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marieToo -> RE: On the spot (7/8/2006 7:43:38 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Saint
I just had an interesting thing happen to me today. I have a keychain that says: "Spank me!" on it and have had it for some time. I was over at my parents house, and we were sitting there relaxing and a guy on tv was talking about how he loves feet, how they are so sensual, etc. Anyways, we were laughing about it and I looked over. My mother was staring at me and I said: "Dont look at me, Im not a foot guy." She came back with: "No, but you do like to be spanked!" Needless to say, I was a bit shocked to here that come from my mother. Because well..uhm.. I do love to be spanked. [:D] I asked her how she figured that, and then she went on about spotting my keychain one day. Then she asked me if I was one of those wierdos who was into sadism. Now, both my parents are extremely conservative and they would probably lock me up if I out and out admitted that I do like Dominant women. So I just laughed it off and tried to explain that it wasnt that "I" liked being spanked, but rather I liked to toss my keys up on the counter at the gas station in the hopes that one of the girls behind the counter would see it and blush or use it as an opener. *grin* I justified saying that because I keep my gas card on my keychain and so it does have to be handled by the clerks there. I dont think she bought that explanation though. For the rest of the time I was there, I noticed she was paying pretty close attention to everything I was doing the entire time when she thought I wasnt looking. She never said anything further, but I could tell she was itching to.
So I guess my question is: Have you had inadvertant outings or situations come up like this with your family? And how did you deal with them?
Hmmm....well I was pretty much outed with my family while I was going through my divorce. Since my ex husband did not know about my desires until shortly before our separation, he decided to attempt to use it against me in our divorce. He even put in his complaint that I visited a Ds chatroom. My mother saw every word that was ever printed in our divorce papers and its funny but she didnt bother to pursue it or to question me about it. My ex also made it a point to tell all of my cousins (who I am very close with) about my "desires". They mostly joke about it with me now. They say things like 'oh you want to do some cbt huh"? lmaoo....They dont know which 'end' of it Im on, but they know im "kinky". I dont think they understand the depth of it, or that its more than a kink for me. But if thats how they process it, it doesnt bother me. Its funny as hell, but we all laugh and joke about it now. One of my cousins even said to me "dont feel weird about it marie, Sue (his wife) and I like to do some "roleplaying" and we have even considerd playing with a third party". lmaooo. So it actually got one of them to open up about his own personal life. My ex thought I would die of embaressment. Ha! I happen to think that alot (if not *all*) people have a kink of *some* sort, be it Ds, or otherwise, even those who seem conservative or square. Only difference is that some of us will act on it and admit to it and explore it, others wont. Im still discrete about it however. Its not something I need to wave around.
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