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Ionium -> What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 12:02:19 PM)

I realize this is a strange question, but, I abhor the idea of 'penetration' into/inside my body, so it's a strange concept to me.

Basically, I'm trying to better understand women (and maybe gay men as an aside), by asking what YOU like about penetration.

I know what I like about penetration, but I'm DOING the penetrating. That is, a woman's body is so deliciously desirable, so, fantastically beautiful, so delectably gorgeous, that I want to be INSIDE with my penis (or hands or tongue or whatever - well - mostly penis), and, more importantly, I want to FILL HER with my baby-making cum!

So, I fully understand why "I" wish to penetrate.

But, I can't imagine the other side of the equation. Yuck. Who would want anyone to be inside of THEM?

Why?




kalikshama -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 12:18:07 PM)

Receiving is the Yin to the Yang of penetration.



wittynamehere -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 12:25:24 PM)

Yup, thread complete.
He might as well be saying "strawberry ice cream? yuk.... please explain to me why anyone would want that, it's not what I want at all!"
People aren't all identical, and they want different things.



InHisHeart -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 12:26:40 PM)

I can't think of anything that isn't wonderful about being penetrated. The word "yuck" doesn't come into play at all for me, why do you think it would be yucky? Physically it feels fantastic, emotionally it feels fantastic, everything about it is great in my book.



Darkfeather -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 12:33:04 PM)

Hate to break it to ya, but there are guys out there who do not enjoy being "penetrated" as well. Not that it's yucky, or that its un-natural, just that it does nothing sexually.



LookieNoNookie -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 5:10:21 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ionium

I realize this is a strange question, but, I abhor the idea of 'penetration' into/inside my body, so it's a strange concept to me.

Basically, I'm trying to better understand women (and maybe gay men as an aside), by asking what YOU like about penetration.

I know what I like about penetration, but I'm DOING the penetrating. That is, a woman's body is so deliciously desirable, so, fantastically beautiful, so delectably gorgeous, that I want to be INSIDE with my penis (or hands or tongue or whatever - well - mostly penis), and, more importantly, I want to FILL HER with my baby-making cum!

So, I fully understand why "I" wish to penetrate.

But, I can't imagine the other side of the equation. Yuck. Who would want anyone to be inside of THEM?

Why?




Vogon Prostetnic Jeltz comes to mind.



Leatherprincess4 -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 6:44:44 PM)

I enjoy both penetrating and being penetrated. I guess its normal to be grossed out at the idea at first but don't knock it till you've tried it.



shiftyw -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 6:48:46 PM)

biology.



DesFIP -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 8:09:28 PM)

The majority of the clitoris is inside the body, only the very tip is on the outside. So being penetrated, filled, causes a gentle stroking of the inner clitoris through the tissues of the vagina.

Beyond this, you could get all your nutrients through an IV. But wouldn't you rather have that delicious sensation of food in the mouth? The sheer tactileness of it. The heat or cold, the sense of being filled with empty? Same here.



FieryOpal -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 8:24:45 PM)

This topic is on a thread from January, "What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that peopl[e enjoy]..." http://www.collarchat.com/m_4619115/tm.htm
Unless you are including oral penetration and/or penile penetration in your question. [sm=book.gif]



MasterHypnoMind -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 9:27:21 PM)

Hmm maybe that's the reason you are neither a woman or gay. It is just the way the body is structured and as for anal it is because there are a lot of nerve endings there and so if it is done correctly it feels really good (read an article long time ago ending with her fingering her ass in the shower....one of weirdest conversations ever lol)



Darkfeather -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/8/2014 10:37:24 PM)

yeah, there is a biological reason for nerve endings in and around the butt hole, and for it to "feel good". None of which have to do with penetration or sexual contact, heh. But humans are pretty amazing creatures. As for who likes it and who doesn't, just because something feels good, doesn't mean ya "like it"



ClassAct2006 -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/11/2014 11:31:38 AM)

As a submissive I find even normal missionary position penetrative sex very erotic when done by a dominant man. It's what is in your head which is erotic, that you are being had for his pleasure.



asanaambitions -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/11/2014 11:37:30 AM)

So you get why you'd want to be inside a woman, but don't understand why a woman would want you inside of her? The mental gymnastics men go through is honestly astouding to me. If you honestly don't get why a woman would want to be penetrated, then I really truly believe that you shouldn't be penetrating her. Your lack of empathy and understanding is bizarre and slightly horrifying.



Culdron -> RE: What is it about "penetration" that men/women actually enjoy? (4/20/2014 8:00:41 AM)

From a different point of view: I have spent several sessions with my therapist talking about penetrative sex. I don't really like it. I (like a lot of women) can't come from it, however I do get that submissive feeling from it. That feeling has to be there or else I just can't do it. I end up feeling dirty or used (which I don't like). That said I can understand why people like to do it on both sides of the fence. And I agree with the poster above that said if you can't understand why people like it then you shouldn't be doing it.



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