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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 2:38:57 AM

Kara

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Fall into the category of being chubby. When i go swimming naked i go chunky dunking as opposed to skinny dipping. Now the truth of the matter is if there was a magic pill that would transform this chunky dunk into a skinny dip with bones sticking out and all of the rest i would be in line with the money for whatever it costs.

Please dont jump on the band wagon of "being happy with ones self rah rah rah" i am chunky yes i would prefer to be slender. Most of the time i am ok with who i am, sometimes that self esteem takes a dive so is life.

My preference in lovers would be someone taller in stature and sise.
regards kara

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 6:46:29 AM

sothernnyte

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nice seeing honest replies Kara.
i wouldn't mind losing a pound ..or 50 myself. but if it doesn't happen , i won't freak out about it. i am content as i am. and even losing 50 would still qualify me as chubby... just not as much *s*
sincerely
sothern

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 9:00:08 AM

littlelostbunny

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I'm a little curvy/chubby-ish. Part of it's hereditary, and part of it is... well, my tendencies to spend most of my time in front of the computer or TV.

Technically, according to those silly height-weight charts, I'm "overweight" for my height and age. (18 years old, 5'6'', 160 lbs.) I don't look overweight... at least not in my opinion...

His Highness would like for me to be more fit, but he hasn't said anything negative about my body. And, after all, being physically fit doesn't necessarily mean weighing less or having less chubbiness.

Personally, I prefer slim- or medium-sized lovers to chubby ones. Maybe it's not what's on the outside that counts, but for me, it counts... at least a little bit.

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 9:06:26 AM

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Hi this is a great thread i feel i can relate to.Its very powerful fo you DRH to post this.I am the chubby one in this couple. While Master Draven prides himself on being in training shape for marathon running. he loves me and would not ever push me to change my weight for Him. Nor do i ever get on him to stop running.I love being accepted at the shape i am .i used to think as a chubby girl i was to be with just a chubby man. But of course there is so much more to a person then weight. And We are as opposite as day and night. he the college man and i the goth girl. but in the end He has taught me so much of how wonderful my ass and breasts are because of the curves i have.and that makes me feel awesome i can serve him like that..........

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 9:22:08 AM

amazonlea

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Great idea. Though I have to join the bandwagon here - I love my partners big and beefy. I am always a little scared of the little ones. I am afraid I might break them.

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 9:23:00 AM

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oo what a refreshing change to not see the tedious "size" knocking. I am a woman of size (height and weight) very physically strong and have always preferred my partners to be the same. I just love "chubby" (very very rubenesque) women and have always preferred my men sturdy to husky. My slave is very slim and it took me a little while to adjust to his body type, but I have now and I adore his cute little svelte self. I must say that there is a very real fear that I may hurt him and I have had to curb my natural "enthusiasm", this in no way lessens my pleasure but it has brought a new awareness to play. But at the end of the day it is the "chubbies" that get a second look from me. Viva la Adipose! *slips my svelte pet another slice of cheesecake and smiles sneakily*

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 9:27:38 AM

sweetnurseBBW

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I am a chubby and lover of chubby. My Master is a big lovable teddy bear. I love men and women that are fluffy.

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 9:36:18 AM

MysticFireTopaz

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I appreciate men with some meat on their bones as well. When I run My hands over someone's body, I like the feel of flesh, not bones. I also think well-padded bottoms are a lot more fun to spank or paddle. It's also more fun to cuddle with someone who has a some extra padding.

Being a plus-sized Lady Myself, I just feel more comfortable with someone of larger stature. When I am with a stick figure of a guy, I feel it makes Me look all the heavier by comparison, LOL.

However, I have been in gratifying relationships with skinny men as well. If they are sufficiently compatable mentally, spiritually, and emotionally, I can get beyond My physical preferences. A well-padded frame is a "nice-to-have" rather than a "must-have" for Me. Interestingly enough, some of the skinny guys I have dated with were very attracted to larger ladies. Some would have preferred a skinny Woman, but felt I had enough to offer that they could look beyond the physical.

Lady Topaz

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 12:37:48 PM

shyfem

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Good Afternoon all,

I have been with men who were very skinny as well as the teddy-bear type. For me it is more personality than anything, but I have to admit I do love men with a little padding, I love to lay my head on their bellies

I love the way MysticFireTopaz put this so am stealing this bit of her post

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ORIGINAL: MysticFireTopaz
A well-padded frame is a "nice-to-have" rather than a "must-have" for Me.

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 12:57:41 PM

SirKenin

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I am sitting here thinking.. There is a difference between chubby and obese. being 150, 200 pounds or whatever overweight is not cute. It is not sexy. It is deadly. This should not be encouraged by this thread or any line of rational thinking. Science has proven that these types of people put themselves at significant health risks.

Of course I should also mention that all those lovely curves and private places are lost in mounds of blubber which is hardly appealing. Those people, in the interest of their own health, should not be proud of it or content with it, but rather should make a concious effort to do something about it before they develop serious health problems that could prove fatal.

