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SylvereApLeanan -> RE: My New Mistress (4/13/2014 6:52:35 PM)
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My first piece of advice on buying your mistress toys is - DON'T.
For one thing, if she has no experience with toys so far, then she has no idea what she will like and what she won't. She might like a vibrating bullet, a Hitachi style wand, one of those butterfly things, or a realistic dildo covered in UR3 skin. There is just know way to know what her individual tastes will be. There's also a chance she won't like toys at all. I know I find them distracting at best and annoying as fuck the rest of the time. If someone wanted to buy me a toy, I'd tell them GTFO with that thing and get me a hot erotica novel or some lesbian hentai instead. We will get way more use out of that. Seriously.
If you decide to ignore the first piece of advice, then my second piece is to wait to buy them until you can go to the sex shop together. Let her pick out something that appeals to her. She may prefer a Feeldoe or a Doc Johnson that looks and feels real or she may prefer something smooth and brightly colored. You can ask the sales clerk for recommendations on which items are good quality and which are likely to break after a few uses. If it's anything like the sex shops I've visited, the staff will know the answers to those questions. Trust me. I suggest picking something fairly inexpensive just in case she doesn't like it. There's no sense in wasting money if it turns out she hates the thing.
As far as oral goes, the best advice I can give you is to work out a signal system. That way she doesn't have to worry about forming coherent words to direct you to the right spot and you don't have to keep looking up to see where she's pointing. I use little taps on the cheek to tell my partners when to move to one side or the other and I either tap under their chin or press lightly on the top of their head to tell them to move up and down. Since you're into pony play, you two might prefer to put you in a collar with a ring attached on either side and then clip a short leash to each ring so she can use them like reins. Aim for the spot where you can taste blood under her skin. That's going to be where the most nerves are, but be prepared to move if it's too intense for her. This is where the signal system comes in handy.
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