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fdouglas101 -> looking for a cyber domme and willing to pay :) (3/31/2014 4:16:48 PM)

I am very new to kink. And I am a 20 year old male whos a virgin. So no experience. I am trying to get a cyber
Domme to teach me the ropes.
I use kik mainly. But lmk I am willing to pay a cyber domme on paypal if wanted. Just wonna get a feel for it.
Lmk



MissImmortalPain -> RE: looking for a cyber domme and willing to pay :) (3/31/2014 8:36:34 PM)

Douglas, I feel I should warn you that openly admitting you are willing to pay might set you up to be scammed. I understand that you are just looking to learn a few things but I suggest moving slowly and getting to know the people you are talking with very well before handing them money.



DarkSteven -> RE: looking for a cyber domme and willing to pay :) (3/31/2014 9:36:30 PM)

In addition to what MIP said, cyber Domming isn't really Domming. It's Topping, which means being in control of a play session only.

Try to find some local meetings and meet real people. Cyberplay will give you a view of the lifestyle that's inaccurate, and many lifestyle Dommes resent having to retrain subs.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: looking for a cyber domme and willing to pay :) (3/31/2014 10:36:32 PM)

OP, you may now expect your inbox to be flooded with fin- and pro-dommes. [&:] If this is truly what you want, you can also pop down to the Professional Services section and take your pick.

If I was in your shoes, I would look for the nearest TNG (The Next Generation) group and participate. TNGs are for young adults 18-35 who are in the lifestyle or would like to learn more about it.

Google your city (or nearest large city) and 'bdsm TNG group' to see what comes up. FetLife is also a good place to look for groups in your area.

As has been mentioned, cyber and paid sessions have no connection to lifestyle reality. Then again, that may be what you prefer.



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