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chatterbox24 -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 1:42:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BecomingV

Yes, I can. I did. I do! :) To perceive such as you do, that there is some sort of parallel going on between religion and human nature (meaning, that both have "good sides"), you have to think that there is something, anything, good about religion. I don't. If anything, I view religion as a sort of criminal lifestyle that reeks havoc on the rest of us and must be monitored and limited in its ability to harm the lives of others.
you obviously have a very jaded view of religion, and thats fine, you are spewing hate yourself. If you cant see that, I certainly dont know what to tell you. A criminal lifestyle? That is laughable should I group all dom/dommes as the same? Its pretty common for them to think they have the only right answer, so okay, all are narcissistic and condescending. Thats fair isnt it?. Its a bit bizarre to me that all your closest friends have an extensive religious background. Is it possible they were fed by the good teachings that made them who they are today? Since your friends followed these teachings at one time, arent you actually insulting them when you say religion reeks havoc on others. They walked away from their religion so therefore they are now good people?
basically its painting all people with the same brush and obviously your experience has been I dont believe in the doctrines, I dont want to live by them, so therefore I wont. As I said earlier that is a choice and thats a okay eith me. But insulting anyone religious is not. Your posts confuse me, you say you raised your family catholic but only liked the education aspect. What does that mean, you used religion only to get what you wanted out of it?

Kirata, I see no meeting of the minds here. We fundamentally experience the world, morality and goodness in not only different ways, but in opposing ways.

Religions are a "how to" on harming people who are different from their self-described norm. It's not that it taps into the inherent badness in people, it's that it rewards hate and interferes with love. Religion = Evil. Religious people may vary, but as I said, to be not evil, those religious people have to reject the religion and use conscience as their guide.

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I'll grant there are textual passages in the canons of our Western monotheisms that can readily be turned, and have been, to unfortunate purposes. But other factors influence whether or not they will be. Religion has also inspired much love and selfless giving.

Here, you attribute goodness to the influence of religion, where I assign credit to that natural goodness inherent in all healthy humans.

If you're going to claim that religion inspires conflict and violence, assigning the blame to religion instead of to the darker side of human nature, you can't just turn around and deny in the same breath that religion inspires love and selfless giving too, assigning credit for that to our "natural goodness".

K.








GotSteel -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 1:50:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: dcnovice
On a smaller scale, I learned yesterday that a gay friend's dad (a "Christian" pastor) boycotted the son's legal same-sex wedding. A handful of ancient, probably misconstrued, patriarchal text snippets mattered more to him than the life and love of his own flesh and blood.


Sorry to hear that, I have a close friend who's sister had a similar experience, after several years the parents finally came around and accepted her. People's beliefs can change when confronted with reality but saddly it seems to take far too long to happen.




GotSteel -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 2:30:06 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BecomingV
Here, you attribute goodness to the influence of religion, where I assign credit to that natural goodness inherent in all healthy humans.


I've seen the faithful routinely do what appears to be the same thing, assigning all the good to religion and all the bad to human nature. It's typically looked suspiciously like confirmation bias to me, so I'm wondering what is your process for assigning credit?




chatterbox24 -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 2:39:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GotSteel


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ORIGINAL: dcnovice
On a smaller scale, I learned yesterday that a gay friend's dad (a "Christian" pastor) boycotted the son's legal same-sex wedding. A handful of ancient, probably misconstrued, patriarchal text snippets mattered more to him than the life and love of his own flesh and blood.


Sorry to hear that, I have a close friend who's sister had a similar experience, after several years the parents finally came around and accepted her. People's beliefs can change when confronted with reality but saddly it seems to take far too long to happen.

I have two younger children and I dont know what the future holds, its possible either sex could chose to be gay, bisexual, or heterosexual. I will love my children no matter what. They would already know my beliefs, but I would never shun my children over sexuality.
I have a question, if you dont mind. The father, how has he treated his son otherwise? Has he treated him with respect? Is it the issue of the marriage only?




dcnovice -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 6:36:19 AM)

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The idea that I am getting is you seem to think people are still doing and thinking the same things they did hundreds of years ago. I doubt there are many groups that go back in history that don't have examples of bad people. Should we judge everyone today by the actions of people who are long gone.

The idea that I am getting is that you're creating a straw man.




GotSteel -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 7:22:09 AM)


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I have two younger children and I dont know what the future holds, its possible either sex could chose to be gay, bisexual, or heterosexual.


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original: http://www.medicaldaily.com/what-does-discovery-gay-gene-have-do-lgbtq-rights-269404
"Sexual orientation has nothing to do with choice." Bailey told reporters. "Our findings suggest there may be genes at play, and we found evidence for two sets that affect whether a man is gay or straight."


Being born gay isn't a choice, sexual attraction is an instinct, one of our more potent ones. You can test that part yourself, try being sexually attracted to something you previously weren't. If you're already into women then try something else, say porcines. Sexy, sexy porcines. Did it work?




chatterbox24 -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 8:13:41 AM)

Porcines, as in pigs? The thought has never crossed my mind but now that it has ewwwww.
I am not in your body I don't have your mind so I have no idea, I really don't.
I wasn't born yesterday so you have no idea my young past, wink wink.
But I am hetero and so I don't struggle with temptations toward the opposite sex.




crazyml -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 9:56:11 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GotSteel


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ORIGINAL: BecomingV
Here, you attribute goodness to the influence of religion, where I assign credit to that natural goodness inherent in all healthy humans.


