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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 11:30:36 AM   
theshytype


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he s looking because he s attracted by you



There's really no way to know someone's motive behind one look in the eyes.
It doesn't bother me or do anything for me.

If someone lingers, turning a look into a stare, it's uncomfortable. Either say something, preferably something not creepy, or stop looking.

ETA: If we're already speaking, I'd prefer someone do look me in the eyes as it tells me they're probably listening. If someone appears to have difficulty in looking someone in the eyes, it leads me to believe they're not confident. Which is a turn off for me.

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 11:36:58 AM   
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hello everybody, i am asking to all woman if they like when a guy look at them straight in the eyes... what is your attitude with this?

There was a long thread not so long ago where one poster thought that looking at girls was Ok.
From what I remember, the most common response was that they didn't like it very much.

If you did that to my OH and was standing close enough, the only thing you'd see would be her fist wanting to have intimate contact with your jaw. Or failing that, the feeling of her boot rapidly shaking hands with your nethers.

On the whole, I would say it's just as bad as leering in many ways.

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 11:41:41 AM   
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Not OK.

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 11:45:32 AM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 11:45:57 AM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 11:52:15 AM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 11:54:09 AM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 11:55:16 AM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 12:24:19 PM   
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If someone lingers, turning a look into a stare, it's uncomfortable. Either say something, preferably something not creepy, or stop looking.

ETA: If we're already speaking, I'd prefer someone do look me in the eyes as it tells me they're probably listening. If someone appears to have difficulty in looking someone in the eyes, it leads me to believe they're not confident. Which is a turn off for me.


^^^This.

And make sure that if you do catch someone's eyes, BRIEFLY, you are smiling warmly and non-threateningly as you do so.

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 12:32:30 PM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 12:39:57 PM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 12:43:26 PM   
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By both doctors' guesstimates, I was six months from a major heart incident. The teeth that were left all had to go. I didn't have much choice.

In fact, when I went back to the dentist after the chest X-ray results, he told me that if he didn't have my permission to operate in 72 hours, I'd need to find another dentist.





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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 1:17:00 PM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 1:41:02 PM   
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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 1:44:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		i dont feel neither scared or excited... its just some stranger looking at my eyes.... i must rather prefer them to look at my eyes anyways... just saying

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 1:46:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't mind if he's looking at me, but if he's going to make the mistake to look me dead in the eye, he's going to be uncomfortable fast.

I'm face blind, and i therefore don't naturally do the subtle eyescan movements other people tend to do. While most people don't register what exactly it is that is different and bugs them, they all do immediately 'feel' something is off, and it makes them intently uncomfortable.

Because of this I've learned to not look people dead in the eye unless I'm mad at them... at which point I can visible see them cringing and trying to avoid my gaze.
Apparently my 'drop dead' look really conveys the possibility that I may decide to help that wish along...

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 1:55:38 PM   
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hello everybody, i am asking to all woman if they like when a guy look at them straight in the eyes... what is your attitude with this?


In Italy the straight into the eyes is a bit of a come on, an invitation to flirt, in other cultures it's simple politeness to look somebody into the eyes if you're talking to them

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 2:50:15 PM   
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In Italy the straight into the eyes is a bit of a come on, an invitation to flirt, in other cultures it's simple politeness to look somebody into the eyes if you're talking to them


French women I've found to be really disconcerting in that way. They'll stare straight into my eyes, standing right up close, and touching me frequently. Makes you think, '"Good god, woman, we've only just met. Take a cold shower!"

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 3:33:41 PM   
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French women I've found to be really disconcerting in that way. They'll stare straight into my eyes, standing right up close, and touching me frequently. Makes you think, '"Good god, woman, we've only just met. Take a cold shower!"

So I take it you don't like being eyeball-fecked by forward French women? Who'd have known?
No, I don't either--by guys. By anyone.

Did any of you ladies see the sexy, intense gaze on that actor from "Divergent"? Oh, man.
I wanted to just grab his head...and hair....<needs majorly hosed down>
Way too young for me to be having those kinds of thoughts....

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RE: Do woman love to be looked at? - 3/24/2014 3:41:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am a man and shit, I require face pics for people I talk to....but when I meet them in person, I am gonna stare them right in the goddamn tits.

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