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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/8/2006 6:06:39 PM   
CrappyDom


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Status: offline 		We need to come up with an acronym for those who want to blame others for their own fault in finding/attracting partners.

Perhaps they turn us down because we just suck?  Nawww, THAT can't be, must be they are just too fucking stupid to see how fucking great we are.  YEAH, that must be it...

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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/8/2006 6:07:34 PM   
cuddleheart50


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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/8/2006 10:17:14 PM   
Evanesce


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quote:

I was recently asked: if you're owned then why are you here?


I was on a subs seeking masters discussion list for a few years.  After the first year or so I was there, I met Master and told the list I had met someone I was really interested in.  A submissive on the list publicly demanded that I leave the list immediately, because I'd already found mine, and she believed that if I stayed, I'd be interfering with HER ability to find a dominant.
 
I didn't leave for a couple more years.

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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/8/2006 10:32:28 PM   
litleone8620


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Status: offline 		Good. It was her problem that she felt threatened by you. Though i can't see how YOUR having a Master interferes with HER. But i don't pretend to understand the insane.


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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/8/2006 10:45:13 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Evanesce

quote:

I was recently asked: if you're owned then why are you here?


I was on a subs seeking masters discussion list for a few years.  After the first year or so I was there, I met Master and told the list I had met someone I was really interested in.  A submissive on the list publicly demanded that I leave the list immediately, because I'd already found mine, and she believed that if I stayed, I'd be interfering with HER ability to find a dominant.
 
I didn't leave for a couple more years.


It sounds like a case of the green monster... perhaps she was afraid you were a sub looking for a poly situation with multiple doms?....Ha Ha

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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/8/2006 10:47:56 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

We need to come up with an acronym for those who want to blame others for their own fault in finding/attracting partners.

Perhaps they turn us down because we just suck?  Nawww, THAT can't be, must be they are just too fucking stupid to see how fucking great we are.  YEAH, that must be it...


I suck and swallow.. I think this is why I am a valuable submissive though...

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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/8/2006 11:08:03 PM   
Evanesce


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quote:

It sounds like a case of the green monster... perhaps she was afraid you were a sub looking for a poly situation with multiple doms?....Ha Ha


LOL!  Yeah, I could just see me with multiple doms... it's bad enough I drive the one I've got half crazy.

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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/9/2006 6:31:40 AM   
porchia


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Status: offline 		i have been asked the question as to why i am here if i am not seeking---my favorite answer to withhold cyber and annoy trolls.  
However, in regards to profiles---i have found on my journey i am forever changing how i look at things.   In the beginning some limits that i was very firm on have changed to things i get pleasure from and other things that i enjoyed or tolerated have now become things i no longer desire to participate in.   For me most of the time my profile is a pretty useless tool to get to know who i am---speaking with someone for 10 minutes is also pretty ineffective as i have found that many draw their own conclusions (and i am guilty of this myself) in the first few moments.   
As to truths in profiles---well as my uncle used to say "it's their piece of paper and they can write anything they want on it".   In this case a profile and unless it is not accepted one can pretty much write what they want.       But of course we can find this in real time meetings as well---how many 'single' guys are in the local bar and you only find out he's lying when his wife comes knocking at your door at two am.  
As to who is real and who isn't well i really think that 'real' is in the eyes of the beholder.   What may be real for me may not be real for someone else and another who considers someone totally real i may consider one of the biggest fakes around.   Each and every relationship is so unique to the couple that it is impossible for anyone to base the lifestyle on one single ingredient one single person or one single relationship.  
Use common sense and a clear head and make your own judgement and when it comes to finding Yyour Oone---all i can say is---i wasn't looking and when it happened for me, looking back---i knew He was it at hello.

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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/9/2006 4:36:30 PM   
mstrj69


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Status: offline 		I have written to some who say they are owned but I normally keep it to a simple congratulations and I hope everything works out for you.  Especially if they have just gotten into the relationship.  The ones I would bet will work are the ones who respond with a polite "Thank you and good look to you." Something simple yet showing good manners.  I do not care if they call me sir or not as I am not their Sir.

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RE: Wom wants to be with whom and who is real? - 7/9/2006 5:09:07 PM   
perverseangelic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterDesire

There are far to many auto responce emails here. I just proved it. I also find that the listing of new users is a joke as many have been here for ages. One way to find out if a photo is real or not is ask for a photo with your initials wrote on the chest or a shirt I know is not 100 % fool proof  but is a lot better than assuming the original photo is real


I hate this kind of stuff. It seems like it's become the -staple- of the online world, and frankly I don't see the point of it with many people.

Probably 80% of people who e-mail me (after reading my profile) tell me they will only meet me if I "go on cam" first for them, or provide them some sort of ID picture. I hate getting requests like that. The reason I hate them? I'm perfectly willing to -meet- someone, face to face, at the soonest convienience.

It shocks me how many people write me off because I am not allowed/willing to use webcams. Recently I gave in for a while and said I'd send a "proof of identity" picture, but I got so flooded with requests for naked close ups that I've reconsidered the offer. I would understand this obsession if people were being asked tom ake a long drive to meet me, or if I put them off time and again for a real meet, but most of the people I'm talking about have been local (within a 15 min drive) and I am willing to meet just about anyone I talk to at the soonest convienience. Realtime. Face to face. Even if I fail to show (which I have yet to do to anyone) the -worst- someone is out is an hour of their time.Yet time and again I'm told "no, not unless you do X."

And people wonder why they can't find partners.

< Message edited by perverseangelic -- 7/9/2006 5:10:18 PM >

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