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wetrope -> Break a trust (11/22/2004 11:14:38 AM)
But what happens when you break a trust, when u tell a 1/2 truth, what does ur master do then sub???

siamsa24 -> RE: Break a trust (11/22/2004 11:30:28 AM)
For me, I cannot lie to my Dom. I love him too much and could never lie to him. However, if I ever did and he became aware of it our relationship would be over. The same goes for if he ever lied to me. Trust is vital in a relationship and once that trust is broken it is difficult, if not impossible, to ever regain it. You will always wonder if the person is lying.

velvetvixen -> RE: Break a trust (11/22/2004 11:39:03 AM)
It would be very terrible for me if Master cuaght me in a lie. Half way is all the way in as far as defining a lie.

perverseangelic -> RE: Break a trust (11/22/2004 2:09:11 PM)
I very very very seldom lie to my partner, and then they're little lies like "Nooooo I'm totally NOT getting you that for christmas." If I were a dominant partner, I think I'd be more concerned about -why- my submissive partner lied to me, than with punishing him/her

cynnacent1 -> RE: Break a trust (11/22/2004 2:30:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wetrope But what happens when you break a trust, when u tell a 1/2 truth, what does ur master do then sub??? i would not know what my Master would do. i am certain i'd NOT want to find out first hand. i don't lie. i DO know that it would be a serious situation between the two of us in that the trust between us is of MAJOR importance within our D/s relationship. Any breech of that trust would be highly damaging. i don't see how a 1/2 in any equation related to the subject of truth can still equal a truth. Regardless, a 1/2 truth IS a lie.

IndySubPrincess -> RE: Break a trust (11/29/2004 6:46:16 AM)
I'll tell you what, I know that I would not lie to my Dom (except for maybe the occasional, "i don't know what I'm getting you for your birthday" though I bought it 3 months ago... :) ). I know that just like if I found him lying to me I would not stay in that relationship, I would not expect him to stay in a relationship with me if I lied. If I am so uncomfortable with him or so afraid of him that I would feel the need to lie, I need to evaluate whether or not I should really be in that relationship. IndySubPrincess

proudsub -> RE: Break a trust (11/29/2004 10:45:34 AM)
As most of you know i broke His trust before he became my "Master" and He forgave me.

Estring -> RE: Break a trust (11/29/2004 10:34:45 PM)
Lol. Where are these saint/subs coming from? I would bet that everyone of you have lied to your Master at various times. Little white lies are told all the time. By both Master and sub. I think wetrope is talking about something more serious, but it isn't clear.

mydestinyunfolds -> RE: Break a trust (11/30/2004 10:40:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: siamsa24 For me, I cannot lie to my Dom. I love him too much and could never lie to him. However, if I ever did and he became aware of it our relationship would be over. The same goes for if he ever lied to me. Trust is vital in a relationship and once that trust is broken it is difficult, if not impossible, to ever regain it. You will always wonder if the person is lying. I agree with what Siamsa Said .. I can't lie to my Master. This whole lifestyle is built on trust, so why lie (for me telling half-truths is the same). Being in an LDR trust is first and foremost. … If He can’t trust me and I can’t trust Him then we have nothing. If I did lie it would be over. Not only do I know that my Master wouldn’t put up with a lie from me. I also know that can’t handle lying to Him. If there is something Master has asked me to do and I feel that I can’t, I go to Him and explain why I can’t… we talk about it, then it is up to Him if I am to do it. I think communications the key here.

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