Crouchingtiger77
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Actually, I agree with this (for me, not for all, of course - but I find this idea desirable). I would even take it further to what windchymes referenced about saving one's virginity. Of course, I haven't met these expectations, but in retrospect, I wish I could say that I did. And I wish that growing up, there was a more prominent conservative influence in my life to caution me.
I very much enjoy the idea of being "unwrapped" for the one man who would ultimately be my Master. I know there's not really any accepted way in educated northeast America to grow up thinking that this bit of misogynistic desire is okay. Ironically, I had to come to kink sites to learn about this rather conservative and patriarchal side of myself.
And while it is a bit of too little, too late, I (and others who desire to do so) can continue to strive to be someone worthy of being unwrapped, despite our past transgressions, in whatever we we define "worthy." Kaliko, thank you and perhaps I , well yes, there is a bit of the scoundrel who does like to stir things up but I also want to be consistent with my life philosophy in what I say as well so I own up to what I said,.
But, now to you Kaliko, I do not care of a persons past life, and what they did or did not do correctly. It is about the future. it is about growth and as to whether a women in the vein of this thread being a virgin, heavens no , or a woman who has been stripped bare in past experiences with other, men, it has nothing to do with that, whatsoever.
And, yes I've seen my share of porn and nude photos. But on a site where one is wanting to meet others, for a man to instead of shaking hands with a woman in public pulling out his cock and offering that to be shaked instead, may be a novel idea but I doubt appreciated, even at places where just kinksters meet and the same if a woman were to offer her pussy to be touched rather than shake hands in a social context.
You can show your breasts, by the way all you like as men in public settings, swimming pools, at the beach, sporting events, working outside always see naked chests of men so what is fair for them is fair for the female as well, I say.
It is just, when opening up to a persons profile and not even have to do that on collar, click on their name and presto, staring in your face is a wet hot pussy or maybe it is dry. It is about that initial 'handshake' whether a real hand shake in a social gathering in real life or the proverbial handshake, the greeting, the salutation upon first seeking a persons nickname and before seeing that seeing their privates below the waist line.
Now, if a master, mistress, Dom / Domme tells their sub, their slave to show it off, first photo up on the site, then great. but not great. The photos can be there, I don't care, but why the first one you see? That is the point.
I know I'm going to get scathed for what I just posted, no matter how one words what they write people will tend to pull what they want if they don't like that.
So let me say again, if you are no longer a virgin, wonderful, I hope every sexual encounter for you was great and wonderful. If you've had your clothing stripped off of you multitude times and had your photo taken great, wonderful , that is not what this is about.
This is about that first greeting, encounter , meaning on page two, any other photos you post and they all, for you females show your wonderful little pussies, great, show em, then any can look and enjoy at the beauty of it. But, that first handshake, if you will, taht is all I should have said, and I didn't and I will still get ripped for this but this is my opinion.
So, rip into me somemore .
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