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FieryOpal -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 2:16:46 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

Care to share what your personal problem with me is that you feel the need to write nasty comments on every thread I start?

If I may Kali (since I'm partial to kittycats, esp. ones that glow in the dark), Lookie has an offbeat sense of humor.

So do I, so I kinda get his posting style. I'm weird like that. [:)]




theshytype -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 4:42:16 AM)

Fr

If you feel offended that people assume you're a slut because of your large breasts, while you're assuming women with fake breasts are sluts, I don't have sympathy.

Maybe a poor body image or sold on the idea of what a woman's body ought to look like due to society's training, but that doesn't equate to slut.
(For the record, I do not have fakes. Don't plan on ever getting them.)

So, no, I don't see large breasted women and assume slut.
I'm thinking those who do are more or less hoping she's a slut.




ThePrincessKali -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 9:20:42 AM)

I don't feel that way at all. Many of my friends have enlarged breasts and aren't sluts. I was merely stating that breast size is not something someone can control unless they've had surgery, I wasn't trying to insinuate that women with augmentations were sluts.


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ORIGINAL: theshytype

Fr

If you feel offended that people assume you're a slut because of your large breasts, while you're assuming women with fake breasts are sluts, I don't have sympathy.

Maybe a poor body image or sold on the idea of what a woman's body ought to look like due to society's training, but that doesn't equate to slut.
(For the record, I do not have fakes. Don't plan on ever getting them.)

So, no, I don't see large breasted women and assume slut.
I'm thinking those who do are more or less hoping she's a slut.





ThePrincessKali -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 9:25:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

Care to share what your personal problem with me is that you feel the need to write nasty comments on every thread I start?

If I may Kali (since I'm partial to kittycats, esp. ones that glow in the dark), Lookie has an offbeat sense of humor.

So do I, so I kinda get his posting style. I'm weird like that. [:)]


I see. I guess when someone writes, what I consider, rude comments that aren't contributing to the discussion on two of my threads within a few minutes of each other it seems more like a personal attack. Which I feel is unwarranted.




shiftyw -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 10:15:07 AM)

I can be slutty and I have breasts, I don't really see the correlation though.

I will say, I work REALLY hard to look professional and not like "teacher in a porno" when I'm wearing a suit. I have a weird shaped body and it is really hard to find clothes that don't make me look awful because they are baggy or too tight. Button down shirts pretty much don't have a place in my wardrobe. So that could easily be part of this assumption I think.




KYsissy -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 3:24:42 PM)

What is the difference between a slut and a bitch?

A slut sleeps with everyone. A bitch sleeps with everyone but you.




MercTech -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 5:38:05 PM)



Just sayin...


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LookieNoNookie -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 6:17:09 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali






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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

This is a topic I have dealt with since I was a young teenager. I would like to get some males point of view on this as well as women. I know I started a similar topic recently on sexual harassment of women but this is a bit different. Do you assume that because a woman has a large bust that she is automatically "easy" or a slut? I mean obviously (plastic surgery aside) someone's bust size is genetic so logically that wouldn't make sense. It's essentially that same as assuming because someone was born with blonde hair that they're stupid. But I have fought against this since I was about 14 years old and started "developing." It was rumored that I was a slut when I was in high school, even though the most I had done sexually with a guy was kiss until I was a senior and it was all because I had a big chest. I've been accused of "looking like a hooker" because I was wearing a fitted top or moderately low cut top because of my breast size. Even when I'm with girls wearing much more provocative tops who had smaller boobs. I have had men tell me to my face I had "a great rack." And after saying it was rude and have had responses like, "well you shouldn't have them out then." I don't dress overly provocative. I mean I don't wear turtlenecks every day but why should I have to? So think about it, even if it's subconscious, do you assume a woman is a slut because she has large breasts? Have other women experienced this?


Princess, I totally get it....completely. You have an unusual, not horrifying, but aside from the general populace, something a bit distinct...some may call it a gift....I too have been frustrated (having the 3rd largest penis on Earth....I actually am only one of 7 men on the planet that can actually come....several hours before I even arrive).

It is a dilemma.

Personally, I've learned to deal with it.


Care to share what your personal problem with me is that you feel the need to write nasty comments on every thread I start?


Honey...you need to find the humor button. (It's over the the left, just above the "oh fuck...I just got butt hurt for no reason, gosh, I guess I should consider that all things in life are not solely about "me"" button).

(There was nothing nasty about any of my words above written).




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/15/2014 6:18:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MercTech



Just sayin...


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Even if I did.....




theshytype -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/16/2014 6:16:59 AM)

Thank you for clarifying. I didn't assume that you were insinuating that. That's why I used "Fr" as it wasn't really in direct reply to anyone here. Most of the people on this board are pretty good at staying away from generalizations. It was more of a mini-rant as I have heard it done before. A woman with large breasts, complaining in one breath about her misfortune only to thrust similar accusations at someone else under the next breath.


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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

I don't feel that way at all. Many of my friends have enlarged breasts and aren't sluts. I was merely stating that breast size is not something someone can control unless they've had surgery, I wasn't trying to insinuate that women with augmentations were sluts.


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ORIGINAL: theshytype

Fr

If you feel offended that people assume you're a slut because of your large breasts, while you're assuming women with fake breasts are sluts, I don't have sympathy.

Maybe a poor body image or sold on the idea of what a woman's body ought to look like due to society's training, but that doesn't equate to slut.
(For the record, I do not have fakes. Don't plan on ever getting them.)

So, no, I don't see large breasted women and assume slut.
I'm thinking those who do are more or less hoping she's a slut.







JeffBC -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/16/2014 9:31:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali
So think about it, even if it's subconscious, do you assume a woman is a slut because she has large breasts?

No. In addition I'm personally aware of WIDE SWATHES of men who don't think in terms of "slut" at all. So the question becomes, "What are you going to attract all these slut lovers? It isn't just your body shape.

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Have other women experienced this?

Almost assuredly. I have the same question for them.




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