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new kinkster here! - 5/1/2014 9:48:28 PM

chewez

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Hey everyone!

I am new to CM and to the BDSM scene in general. I have always found it to be very interesting but just decided recently to finally actively pursue it. I am a pretty kinky guy and after looking through the site I think I am in the right place. Being the new guy it seems to be really hard to meet people here and although I see myself as a very dominant male in my everyday life, I think I wouldn't mind seeing what the submissive side has to offer. Any suggestions in figuring this out? Also any suggestions on how to get more involved or gain some experience without going to pay for "prodoms" and the sort? Any advice would be much appreciated and I hope to meet lots of like minded friends on CM!

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RE: new kinkster here! - 5/1/2014 10:12:37 PM

MasterMaoko

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Be yourself, know yourself, have fun. First and foremost follow your instinct. If it says run then run. Alot of good folks on here but also alot of crazies. Last piece of advice make yourself noticeable. Alot of these ladies get hundreds of messages a day and I can imagine after a while they just hit the delete all button.

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RE: new kinkster here! - 5/1/2014 10:36:43 PM

chewez

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterMaoko

Be yourself, know yourself, have fun. First and foremost follow your instinct. If it says run then run. Alot of good folks on here but also alot of crazies. Last piece of advice make yourself noticeable. Alot of these ladies get hundreds of messages a day and I can imagine after a while they just hit the delete all button.

Thanks for the advice! How do you suggest making yourself more noticeable though? I am worried about posting too many photos because I do have a very public everyday life.

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RE: new kinkster here! - 5/2/2014 5:30:49 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome to the discussion forum where we talk about a wide variety of subjects ranging from relationship issues to exchanging recipes. If you have any questions, we have a Search feature that will help you find past threads on just about any topic you can imagine. Take a look around and see what we are all about and if a topic interest you, then join in and tell us your thoughts and feelings. It is highly unlikely that you will find what you seek here, but you may have much better luck over on the profile side where the dating hook ups take place. Its nice to have you here with us ......Good luck in your search.

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RE: new kinkster here! - 5/2/2014 12:34:09 PM

DarkSteven

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chewez

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterMaoko

Be yourself, know yourself, have fun. First and foremost follow your instinct. If it says run then run. Alot of good folks on here but also alot of crazies. Last piece of advice make yourself noticeable. Alot of these ladies get hundreds of messages a day and I can imagine after a while they just hit the delete all button.

Thanks for the advice! How do you suggest making yourself more noticeable though? I am worried about posting too many photos because I do have a very public everyday life.

Um. Your second photo clearly identifies you, so I'm not sure what you mean.

The local dungeon is The Crucible. Check there and find out munches and TNG groups local to you.

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RE: new kinkster here! - 5/2/2014 2:18:09 PM

chewez

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: chewez

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ORIGINAL: MasterMaoko

Be yourself, know yourself, have fun. First and foremost follow your instinct. If it says run then run. Alot of good folks on here but also alot of crazies. Last piece of advice make yourself noticeable. Alot of these ladies get hundreds of messages a day and I can imagine after a while they just hit the delete all button.

Thanks for the advice! How do you suggest making yourself more noticeable though? I am worried about posting too many photos because I do have a very public everyday life.

Um. Your second photo clearly identifies you, so I'm not sure what you mean.

The local dungeon is The Crucible. Check there and find out munches and TNG groups local to you.

You're right I forgot I had added that..but I will check that out thanks!

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RE: new kinkster here! - 5/2/2014 2:22:28 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Hi chewez,

Welcome to CM & the forums. Enjoy your stay here.

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