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Sinergy -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 6:00:52 PM)

Hello A/all,

I have posted this before but I will say it again.

What is wrapped up inside the Christmas present (i.e. her mind) is far, far, far more important to me than how it is wrapped.  I dont tend to be overly specific about her physical build.

I have a bit of a paunch which I am trying to lose, but quite a few muscles from working and working out.  I dont do this because I care how I am viewed by other people; I do this because every extra pound is something I have to move around in doing gymnastics, wearing foam and getting kicked in the head full power.  It is a matter of survival for me.

And having said that, one of my damn students today gave me a minor wrist sprain as she set her knee on my wrist and torqued it back to disarm (It was unarmed defense against me with a gun) me.
I could say I was annoyed, but truth to be told I am profoundly proud of the savage fighters the class has become.

The only issue about her physical size would be whether or not she could keep up with me hiking up Mt. Baldy.

As usual, this is just me and I could be wrong.

Sinergy.



sweetbbwsub31 -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 6:06:41 PM)

I am a chubby woman. I am very attracted to large teddy bear type men and I can't help but look twice when I see a cute chubby woman. I am very comfortable in my own skin and very active. The older I get the more I see just how many others are out there who like heavier people. Personality comes first of course but if I had a choice between two partners with similar personalities I would pick the big guy every time. There is just nothing better than laying on his chest with his arms around you.

sub tara 



sublizzie -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 6:12:02 PM)

I am chubby plus, no getting around that. I love being around people who are chubby who enjoy good food. While I know a few skinny people who can enjoy a well-planned, well-cooked meal, most only pick. I like watching people find pleasure in their food.



sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 7:17:42 PM)

Well being a cardiac intensive care nurse i see more assholes having heart attacks than fat people. Smoking is the number one killer.



SirKenin -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 7:51:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin

I am sitting here thinking..   There is a difference between chubby and obese.  being 150, 200 pounds or whatever overweight is not cute.  It is not sexy.  It is deadly.  This should not be encouraged by this thread or any line of rational thinking.  Science has proven that these types of people put themselves at significant health risks.

Of course I should also mention that all those lovely curves and private places are lost in mounds of blubber which is hardly appealing.  Those people, in the interest of their own health, should not be proud of it or content with it, but rather should make a concious effort to do something about it before they develop serious health problems that could prove fatal.


I don't see where this thread is encouraging people to be morbidly obese.  I always find it interesting when people are bothered by other people displaying a high self-esteem.

Be well,
Julie


No, I do not think anyone is and I certainly am not bothered about it (I have more important things to concern Myself with, thank you. [:)])  High self esteem is good, but high self esteem on the same token needs to be well placed.



sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 7:55:23 PM)

Sometimes peoples fears come out as arrogance. Most I find are just ignorant.



ownedgirlie -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 8:18:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

Well being a cardiac intensive care nurse i see more assholes having heart attacks than fat people. Smoking is the number one killer.


I clicked on this thread accidentally, and burst out laughing at this oh so true statement.  [:D]



Daddysredhead -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 9:08:47 PM)

This has been a sweet read for the most part.  For those who take exception, or read anything else into it, nothing prohibits you from starting your own thread.  This is just one of mine, and I am very proud of it, and I am happy that others have found an opportunity to post all their warm fuzzies here as well.  [:)] 

Teddy bear hugs and soft bosomy embraces to all of you...  [;)]



ownedgirlie -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 9:13:21 PM)

I went back and browsed through it, and you are right - it was a sweet read.  :)



littlekitty42 -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 9:16:49 PM)

I love a man with a bit of a gut to lay my head on or a woman with cuuuuuuurves.  Yum, yum.  I'm a boob woman, what can I say?

Chubby or no, I'm a big girl.  I just can't see myself playing with someone who I'll weigh more than when I'm just a fleshless skeleton.



sleazybutterfly -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/9/2006 9:24:50 PM)

For men, I like almost all.  I find though that I like a bit of tummy and good arms.. both make me feel held, comforted, and safe.  It also gives power to the belt, and push behind the strong thrust as you feel the weight of him push into you.
 
As for women, I like the ones that have some yummy on them.  The softness of the breasts, the curve of the hip, the pad on the tummy, the warmth between the lush thighs, the sweetness of the lips.
 
~*****Andrea*****~



LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 4:55:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirKenin

I am sitting here thinking..   There is a difference between chubby and obese.  being 150, 200 pounds or whatever overweight is not cute.  It is not sexy.  It is deadly.  This should not be encouraged by this thread or any line of rational thinking.  Science has proven that these types of people put themselves at significant health risks.

Of course I should also mention that all those lovely curves and private places are lost in mounds of blubber which is hardly appealing.  Those people, in the interest of their own health, should not be proud of it or content with it, but rather should make a concious effort to do something about it before they develop serious health problems that could prove fatal.


I don't see where this thread is encouraging people to be morbidly obese.  I always find it interesting when people are bothered by other people displaying a high self-esteem.

Be well,
Julie


No, I do not think anyone is and I certainly am not bothered about it (I have more important things to concern Myself with, thank you. [:)])  High self esteem is good, but high self esteem on the same token needs to be well placed.


Well hopefully you are also too busy to be responsible for deciding who has their self-esteem in the right place.  [;)]

Be well,
Julie



Lashra -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 5:00:24 AM)

I'm a big woman and my sub is a delicious teddy bear type, exactly how I like my man. I like peeps with extra pounds on them, that is the type I find attractive.

