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offers - 4/15/2014 8:25:11 AM

shadowx27

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I've been getting a few offers to be a slave for mistresses. but i don't think i can been a slave for all of them at once. can slaves have more than one mistress even though each is asking from them complete loyalty? i ask because im new to being a slave and i dont want to break any rules or betray anyone's trust

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RE: offers - 4/15/2014 8:34:59 AM

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It's not rocket science.

Re-read your question - it answers itself.
How can you be "completely loyal" to more than one person??
Unless you are able to be in two places at once, it's not physically possible is it.

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RE: offers - 4/15/2014 9:05:39 AM

shadowx27

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thanks, guess i was over thinking it

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RE: offers - 4/15/2014 9:06:25 AM

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I think it is possible to be completely loyal to any number of people, provided that loyalty to one does not come at the cost of being disloyal to another.

Now, that being said: shadow, what form of 'loyalty' are these various mistresses requiring?

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RE: offers - 4/15/2014 9:32:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I think it is possible to be completely loyal to any number of people, provided that loyalty to one does not come at the cost of being disloyal to another.

Now, that being said: shadow, what form of 'loyalty' are these various mistresses requiring?

Sod's law says that one domme will want one thing while another domme wants something else.
Unless you can juggle them so that both are completely satisfied independently of each other, it's not possible.
You can be loyal, yes, but not "completely" to more than one.
By doing or being something for one of them would usually mean ignoring or setting aside the other, even if temporarily.
So, by definition, you aren't being "completely loyal" to one when being loyal to the other - it's a mutually exclusive term.

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RE: offers - 4/15/2014 6:28:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Now, that being said: shadow, what form of 'loyalty' are these various mistresses requiring?

The financial kind? How else would a new, very young, inexperienced sub male get so many offers?

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RE: offers - 4/16/2014 5:50:12 AM

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How many "Mistresses" can you afford to pay to let you be their slave?

Sarcasm aside, for your own personal safety, you probably want to actually get to know the person before you agree to be their slave - it's a relationship, nothing more, nothing less. You wouldn't agree to marry someone you barely know....don't agree to be someone's slave when you don't know them.

That all of this is ultimately relationship-based - whether that relationship is friendship or something more - always seems to come as a shock to newbies.

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RE: offers - 5/8/2014 4:52:19 PM

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It seems like you would need to discuss this with the Dom/Dommes you intend to "slave" for. If they don't have a problem with sharing your services then it shouldn't be a problem.

I'm not selfish, just stubborn and usually right. LadyDee

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