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is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 4:13:34 PM   
straponlover2014


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Status: offline 		i used to always have problems finding good real femdom porn, good high quality stuff online. (ahem) now it just seems to be sprouting up everywhere...is this going to be a norm these days.../
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if it is then AWESOME!
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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 4:48:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know, as i haven't checked lately. What I do remember is the strap-on porn I've seen, the women all look and talk like they're bored and getting nothing out of it. That's a drag & something I can't identify with at all. It's too bad really.

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 5:33:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: straponlover2014

i used to always have problems finding good real femdom porn, good high quality stuff online. (ahem) now it just seems to be sprouting up everywhere...is this going to be a norm these days.../

if it is then AWESOME!


WTF is "good real femdom porn, good high quality stuff"? Can you really say porn, as staged, and good high quality in the same sentence? I can't.

Going by your user name, I take it you're looking for strap-on sex scenes. I hope you know that you can't just go out there and expect a Dominant woman to want to fuck you.

A pro-Domme isn't going to do it. Invest 2-4 years as being her client and give her huge amounts of tips and she might consider it. Maybe. Not all Dommes are into that.

Personally, I'm not going to fuck or get fucked by a sub I'm not in a long-term committed relationship with. No amount of money can buy that, fella.

A word of warning you should take to heart. Don't ruin yourself with porn contamination for any chance at being suitable for ownership to a Mistress, unless you're fine sticking with Rosie and her five sisters the rest of your life.

[Edited to correct miscount]

< Message edited by FieryOpal -- 4/14/2014 6:30:18 PM >

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 5:42:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: straponlover2014

i used to always have problems finding good real femdom porn, good high quality stuff online. (ahem) now it just seems to be sprouting up everywhere...is this going to be a norm these days.../
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if it is then AWESOME!



How depressing.

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 6:51:25 PM   
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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 6:56:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Has nothing to do with 'bad attitudes'. We are interested in real life participation with our partners. We don't require porn to stimulate our senses ... our relationships and what we do works for us.

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 7:04:12 PM   
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such bad attitudes....


No. Just lots of lousy interactions with "sub" men who tell me I'm fake because I don't enjoy strap-on play. Apparently femdom porn features strap-on play as the very essence of female domination.

How depressing.



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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 7:15:44 PM   
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i used to always have problems finding good real femdom porn, good high quality stuff online. (ahem) now it just seems to be sprouting up everywhere...is this going to be a norm these days.../
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if it is then AWESOME!



Kink.com keeps adding more subsites. I only watch m/m bondage porn and they added "30 minutes of torment" that looks interesting - but its TOO MUCH - too much close up of dick in ass, dick in mouth, you name it...and not enough just sensual struggling and hot bondage. I wish that "bondage jeopardy" had the budget that kink.com does. They have good looking guys in bondage but the production values are pretty low and they don't have the amazing gear. Damn, what I would do for a few hours with their water tank and a boytoy.

I can't speak for the strapon stuff since I don't watch it (unless it's in the mirror, lol) - but I think there's just more porn in general available so you can take your pick.

I've been loving the gay bondage stuff on gaybreathcontrol.com too. But some of it's too over the top for me. As a femdom with serious breath control hot buttons some of it just makes me insanely hot but other ones freak me out. Most of my breath control lusts stay safely in my brain.

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 7:36:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: masmiss

No. Just lots of lousy interactions with "STRAIGHT sub" men who tell me I'm fake because I don't enjoy strap-on play. Apparently femdom porn features strap-on play as the very essence of female domination.

How depressing.


There, fixed it for you.

It would appear my warning arrives too late and contamination has already set in. What is it with these (mostly married) middle-aged guys feeming for females to be their cock-providers?

They should get together and have a circle jerk. They don't actually want a real-life woman for a real-life relationship.

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 8:44:19 PM   
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is this going to be a norm these days


It's going to get better! With the advances in 3D technology and first-person POV camera work, soon you will be able to put your ass to the monitor and live it for real. Well, almost real. The next step would be for some enterprising soul to design a monitor with a built-in dildo that would be interactive with the porn video. If Disney can do it, I don't see why the porn industry couldn't.

