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seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 3:09:42 AM

daggertoe

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I am seeking a professional in the placement of slaves. I'm sure that trainers must do this often. I would like to be contacted by one. The best one . Or given the name of the best one. I don't expect this to happen of course unless by luck I've amused them by this. Anyone with any knowledge on the matter is encouraged to respond and I am sincerely thankful for the time of those that do. I would like to be be in someone's collar soon and would like to find the right placement. I am ignorant of my value as a slave or what class master I am appropriate for. I am willing to compensate professional comoetant man or woman for this.

Please no mail about how I'm a gold digger a slave is property and as such has value.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 3:30:13 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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No such people don't exist because they get laughed out of any BDSM or D/s circle they try and enter.

Unless of course you mean a human trafficker, but they don't tend to advertise online, what with it being highly illegal.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 4:01:27 AM

DarkSteven

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There are no legit trainers.

There is no legal "placement" for money.

If you're more concerned about being in a lifetime TPE relationship soon than that the Owner is a good match for you...

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 5:39:01 AM

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So reality isn't anything like porn, bad romance novels or second life make it out to be. If you're looking for a real relationship the process will be very much like what you've learned from vanilla society. There will be more negotiation as the roles you and your partner are stepping into may vary from the stereotypical ones other vanilla couples are using and there will be better sex but other than that you should think of the process like normal dating.

If you're looking for online sex chat this site isn't setup for that, I'd suggest second life or hiring a professional to play with you.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 6:36:39 AM

DarkSteven

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Uh, folks, this is a female slave asking who could sell her. Note that her English isn't natural - it's her second language. Draw your own conclusions.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 6:55:55 AM

Darkfeather

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This is why I love the internet...

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 7:00:37 AM

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Your profile reads like someone enamoured with Fifty Shades of Gray and/or The Story of O. Be very careful what you wish for, you are likely to get far more than you bargained for.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 1:56:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: daggertoe

I am seeking a professional in the placement of slaves. I'm sure that trainers must do this often. I would like to be contacted by one. The best one . Or given the name of the best one. I don't expect this to happen of course unless by luck I've amused them by this. Anyone with any knowledge on the matter is encouraged to respond and I am sincerely thankful for the time of those that do. I would like to be be in someone's collar soon and would like to find the right placement. I am ignorant of my value as a slave or what class master I am appropriate for. I am willing to compensate professional comoetant man or woman for this.

Please no mail about how I'm a gold digger a slave is property and as such has value.

I am sure that trainers live with the unicorns. Why would someone do all the work for you anyhow? Find ya own master dude.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 2:12:59 PM

JeffBC

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
No such people don't exist because they get laughed out of any BDSM or D/s circle they try and enter.

Unless of course you mean a human trafficker, but they don't tend to advertise online, what with it being highly illegal.

Why? In vanilla terms what this woman is looking for would be called a dating coach or something like that. When you strip all the BDSM-ery out of it she wants some help finding a master. She is willing to pay for said service. Taken as written I see nothing wrong in the entire thing. I'm also not entirely clear how human trafficking applies. Can you pay money to someone else to traffic yourself? I'm guessing not.

Honesty if I was one of those dating coach thingies by trade, local to the OP, and kink-friendly I'd take this up in a heartbeat.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 2:38:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: daggertoe
Or given the name of the best one. I would like to be be in someone's collar soon and would like to find the right placement.

Match.com would probably help you find a suitable match. After all, it's much easier to be a slave to someone you're compatible with
than with a random internet stranger that some other random stranger hooks you up with.

They even offer a guarantee that you'll find your perfect match within 6 months, or you get 6 months free, which seems
like a pretty good bet for your money. Good luck!

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 7:44:23 PM

Darkfeather

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
No such people don't exist because they get laughed out of any BDSM or D/s circle they try and enter.

Unless of course you mean a human trafficker, but they don't tend to advertise online, what with it being highly illegal.

Why? In vanilla terms what this woman is looking for would be called a dating coach or something like that. When you strip all the BDSM-ery out of it she wants some help finding a master. She is willing to pay for said service. Taken as written I see nothing wrong in the entire thing. I'm also not entirely clear how human trafficking applies. Can you pay money to someone else to traffic yourself? I'm guessing not.

