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UrEboniGodness -> How to response to subs. (4/1/2014 10:38:23 PM)
Hello All, I am new to this online format of this lifestyle. I have played the role of a sub and dominated woman in my relationships. However, I still have much to learn such as how to even response to the subs online and the D/s lifestyle. My first question is how to properly response to the subs. I am unsure if I start off with general conversation or do I start off as a Domme. Please help me clarify this. I know this sounds a bit dumb but I am a bit inexperienced and overwhelm with the messages.

DarkSteven -> RE: How to response to subs. (4/1/2014 10:51:53 PM)
You are in control. Let me repeat that. You are in control. That means that if you don't like a message, you don't reply. If you do, you do reply. What are you seeking here? If it's a relationship, I'd suggest vanilla and getting to know the guy. If you want play sessions, paid or otherwise, then start as a Domme. Oh, yeah. Welcome to collarme!

MissToYouRedux -> RE: How to response to subs. (4/1/2014 10:58:57 PM)
You can relax. The fun part of being dominant is that you can do what you want. Personally, I don't do virtual domming, so they only get the general conversation, but there's no one true way (regardless if you hear otherwise. lol) If you're bothered by the overwhelming messages CM has the auto responses. Quite a bit of what you have in your inbox will be cut and pasted anyway and I don't think those even warrant a response. But most importantly, enjoy!

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