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ifuwish333 -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/3/2014 1:31:35 AM)
Hi. I would say yes but only if she is endangering herself or others. And only after I have asked calmly and such. If there is no time for these pleasantries then I would just simply not waste time with words.

DerangedUnit -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/3/2014 4:15:03 PM)
yeah i'm generally assertive and really outgoing so the label of "dom" is worthless unless the prove it means something. if i was with them it would depend on what they would consider to be 'talking down'... my owner and i sling jokes back and forth that makes other people scared but for us it's normal... if he says something and i don't respond back with a quick witted jib he will look at me like i'm crazy

crazyml -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/3/2014 4:27:17 PM)
FR Block and delete, you will get a lot of these. As for your question, oh yes. Even the realest sub can talk down to a dom. They would be unlikely to talk down to their dom. A while back at an informal munch after the LFF (London Fetish Fair) a dom came up to me to demand that I punish my sub playmate for telling him to "Fuck off". I asked him what might have caused her to say such an unsubly thing, it turned out that he'd been upset that she didn't address him appropriately. It seems that he expected her to address him as "Sir". I told him to fuck off.

GotSteel -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/3/2014 4:29:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ali3findomme This is a reply I got from a 'sub', which was very uncalled for. I hope you've reported the racist stuff to the mods by now.

Born2BBound72 -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/20/2014 1:23:21 AM)
The only time I have ever talked down to a Dom is when his manners were deplorable, or he incorrectly assumed that I would submit to him regardless of the fact that I was his or not. I don't feel an obligation to submit to anyone except the one whose collar I wear, and those that he designates. I do believe in being polite, courteous, and gracious, as being a lady and a decent human being precede my role as a submissive.

SweetnStormySub -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/20/2014 8:49:39 AM)
I would suggest that OP lacks the requisite maturity to Domme anyone. It requires a maturity and control that her indignation over such a slight is a bit dramatic and petulant. Perhaps she may want to learn at the feet of One with wisdom and experience. I tend to view the teenaged Doms/Dommes with a bit of a jaundiced eye. It seems to speak to a "I am such a badass" mentality. And yes, this sub does indeed have the balls to talk down to anyone, regardless of title, who presumes to be rude or boorish just because they feel entitled to do so. And for the record, I LOVE the Paypal Princess moniker. ^5s on that gem.

Stedman -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/20/2014 11:12:47 AM)
What is a PayPal princess?

Born2BBound72 -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/20/2014 9:12:35 PM)
quote: A while back at an informal munch after the LFF (London Fetish Fair) a dom came up to me to demand that I punish my sub playmate for telling him to "Fuck off". I asked him what might have caused her to say such an unsubly thing, it turned out that he'd been upset that she didn't address him appropriately. It seems that he expected her to address him as "Sir". I told him to fuck off. That's pretty much my response to a Dom who isn't mine throwing demands at me. Well, let me back up. I would first politely and calmly and respectfully point out that I am A sub, not HIS sub, and as such am not subject to his demands. Then I would give him an equally respectful moniker, such as Mr. (insert name here). If that didn't appease him, then I would kindly suggest that he take a long walk off of a short pier with cement water wings.

RockaRolla -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/21/2014 9:24:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GotSteel quote: ORIGINAL: ali3findomme This is a reply I got from a 'sub', which was very uncalled for. I hope you've reported the racist stuff to the mods by now. Bah. Who needs the report system when you can cause needless drama?

ItalianStallion -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/27/2014 2:43:52 AM)
As a person who hopes to learn how to serve women, I would never speak down to a Domme. I do not message profiles asking for "findomme" because I think that steps across the boundary from a relationship to a professional arrangement. And many of us feel the same. But I would still never be impolite to a Domme.

Damacis -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/28/2014 5:01:41 PM)
Either you're a douche, or you aren't. Sub, domme, has little to do with it.

starkem -> RE: Would real subs ever speak down to a dom? (10/29/2014 12:50:20 PM)
I love your answer Damacis. Bottom line. LOL

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