. OsideGirl raised that point as well. I sort of overlooked the 'submissive' part, and that does make sense. Of course, the cynic in me does agree with the other voices (here, not in my head), saying he may just be trying to score him some subby poon the easy way, although usually it's the D-type offering a room or an s-type looking for one. Of course, the only real way to answer this is simply to have an s-type profile respond to his query and find out what he says online, which would probably only be partially true. On a related note, I wonder if he's aware we're discussing his posting? I went over to his post, and note that he did say 'anyone (especially subs)...', and then went to his profile, which is a little bare, but revealing. I say this one goes to the BDSM Committee, what say you all?[;)]

Blonderfluff -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 4:32:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze If I'm very very nice... He could want to have scene friendly people around and decided some D-types can be hard to get along with, so he's hoping subbies are going to be more mellow (and is setting himself up for a surprise) Are you implying that we are not mellow??? Heeheehee

ShaharThorne -> RE: So, I'm curious (3/23/2014 4:34:32 PM)
I am usually mellow after taking pain killers and a chiro treatment...

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