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Hello....still figuring this place out - 3/22/2014 10:05:08 PM

billranger21

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Hello...I am new to this site, but not new to bdsm. I came here looking to find submissive females who share my fetishes for nylon bondage. I have a strong bondage fetish, but an equally as strong fetish for girls in nylon (pantyhose, stockings, tights). What would be the best way for me to find those with similar interests here?

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RE: Hello....still figuring this place out - 3/23/2014 12:29:22 AM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Welcome to CM and the forums, billranger21. The forums are educational, interesting and, sometimes, fun. Enjoy your stay.

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RE: Hello....still figuring this place out - 3/23/2014 1:36:49 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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On the profile side, where you set your search criteria by gender, orientation etc there is a button that says 'Interest search'. Click it and tick the boxes for your desired interest and it will bring up others who have chosen it. You could also try typing words like 'nylon' and 'stockings' in the keyword box to see who has written about them in their profile text.

I have noticed that relatively few of the women searching are looking based on a specific kink they wish to explore, so I'm not sure how much interest you'll get. Most seem to be seeking full relationships and/or a wider exploration of kink and D/s. I say this only to keep expectations realistic, not to put you off.

If you're on fetlife, I'd be willing to bet there are tons of groups dedicated to discussing your interest, too.

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RE: Hello....still figuring this place out - 3/23/2014 7:29:49 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome to the discussion side of the site where many topics get discussed. I think Athena has covered your question rather well..

How about tell us more about you in a non kink way so that we all can get to know you better. Take a look around and see what this side is all about and maybe join in on some of the discussions. Its nice to have you here with us.

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RE: Hello....still figuring this place out - 3/23/2014 7:55:53 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the fun side of CM Bill. As Athena pointed out, women tend to be much less interested in specific fetishes and much more interested in a relationship.

It's not clear from your profile what you're offering, a long term relationship or a quick play session?

I note you are in NY. The east coast is filled with kink groups of every description, you will most likely have better luck there.

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