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New here... Chicago area - 3/27/2014 11:13:28 AM

NWSuburbKink

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Hi all,

I'm new here. joined in hopes to find a LTR with a kinky girl. I switch so can be happy with a dominant or submissive. So, far I've gotten nothing but a bunch of unrealistic, BS messages!!! is there hope? lol

Josh

nice to meet you all (virtually anyhow)

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/27/2014 12:11:50 PM

MasterCaneman

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Hello and welcome, Josh. New people always get bombed with BS messages for about the first month or so. Don't take it personally, just use the 'Mark as Spam and Delete' button for the obvious ones. I took a peek at your profile, and it looks okay. Nice to see someone leading with their RL interests rather than a laundry list of kinks (which reminds me, I gotta start deleting the stupid ones on mine)

Have patience, save the weirder/funnier ones for the Strange Messages From the Other Side thread, and enjoy the forums. I forgot to mention, this isn't really the place to meet up with someone (although it has happened), but you can pick up a lot of info to help you on the other side.

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/27/2014 12:20:43 PM

NWSuburbKink

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Whats up bud, thanks for the message. yeah, I don't know if I'll put all my kinks out there. surely anyone who may be interested and I can converse privately regarding that. plus, im not just seeking a play partner, but a LTR with the vanilla components as well, so wanted to but my interests outside of BDSM down as well. good to know some of the BS should clear up!

so, this isn't a good place for like "fetish personals"? thanks

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/27/2014 12:26:13 PM

MasterCaneman

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This side isn't, the other side is. We're more for discussions, advice, conversation, stuff like that. Between this side (CollarChat) and the other side (CollarMe), you should be able to construct a good profile, as well as pick up some etiquette tips here for making yourself stand out.

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/27/2014 1:18:30 PM

NWSuburbKink

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sounds good man. well time will tell. thanks again for saying whats up

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/27/2014 3:06:52 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Hi NWSuburbKink. Welcome to CM and the forums. The forums are fun, interesting and educational. Enjoy your stay.

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/27/2014 5:04:36 PM

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Hello and welcome it's nice to have you here with us.

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/27/2014 7:17:00 PM

frunandsins

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Welcome aboard. And far as luck in finding matching profiles goes, well, I am hitting 0 and I am still around, so I am not your best cheerleader. But the board side is fun, and sometimes the eye candies on the profiles are also fun. Enjoy!

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/28/2014 4:57:30 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Nice to meet you Josh. There is hope ! You have to take your time and be patient.

You might find this article helpful: http://beyond50shades.com/tips-for-finding-someone-dom-or-sub/

Over here the discussion side is fun and informative. Stick around and make some friends.

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/28/2014 5:01:52 AM

Alihasboi

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Hello Mistress,
I am an Italian slave living in Belgium.Sarching for a strong Owner and Mistress to serve.

hope to hear frm You,
friendly greetings,

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/28/2014 5:13:59 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Sweetie, start your own thread for your intro, it's considered rude to tack on to someone else's. . And just so you know, it should be about you in a non-kink context.

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/28/2014 7:29:57 AM

NWSuburbKink

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Hello everyone! thanks for the welcomes! I will definitely check out the link you provided chatteparfaitt! thanks.

and nicebutmeangirl...I love Bellingham! great city with great wilderness close by!

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RE: New here... Chicago area - 3/28/2014 9:39:46 PM

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