Honesty if I was one of those dating coach thingies by trade, local to the OP, and kink-friendly I'd take this up in a heartbeat.

While on the surface it looks completely innocent, we are talking about humans here. Basically you have one kinky female who is asking another kinky dominant to broker their "sale" to a third party. Human nature alone makes the probable outcomes from this situation less than "fruitful". One, the broker takes advantage of said kinky female, exploiting her trust and uses his "trainer" moniker to get free kink and sex. All while "searching for a third party. Another is he exploits the female, "pimping" her out as it were, by charging the third parties with no intention of giving her up to them. These are just two situations I can think up off the top of my head, and given time I could write dozens more, heh

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/17/2014 9:14:44 PM

DesFIP

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Placement is easy enough. Don't slouch like in your avatar. Sit up straight.
Don't sit on the bed, sit in a straight backed chair.

See? You've been placed.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/18/2014 7:28:38 AM

JeffBC

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkfeather
While on the surface it looks completely innocent, we are talking about humans here. Basically you have one kinky female who is asking another kinky dominant to broker their "sale" to a third party. Human nature alone makes the probable outcomes from this situation less than "fruitful"....These are just two situations I can think up off the top of my head, and given time I could write dozens more, heh

Sure, but can you back up your theories with any actual facts or is this just BDSM baloney?

All I can tell you is that there is a direct relationship (no, scratch that -- a perfect fit) with a perfectly normal vanilla job category. Perhaps you think all those people providing matchmaking services are full of it too? What if the matchmaking professional is actually a professional and the expectations of the participants are actually reasonable?

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/18/2014 7:45:38 AM

Chwilfrydig

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If my Southern Lady aunt were to post here, she'd say "Honey, bless your heart - you are beautiful in that picture, but you need to pull your skirt down a little. It probably rode up without you noticin'."

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/18/2014 7:55:28 AM

Darkfeather

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkfeather
While on the surface it looks completely innocent, we are talking about humans here. Basically you have one kinky female who is asking another kinky dominant to broker their "sale" to a third party. Human nature alone makes the probable outcomes from this situation less than "fruitful"....These are just two situations I can think up off the top of my head, and given time I could write dozens more, heh

Sure, but can you back up your theories with any actual facts or is this just BDSM baloney?

All I can tell you is that there is a direct relationship (no, scratch that -- a perfect fit) with a perfectly normal vanilla job category. Perhaps you think all those people providing matchmaking services are full of it too? What if the matchmaking professional is actually a professional and the expectations of the participants are actually reasonable?

Here you run into a whole mess of problems. In the vanilla world, you have two things that usually keep people honest. Word of mouth, and reputation. If any person wants to be a legitimate job placement broker, it is their reputation as an honest matchmaker, that allows them to get and keep clients. No one would go to a job broker, if they heard bad things about them correct? So reputation and word of mouth, keep vanilla brokers, usually, on the up-and-up. In the kink world, where people are less likely to talk about their sexual proclivities openly, it becomes harder to get word of mouth and reputation references. You simply can't call a BDSM version of angie's list to see if that slave placement broker is kosher.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/18/2014 10:57:13 AM

Musicmystery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: daggertoe

I am seeking a professional in the placement of slaves. I'm sure that trainers must do this often. I would like to be contacted by one. The best one . Or given the name of the best one. I don't expect this to happen of course unless by luck I've amused them by this. Anyone with any knowledge on the matter is encouraged to respond and I am sincerely thankful for the time of those that do. I would like to be be in someone's collar soon and would like to find the right placement. I am ignorant of my value as a slave or what class master I am appropriate for. I am willing to compensate professional comoetant man or woman for this.

Please no mail about how I'm a gold digger a slave is property and as such has value.

It's obvious, isn't it?

You're looking for a Fairy Godmother to wave her wand and have Kinky Prince Charming be your Sugar Daddy.

Of course, "the best one" would naturally command top dollar for these services, and as you have more value as a slave than in payment -- or better yet, both -- you'd likely be expected to work as a prostitute for some years first to pay your way . . . or even more likely, simply taken and forced to be a prostitute (which is far more profitable).

I see two happier possible scenarios:
1) You're an idiot, and will grow out of this silliness;
2) You're a troll, and will get bored and move on to another forum.

