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MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for discipline and chasity? (5/2/2014 8:40:45 AM)
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Actually, that's only HALF true.
Diapers very often have THERAPEUTIC VALUE as a way to establish a headspace of "safety", softness and the (brief) return to a time when someone ELSE was the one in charge, PROTECTING.
Many AB's have high stress jobs (doctors, lawyers, corrections officers, etc.) or have suffered mental trauma (PTSD sufferers) and being a "little" is a way to wash away some of the stress for a period of time so the mind can get a break. Other people seek out drugs and alcohol, which I consider far less acceptable.
I have, on occasion, "prescribed" diapers to specific subs who were suffering chronic insomnia and nightmares. It actually improved the situation temporarily so they could get some much needed rest.
Also, just because someone enjoys wearing diapers (soft and fluffy feeling of safety), doesn't mean they like MESSING in them. Same thing, just because a Domme has Her subs wearing diapers doesn't mean She allows them to soil them (personally, you soil in it, I'll cram it down your fucking throat and make you EAT it, and thereafter you are BANNED).
Some Dommes use diapers to MAKE a sub soil it (that in itself can be humiliation). This would put it in the "pushing limits" category. Some do, some don't.
I don't specifically diaper My subs...but if they are proving themselves useful (Tasks, Projects) I will *REWARD* them by ALLOWING them to wear diapers, or a dress, or a costume, or whatever, so long as their Tasks don't suffer and they don't cross MY Hard Limits. D/s is not just about Punishment. Rewards for being an especially GOOD BOY (or girl) should factor in as well.
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ORIGINAL: OriginalRebel
Diapers are for incontinent humans so what would the Mistress be restricting you from? Oh, you mean you want to be made to keep a dry diaper? but if you can remain dry what's the point of a diaper? or did you mean you want to feel humiliated? what has that got to do with training? and what's in it for the Mistress who knows full well this isn't humiliating at all for you because as you declare, its on your BIG wish list.
There are sites that have been specifically built for adult babies, scat play and diaper play. You should google them and go and take a browse. If its your fetish then cool, I sincerely hope you find the woman of your dreams. What you can't do is stamp your feet when a dominant woman on here shows no interest in "Your" fetish.
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