And another thought - we already have touch screen technology. Why can't that be adapted to porn so people could touch whatever they fancy?


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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/14/2014 10:12:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: straponlover2014

i used to always have problems finding good real femdom porn, good high quality stuff online. (ahem) now it just seems to be sprouting up everywhere...is this going to be a norm these days.../
\

if it is then AWESOME!



No....it's just you.

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/15/2014 1:36:29 PM   
straponlover2014


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No....it's just you.

doubtful, LookieNoNookie

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/15/2014 1:40:23 PM   
straponlover2014


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tone it down, its just a forum, masmiss

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/15/2014 1:43:09 PM   
straponlover2014


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WTF is "good real femdom porn, good high quality stuff"? Can you really say porn, as staged, and good high quality in the same sentence? I can't.

Going by your user name, I take it you're looking for strap-on sex scenes. I hope you know that you can't just go out there and expect a Dominant woman to want to fuck you.

A pro-Domme isn't going to do it. Invest 2-4 years as being her client and give her huge amounts of tips and she might consider it. Maybe. Not all Dommes are into that.

Personally, I'm not going to fuck or get fucked by a sub I'm not in a long-term committed relationship with. No amount of money can buy that, fella.

A word of warning you should take to heart. Don't ruin yourself with porn contamination for any chance at being suitable for ownership to a Mistress, unless you're fine sticking with Rosie and her five sisters the rest of your life.



then why have i recieved 5-6 responses to my profile....?

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/15/2014 3:41:43 PM   
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then why have i recieved 5-6 responses to my profile....?

Views are more cursory than indicative of genuine interest and don't mean anything. Perhaps they were curious to see who was perving their profiles?

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/15/2014 6:04:47 PM   
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Views are more cursory than indicative of genuine interest and don't mean anything. Perhaps they were curious to see who was perving their profiles?


quote:

obviously i dont have to perve

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/16/2014 5:14:34 AM   
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then why have i recieved 5-6 responses to my profile....?

Views are more cursory than indicative of genuine interest and don't mean anything. Perhaps they were curious to see who was perving their profiles?



Or they, like me, perved your profile to try to get a more rounded view of who you were and if it was worth responding to the thread with an actual answer versus just trolling you or remaining silent.


Most dominant women have no interest in men who have been poisoned (yes, poisoned) by porn. It's a movie, there is nothing reality-based in it.

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/16/2014 5:59:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Men always have and always will be far more into and impressed by porn than women are - the porn industry caters to male fetishes and fantasies just about exclusively.

You're an intelligent adult male so you knew this already.

So why are you surprised that the women here aren't impressed with your porn obsession?

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/16/2014 1:51:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe I'm a minority but I actually like porn. I watch a lot of it when I get off. But I almost never go for actual "porn" porn, you know? I like more amateur stuff because it's nice when I haven't got an actual person to look at, if we put it that way. There's more than one side to porn. If you travel around on the intarwebz for a bit, you'll find that there's good kinds and bad kinds. The bad kinds suck, yeah. But sometimes I find something good. All porn isn't per definition worthless. And as long as you don't use it as your freaking real life guide to sex I don't think it's necessarily evil. People who think porn reflects how things really work are idiots, of course, but if you're smarter than that it can be fun.

Even if 99% of all femdom porn is totally freaking useless. It's made for men, and apparently the porn industry thinks men are all the same. :p Someone should make quality femdom porn "for women" (as in, more than just flashing a pair of latex-covered boobs and a bored-looking actress...)! I get the feeling that "indie" porn or whatever is often a lot better and feels less fake. I'd like that, but with some cute sub guys. :)

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RE: is it me, or.... - 4/16/2014 3:25:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi MissAelle,

I like to poke around xhamster, but I've imposed my own rule NEVER to watch anything containing the word "extreme".

Before my rule was in effect, I stumbled across this woman who produces videos of extreme self-torture. I'm talkin' torture like pouring a container of thumbtacks in her vagina. Of course I had to watch to the end 'cause I HAD to know how she got them back out of her.

I'm sure the video was done with mirrors and possibly some kind of industrial-strength topical anesthetic, but geez - do men get off on this? Do women? It made my pussy hurt, and I'm not talkin' about my cat here.


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