DesFIP
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Joined: 11/25/2007
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Match: it's a lot easier to deal with the physical than the psychological. More people will have an emotional trigger from being degraded than from fun physical play. I'm really sorry that you don't understand that.
And I posted what I did in the hopes that the op wouldn't assume that he could blindly follow your suggestion. Because the odds of that backfiring on him are large.
What she means by violated or molested is going to be specific to her. She might find someone using her kitchen utensils totally off putting. I know lots of women who won't let anything back into the kitchen after it's been used for play. And who would be pissed at losing their favorite spatula or their pizza wheel.
The only one who knows what turns her on in the specific is her. Hopefully the op will decide to ask her instead. Honestly, someone who has no clue of how to get into a person's head, how to elicit open communication, is not someone I would suggest anyone plays with. I just see too much chance of it going wrong.
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