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 1:08:57 PM

desertdancer

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I adore chubby men, in fact if a chubby man is standing next to a sculpted muscle man, then I always check out the chubby guy. However Master is very cut and sculpted, maybe I can chubby him up a bit with some cookin'. I will be honest, though I am more attracted to chubby guys, Master is teaching me an appreciation for cut men too, which I never had before. But I still don't like blonds...I dunno why.

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 1:26:23 PM

subdelicious

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Thanks for this thread Daddysredhead! it's nice to see positive comments about this subject.

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 1:32:54 PM

jezabelKH

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

In an attempt to create a place where people can post things that they find wonderful about their personal preference for persons "of size," I offer this thread. It is not to put down any other person's preference for those who are of a "slighter stature." Just to tell why you appreciate those of a more (to use my youngster's term) "squishy" build, if you have a preference for such.

The title of the thread is "Chubby Lovers," which can be taken two ways...
1) a person who loves chubby people, or
2) a chubby person, who is also a lover.

I will start.
I am a chubby lover as well as a lover of chubby.
It isn't that I don't appreciate toned and slender, as well, but I love having something there to squeeze and nuzzle. Fortunately, Daddy is the same. He is a chubby (and incredible!!!) lover, as well as a lover of voluptuous, rubenesque, curvy, (what have you) women. He is probably the first man I ever met who was up front with me about liking His women to have some "junk in the trunk." I was glad that my curves put me in that category. (yummy...)

Master Ken enjoys His girls with a little extra on them, He claims it gives Him more room for His sadistic pallet!

jezabel{KH}
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Property Of Master Ken

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 1:45:42 PM

agirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirKenin

I am sitting here thinking.. There is a difference between chubby and obese. being 150, 200 pounds or whatever overweight is not cute. It is not sexy. It is deadly. This should not be encouraged by this thread or any line of rational thinking. Science has proven that these types of people put themselves at significant health risks.

Of course I should also mention that all those lovely curves and private places are lost in mounds of blubber which is hardly appealing. Those people, in the interest of their own health, should not be proud of it or content with it, but rather should make a concious effort to do something about it before they develop serious health problems that could prove fatal.

Crikey........One could begin to obtain the idea that it's not a positive thing to be slim, in this forum.........lol

It's not beneficial for anyone to spout on and on about fat people/chubby people/larger than average people and their prevalence here or anywhere........but in the positive *back-lash... the slimmies may have to blink a few times too.

I haven't been here long, half a year, or close..... but I've seen barely a word about the positive aspects of being slim.........lol

* I like padding*.....I like bellies.... a *stick figure* makes me look heavier....love chubby....love rubenesque....love big and beefy....scared of the little ones....I think they might break....I don't want to hug a broom handle....don't want to see bones....

Come on... slim people have feelings too..... LOL

It would considered awfully insensitive to post the opposite of some of these comments..( i know some of them are out of context).....

I hate extra padding...I like taut bellies....a fatty makes me look skinny.....I hate fat....I dislike rubenesque figures.... fat people scare me....I'm scared fat people may squish me.....I don't want to hug a marshmallow.....I'd like to see some shape.....

I'm being lighthearted here......because I'm slim and none of the comments will affect me, right?

Regards, agirl

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 3:19:40 PM

SirKenin

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I am slender as well. To be honest I wish I had a few extra pounds on My frame, but I never sweat the small stuff. My wife is chubby and I love it. I love her just the way she is and I tell her that all the time. *sigh*

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 3:54:22 PM

LadyJulieAnn

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirKenin

I am sitting here thinking.. There is a difference between chubby and obese. being 150, 200 pounds or whatever overweight is not cute. It is not sexy. It is deadly. This should not be encouraged by this thread or any line of rational thinking. Science has proven that these types of people put themselves at significant health risks.

Of course I should also mention that all those lovely curves and private places are lost in mounds of blubber which is hardly appealing. Those people, in the interest of their own health, should not be proud of it or content with it, but rather should make a concious effort to do something about it before they develop serious health problems that could prove fatal.

I don't see where this thread is encouraging people to be morbidly obese. I always find it interesting when people are bothered by other people displaying a high self-esteem.

Be well,
Julie

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 4:22:09 PM

mnottertail

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Am I coming into this thread too late to fuck a chubby girl? Dammit!

Ron

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 4:24:18 PM

sleazybutterfly

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I will say that I "love" a chubby any chance I get

...(no one can love you, like you love yourself)....

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 5:00:53 PM

sublizzie

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That's okay, Ron. Just come down to the Cities and you'll find one, I'm sure.

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RE: Chubby Lovers - 7/9/2006 5:36:06 PM

SweetSarijane

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I'm a big girl, both very rubenesque and tall and I like a man with some meat on him. I like someone I can cuddle with and feel warm and protected.

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