~Lashra



Dollbecky -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 5:21:03 AM)

I like big guys ...
Long hair tattoos facial hair and a bear-like swagger with a good tummy its all says MAN to me
just the way I am wired...anybody looked at the boys in gay bear porn ...those are some pretty lads
;) can you tell my Papa was a redneck biker



MstrJason1mina -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 5:41:51 AM)

Hi there it amazes me how idological you are to post such negative views in a thread that is aimed for those who adore and appreciate the vhubby. Like beauty, chubby is all in the eye of the beholder. I deal with plus size every day. It is your mentality that makes so many of my clients feel that because they are obese they cant be sexy. it takes a lot of work. a lot of love and care to show these folks they deserve the same respect the same love the same pleasures that skinny folks get.
Pople have the freedom to smoke and damage thier lives,I dont preach to them the negative they get that enough out in the world. It is known drinking in mass amounts is bad,but do i go preaching on lists about how bad it is no. It is your freedom your right to do what you want with your body.So if you choose to be overweight then do so. if you choose to be skinny then do so. But dont knock others for what you cant relate to. And some obese and chubs simply can not lose weight.i personally am having medical reasons that are causing me to be at a stand still with my weight.



SirKenin -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 12:21:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

Well hopefully you are also too busy to be responsible for deciding who has their self-esteem in the right place.  [;)]

Be well,
Julie


lol.  That made Me chuckle.  [:D]  At the same time, though, you make a good point... And no, I am not going to sit here and make that decision.



SirKenin -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 12:26:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MstrJason1mina

Hi there it amazes me how idological you are to post such negative views in a thread that is aimed for those who adore and appreciate the vhubby. Like beauty, chubby is all in the eye of the beholder. I deal with plus size every day. It is your mentality that makes so many of my clients feel that because they are obese they cant be sexy. it takes a lot of work. a lot of love and care to show these folks they deserve the same respect the same love the same pleasures that skinny folks get.
Pople have the freedom to smoke and damage thier lives,I dont preach to them the negative they get that enough out in the world. It is known drinking in mass amounts is bad,but do i go preaching on lists about how bad it is no. It is your freedom your right to do what you want with your body.So if you choose to be overweight then do so. if you choose to be skinny then do so. But dont knock others for what you cant relate to. And some obese and chubs simply can not lose weight.i personally am having medical reasons that are causing me to be at a stand still with my weight.


Oh, do not get Me wrong.  I love chubby women.  My wife (or whatever..  we are separated at the moment) is a chubby woman and I love her to pieces just the way she is.

My point is that it is one thing to be chubby.  Yet another to be obese.  We should not confuse the two.  This thread is about admiring chubby.  Not calling someone 200 pounds overweight chubby.  That is not chubby.  That is fat.  Obese.  It is also not healthy and should not be glamorized and that was the point I was trying to make.  Science has proven (once again) that being obese can be fatal.  Thus we should not be congratulating someone who says they need to lose 150 pounds to be comfortable.  We should be encouraging them to take control of the problem and do what it takes to ensure their physical health.

Adoring a chubby woman, fine.  Voluptuos curves, exceptionally cute faces, wonderful personalities, yes that is all good.  Morbid obesity?  Not good.  Do not be proud of it.  Do something about it for your own health.



SexyRed -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 12:40:50 PM)

It is always nice to see threads that are not bashing plus sized people. Those that take exception to the high self esteem shown here, usually have issues of their own that they are not addressing. No one is saying that being overweight is necessarily healthy; the point is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and far too many in our society still feel it is politically correct to put down heavier people. I find it continually fascinating that someone may write you on a site like this, they see you, they hear how you describe yourself, and yet...if you are not interested in them, many respond with "why are you not interested in me, you are just a fat lazy bitch anyway".

I for one, am glad there are "chubby lovers", but I will say that geographically, I do not believe that there are as many of them in the NYC/NNJ area as in the rest of the country.



MstrJason1mina -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 1:01:35 PM)

It is not glamorizing to have a single thread dedicated to the chubby or overweight. People in general I dont care if your a sizeXXsmall or 10X. We as world society are bombed hourly with what weight  hair color what fashion what words are trendy are good for us and so forth. No one and I mean no one but myself my Master knows what clothes look best on me. What weight looks best on me .what weight makes me feel depressed and at weight level i start getting very very depressed.All over the net tv magazines even in church at some places. the talk of body image is surrounding us to were one cant breath. Having a single thread to say hey we love chubby we love obesse we ACCEPT you at this weight is good. So many obesse people are surrounded my negative and it makes that much harder for those of us who cheer people to accept thier body image for what it is.there is nothing glamours about being chubby or obesse. If it was glamours there would be a hell of a lot mote magazine covers with chubby girls wearing bikinis .



TigressSerena -> RE: Chubby Lovers (7/10/2006 1:35:58 PM)

Wow....I'm still not used to so many "nice" forumness around here.  But yeah, I'm fat.  I hate it though.  Here's the funny thing.  When I was "hot shit" as I like to lovingly put it I was still considered fat.  So I say yes, it's about personality, but physicality comes into it at one point at least.  The supposed Dom who dumped me admitted to a problem with the fat and what a bummer that he didn't wanna try more, but I understand.  I'm content with being a "hot" fat chick when I get in better shape.  It's taken me around 10 years to, but I'm okay with that.  For now it's just a matter of health.  I want to be active and happy.  If nothing else the problem I have with the fat is that it gets in the way.  But not for much longer.....

((Update, I've dropped 35lbs since October, a great friend who I made a business proposal to regarding yardwork was happy to purchase clothing for me from Lane Bryant, I couldn't fit into those sizes last year!!  Mua ha ha ha!!))



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