I've seen the faithful routinely do what appears to be the same thing, assigning all the good to religion and all the bad to human nature. It's typically looked suspiciously like confirmation bias to me, so I'm wondering what is your process for assigning credit?



Can I have a pop at this?


When it comes to assigning credit, it's easy to do.... you have the control group... the "unreligious" and then the test group... the religious.

Is there a measurable difference in goodness between the two groups.

Fuck no.




Tkman117 -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 11:50:21 AM)

Great point.

You're going to get crazy and bad people on any part of the religious and/or political spectrum. It's just when you have religion, a solid chunk of the time it's used as an "excuse" as to why certain people do the bad things they do. People can hardly use atheism as a reason to do anything bad, as atheism is simply the disbelief in any god(s). However, that doesn't stop people from using other reasons to explain their horrible actions, whether it be political, moral, etc.




GotSteel -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 2:13:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24
I have a question, if you dont mind. The father, how has he treated his son otherwise? Has he treated him with respect? Is it the issue of the marriage only?


They treat their son great and have been doing missionary work in (I think it was) Central America. They also have spent years shunning their daughter.




Kirata -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 6:44:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

Being born gay isn't a choice...

That was a nicely trimmed quote you posted. Very slick indeed. Here's more from your source....

The truth is that neither “choice” nor “genetics” can be said to resolve the origin of homosexuality... If this whole inquiry sounds a little fishy in 2014, that is because it is... The Guardian’s tech and science editor, Robin McKie, had similar concerns back in 1999, when Dr. Hamer’s study resurfaced as part of a new scientific investigation. Calling it “the celebrated theory that never made sense,” McKie charged that to link a sliver of DNA to complex behavior is to miss the point of genetics as well as human interaction. It has always been, and will always be, complete nonsense.

K.




dcnovice -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 7:44:01 PM)

FR

A few thoughts on the "choosing to be gay" subplot from an actual gay guy:

(a) The Medical Daily source reads more as an opinion piece than a news story. A quick bit of Googling revealed that the author is a reporter rather than a scientist. And it's filed under "Policy/Biz" rather than "Science Tech," for what that's worth.

(b) I don't think I've ever met anyone--gay, straight, or anywhere in between--who described his or her orientation as a choice. Mine certainly wasn't.

(c) When I finally came out to myself in college, I was struck by how many of my friends--from both elementary and high school--turned out to be gay as well. Somehow, there was something about us that connected long before we were aware of our orientation, much less in a position to "choose" it. Others have reported this same pattern in their circles of friends.

(d) I've never heard a convincing--or, for that matter, any--explanation of why someone would choose an orientation that for much of history has meant being oppressed, sometimes violently.




outlawphoto -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 8:50:22 PM)

I find it very difficult to see where agreement is possible.

The religious, claim to possess an absolute monopoly on truth, which they claim is eternal and unchanging, while the scientific claim to always be in pursuit of the truth, regardless of what that truth is, and claim to be willing to admit they are wrong and change their position in the face of overwhelming evidence.

Where do those two lines intersect?




Kirata -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/15/2014 10:49:54 PM)


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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

A few thoughts on the "choosing to be gay" subplot from an actual gay guy:

You might find this interesting.

K.





BecomingV -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/16/2014 1:11:38 AM)

GS, there comes a point in which it's obviously no longer a fair fight among equals. Things go over people's heads or they simply lack the experience to participate at a certain level. In that spirit, I'll say, I understand your point of view.
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The less intelligent, lacking mental options, go to the baser stuff - and sink into personal attack.


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ORIGINAL: BecomingV
Where did I attack anyone personally? The quote you chose is generic, general and really, a common view.


So if I put you in a group, let's say people who's screen names start with B and then also then also personally attack everyone near you let's say people who's screen names starts with B are poopy pants, it stops being a personal attack?





Kirata -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/16/2014 1:17:48 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BecomingV

there comes a point in which it's obviously no longer a fair fight among equals

Usually right from the start.

K.




BecomingV -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/16/2014 1:35:39 AM)

When I think I know it all, I bet I'll agree with you. Until then, I'll stay open-minded and give others a chance. And...
I understand your point of view.
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ORIGINAL: Kirata


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there comes a point in which it's obviously no longer a fair fight among equals

Usually right from the start.

K.






BecomingV -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/16/2014 2:30:13 AM)

chatterbox, here's a link to a film that answers you clearly:

http://www.primewire.ag/watch-19856-God-Said-Ha




PeonForHer -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/16/2014 2:39:00 AM)


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A few thoughts on the "choosing to be gay" subplot from an actual gay guy:

You might find this interesting.

K.




K, that link only take us back to the thread.




Kirata -> RE: What do the atheists get right? (5/16/2014 2:53:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
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ORIGINAL: Kirata
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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

A few thoughts on the "choosing to be gay" subplot from an actual gay guy:

You might find this interesting.

K, that link only take us back to the thread.


Oops, my bad. Here.

K.





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