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Hi...New at this - 4/2/2014 10:58:28 PM

Sazhe

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I'm curious about the whole lifestyle, but debating if I want to pursue it. I am recently separated, but would like to start expressing my Dom side. Is 52 too old to start?

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RE: Hi...New at this - 4/2/2014 11:13:39 PM

anniezz338

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Welcome to the CM forums.

And of course your not too old to learn to be a dom. There are loads of topics here in the forums to read and also FAQ's. If you have any questions, feel free to post.

Good luck to you.

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RE: Hi...New at this - 4/2/2014 11:20:07 PM

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"Learning to be a dom?" That a new concept.
.for the fifty shades inspired maybe. But in truth one is..or isn't. .submissive or dominant.

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RE: Hi...New at this - 4/2/2014 11:31:21 PM

Sazhe

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So..does dominance always involve pain? or is control more the point? And I never read 50 shades :)

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RE: Hi...New at this - 4/2/2014 11:43:52 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome Sazhe its nice to have you here on the discussions side where all kinds of topics are discussed. Take a look around and see what we are all about. I would suggest heading to ask a Master and ask your question there..... I would think you would get your best answer there. Here in intros its usually where you come and tell use a bit about yourself so that we can get to know you better.

Its always nice having new faces among us.....best of luck in your search.

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RE: Hi...New at this - 4/2/2014 11:44:31 PM

petskye

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Learning to be a dominant is not a new concept at all, in fact it is a concept that is unfortunately going out of fashion but really shouldn't be. Lots of people now seem to try to avoid being experienced and just being a dominant skipping a lot of important steps. I am honestly very glad that you have came to the concept of bdsm in the idea of learning Sazhe rather than being like a lot of people now who lie about experience in it straight off the bat. Most people who are involved in their communities either have known someone who has been in a scene where something went terribly wrong or have actually been in a scene which has gone terribly wrong. In these cases those without experience and have came to bdsm with a belief that they are able to be a perfect dominant straight away have lead to a much worse out come than those who actually have been taught. For example a little while ago everyone was talking about a guy who tied up two girls and one died and one went to hospital (I didn't follow it too much so I don't know all the details) from what I gathered it would of all been avoided if he had a knife on hand to cut the rope.

Also no Sazhe dominance is what you and your submissive make of it and even at your age it is not too late.

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