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MineBriner -> Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 9:20:03 AM)

I have been looking for a slave interested in online relationship to start off for over a year now.

I always mention my likes and dislikes as well as mention that I have been involved in a relationship which didnt work out since my slave couldn't spare time for this and was not dedicated.

Still I am unable to find a slave...

P.S: I also mention we can have a trail if they are interested.

Please identify any thing I should do more to find a slave.



freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 9:24:49 AM)

You'll find that most on here are real-life people that do this shit and live it for real, not as an online thing.

I personally, won't do online because it's not "real" for me.
If I want porn or cam shit, there are plenty of sites I can get that for free.



dcnovice -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 10:08:56 AM)

FR

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQ7uXX9K7Sk

All the best for your search!



searching4mysir -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 10:38:15 AM)

FR

You have a basically empty profile with nothing about what your slave gets out of it. Why should your slave submit to you and not to any one of the thousands of other desktop dumbinants that are out there? What makes you special? What do you bring to the table?

Your profile reads as if you are young, dumb, and full of cum.



angelikaJ -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 10:47:32 AM)

Your profile comes across as you having a sense of being entitled.

Relationships (even on-line ones) need time to develop.
Trust is not easily built if one is impatient.
And even though you don't say much in your profile, you aren't coming across as someone who would be interesting to know.
And you don't come across as patient.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 11:30:40 AM)

For most in the lifestyle, online is useless. There may be times that it's an adjunct to an already established, real life relationship but starting off that way...no.

Referring to yourself as 'Master' in your profile instead of "I" comes across to me as pompous. 'Master doesn't like this. Master doesn't like that.' We're all just people here, and in the case of online, anonymous people at that. Nobody gives a fig what you like and don't like until they've gotten to know you and decided you are a good match for them.

Dial it back, and present yourself as you would to someone you meet in a library or coffee shop whom you'd like to get to know better. Honorifics (if used at all) don't come until you're in an established relationship. Until then, you're just another set of pixels on the screen looking for the same thing millions of other pixels are looking for.

What makes you unique? What makes you desirable to a partner? What specific qualities do you possess that would inspire someone to submit to you? Until you can answer those questions, there will be dust bunnies in your inbox.

Best of luck in your search, and welcome to the boards. It was a good idea to post as there is a lot you can learn here.



MineBriner -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 11:55:48 AM)

Thank you every one for replying and providing valuable input on the query. Judging by your replies I believe have so much to learn still. The first thing I am going to do now is to find answers to the questions referred here.

I hope I can improve alot. However, if you people still want to help me then you are welcome lets be friends and keep interacting



MsLadySue -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 12:27:47 PM)

I suggest you read this thread from last year So you are a Master



InHisHeart -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 1:42:09 PM)

Although I don't do on-line relationships, I don't see anything in your profile that would grab the attention of someone who does on-line relationships. What do you have to offer someone, what is it about you that would make a slave have the desire to submit to you instead of the countless others on-line?




MineBriner -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 1:49:34 PM)

Basically what. I want to know which details exactly shall I mention? What a slave is looking in an online relationship? What attracts her? Where does she decises I should submit to this guy. Can anyone elaborate?



InHisHeart -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 2:23:56 PM)

On-line isn't my thing but if it were, calling yourself Master would turn me away immediately. My Dom is my Master but he's not Master to anyone else and I didn't call him or consider him Master until we were in a relationship.

Say something about who you are, your interests, hobbies, what you like to do in your spare time (read, go to the gym, music, art, do volunteer work, etc.) what you're looking for in a relationship, not just what you want someone to do for you but what you can do for them. If someone sees that they have things in common with you, you have a better chance of finding someone.

You also said in your profile......Master doesn't like to be told no. Does that mean you expect someone to have no hard limits and you won't respect their hard limits. That in itself I think would turn people away.




MistressDarkArt -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (4/16/2014 8:01:56 PM)

I forgot to mention what is GOOD about your profile! I like that you left out a list of kinks and added general interests. Maybe you could expand a bit on those vanilla interests in your narrative.

Also, some kind of picture would be helpful. If you would prefer not to show your face, get creative with angles, shadows and poses that give a general idea without a clear view of your features. You can search male profiles on the other side for examples; there are lots of good ideas.



slaveoubliette -> RE: Looking for a slave since a year (6/7/2014 5:56:58 PM)

go to a munch first than move to online and see what develops from that



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