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al1986 -> i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 3:07:02 AM)
I am be to this willing and wanting to be trained collared and owned by a mistress

al1986 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 3:18:05 AM)
Please I hope there is a mistress out there who thinks I'm worthy enough to train

AToy4aMistress -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 3:47:42 AM)
good luck, but be aware most under 25yo need your bank details & a significant donation as the feel their comments of humiliation are your educatation

al1986 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 4:03:12 AM)
Oh I c

al1986 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 4:27:46 AM)
Any suggestions

searching4mysir -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 4:53:21 AM)
Al, Most women don't get anything out of the online thing without a real relationship behind it. D/s is going to cost you, either cash or time (in terms of developing a relationship.). Women are not fetish delivery services. We really don't care what gets you off until we care about you.

freedomdwarf1 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 5:24:05 AM)
As searching said - most women don't care about a guy's fantasy unless they have some other vested interest in the person themselves. I think the only way you are going to find that sort of arrangement is to have your wallet raped. IMHO, you can't be "trained" online. Training is pretty much synonimous to a punishment regime and in most circumstances, abusive rather than educational. If the dominant gives you any sort of instruction, you do it to your comfort zones, not that of the dominant. Example: if they would give you a spanking for some misdemeanour, there's no way on earth are you going to strike yourself in the same way or as soft/hard as they would for real. Personally, I think all this online shit is just fantasy thinking and not worth a wank compared to real life. Just my [sm=2cents.gif]

al1986 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 5:34:29 AM)
Oh OK I understand hun ty your sweet

masmiss -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 5:55:54 AM)
Your profile is blank and while your main profile pic is OK, the dick pic is a big turn-off for most women. I have zero interest in a man's body parts unless I am in a relationship with him. Am I right in guessing that you've been watching femdom porn and now believe all you have to do is put yourself out there for the imaginary hoards of dominant women to fight over? Stick around the forums, read and learn.

al1986 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 5:58:01 AM)
No not all I'm just new to this whole thing

masmiss -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 6:23:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: al1986 No not all I'm just new to this whole thing Then you need to make an effort to attract a woman.

al1986 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 6:43:08 AM)
Okay hun thank you

shadowborn61 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 7:04:13 AM)
OP Being a male submissive is tough because there are so many of us and so few Dominant Women that you have to make yourself stand out. You have much going for you, You are young look to be in reasonably good shape and decent looking. So my suggestions for you are: do a little research on your local BDSM community, You might try FetLife.com and do a search for groups in your area. Most groups hold meet and greets and munches that are usually at a local restaurant and low key (vanilla clothing). Most groups have attendance guidelines that you must meet before you can attend their non-vanilla events so ask questions. Also do not rule out serving an older Dominant Woman because they will have the experience to hopefully work out what you are looking for vs what they are looking for and make sure you ask a lot of questions be sure that as many of your wants/needs match a prospective Domme's as possible do not just jump in because you want to serve that usually ends badly for all involved. Good luck to you.

Miyani -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 9:39:02 AM)
And stop calling people hun.

windchymes -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 9:48:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Miyani And stop calling people hun. Why? I checked his profile, and he's from northern NJ. There and around the Philadelphia area, it's a common greeting in everyday conversation there. It means nothing and isn't meant to be condescending. Stop speaking for everyone. You could ask him not to call YOU hun. If he actually talks to you.

freedomdwarf1 -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 9:56:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes quote: ORIGINAL: Miyani And stop calling people hun. Why? I checked his profile, and he's from northern NJ. There and around the Philadelphia area, it's a common greeting in everyday conversation there. It means nothing and isn't meant to be condescending. Stop speaking for everyone. You could ask him not to call YOU hun. If he actually talks to you. Sorry to disagree with you... I find anyone using slang terms for greetings equally repugnant. Like our northerners calling people people 'chuck' or 'love'. Then you get a lot of people from India referring to others as 'dear'. I find it extremely condescending, and I'm not the only one. If you don't know the person fairly well, don't use familiarity terminology - it's not right or proper. Regardless of kink/vanilla, using familiar or personal references in a greeting is just rude.

Miyani -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 9:57:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1 quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes quote: ORIGINAL: Miyani And stop calling people hun. Why? I checked his profile, and he's from northern NJ. There and around the Philadelphia area, it's a common greeting in everyday conversation there. It means nothing and isn't meant to be condescending. Stop speaking for everyone. You could ask him not to call YOU hun. If he actually talks to you. Sorry to disagree with you... I find anyone using slang terms for greetings equally repugnant. Like our northerners calling people people 'chuck' or 'love'. Then you get a lot of people from India referring to others as 'dear'. I find it extremely condescending, and I'm not the only one. If you don't know the person fairly well, don't use familiarity terminology - it's not right or proper. Regardless of kink/vanilla, using familiar or personal references in a greeting is just rude. This. Being overly familiar with strangers is not attractive.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 11:03:55 AM)
One, I don't believe a person can really be "'trained" online. There is no real physical interaction between the two people and, once the computer is turned off, all bets are off. You should either get to know someone first in real life & ask if she will train you or else expect to pay for it. Two, I think any slang terms as a name for someone you don't know is just rude. I know I don't like being called hun, honey, sweetie, or anything like that by someone I don't have that relationship with. NBMG

searching4mysir -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/10/2014 11:45:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: al1986 Okay hun thank you Get rid of the pet names when talking to strangers. It isn't endearing at all.

ThePrincessKali -> RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or through txt (4/13/2014 2:20:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Miyani And stop calling people hun. Ahaha I was just about to say that.

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