But, if you're convinced Fairy Godmothers are the answer, try wearing your glass slippers and hanging out in pumpkin patches.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/18/2014 11:21:04 AM

SeekingTrinity

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~FRing it~

In all honesty, the only "professional slave trainers and brokers" I've ever heard of go by another name...pimps. I've honestly never heard of legitimate slave trainers and brokers outside of the stuff of BDSM fantasyland.

OP, your best bet is to find a dominant on your own, rather than trying to make this fantasy stuff reality. You stand a much better chance of finding the right person for you...and avoiding the sad reality that is human trafficking. It happens more than you think and it ruins lives. Count on yourself to find your dominant.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/18/2014 5:23:25 PM

KnightofMists

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quote:

ORIGINAL: daggertoe

I am seeking a professional in the placement of slaves. I'm sure that trainers must do this often. I would like to be contacted by one. The best one . Or given the name of the best one. I don't expect this to happen of course unless by luck I've amused them by this. Anyone with any knowledge on the matter is encouraged to respond and I am sincerely thankful for the time of those that do. I would like to be be in someone's collar soon and would like to find the right placement. I am ignorant of my value as a slave or what class master I am appropriate for. I am willing to compensate professional comoetant man or woman for this.

Please no mail about how I'm a gold digger a slave is property and as such has value.

Any trainer worth his weight in gold of slaves do not contact... They are contacted by applicants seeking placement into slavehood.

I can only say submit your application and I will add it to the list of other applicants aspiring to slavehood. Right now their is 665 ahead of you and I will get to you when your number gets to the top of the list.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/21/2014 5:14:55 PM

daggertoe

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Wow I wish I would have said hey is anyone an expert matchmaker in the beam community because I'm a little concerned that I might devote myself entirely to master sir so and so, who ended up telling me go get on down the road in three months, like he did to three other girls this same year, despite a sufficient courting time that is never sufficient. I have had some unreal predicaments due to individuals I'd rather not have met outside of bdsm and here.
The community portions of the many subcultures here are pretty well knitted. I fond it hard to believe that between the artistic and creative persons here in combination with the submissive's need to find employment that allows them absolute availability to their keepers; that no one has said to themselves, "there are a ton of slaves that are truely missing out on what a true....oh blah blah blah deep profound shit here, and I'm pretty active in the community. I could really make adifference for the community and my house by the potential revenue setting people up that have zero desire to make their social relationships based on...blah blah privacy issue, by setting up the sincere with the sincere." I suppose that would come from the mind of troll, gold digger, phoney, your insult here. What a fucking retard I must be.
So basically fuck you haters, you really aren't an ellitest bastards (cuz if you were you'd be hanging out with.me) your just hung up on the wrongs you may or may not have experienced dealing with this site in the past. Guess what fakes and greed are in every group in every class everyday. Stop fucking whining about it because your in the "lifestyle". You should be thankful you have this sexual deviation at all. Each and everyone of us get away with shit day to day that no other non abusive sexual coupling does. And that my friends is based soely on this type, our type, the twisteds honesty with ourselves and potential mates. So put on your big kid panties and handle your shit.

I would like to address the matter of money for just one moment. No. You know what.I'm good on that because anyone that is seriouous about spending a lifetime in this "lifestyle" (also if this is a style of life to you please move the fuck on to your next fad because that is exactly the problem we all have with the site and the people) than you understand the importance of money.

Also if anyone posted positively on this thread I'm sorry to have your name associated with all of this and I didn't get to your post but I appreciate the effort you put into the cause for safer slave handling practices and again I'm sorry I wasn't able to read it. The disappointment with the first few posts just wore me out..

Yes lots of grammer errs and spelling sentence structure clarity and ability to stick to and deliver concepts and developing ideas. I did not intend this to be a rant. Maybe I should be a bitter person now because you did this you megalomaniac overlooked posters.

Fuck you, Heidi.

No that was joke. I'm ok. I'm gonna walk my dog and go for a quick swim. Yum.

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RE: seeking an expert in the placement of slaves - 4/21/2014 5:17:34 PM

daggertoe

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Damn it I'm twisted on the spelling mistakes alone. It's an anger post though so spending time to edit just isn't allowed to be high on my priorities.

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