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dmleeusa -> RE: Looking forward (5/6/2014 12:21:30 PM)
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Posting nude with sexually explicit pictures is both personally gratifying and an offering in the hopes of being rewarded with a compliment. These elements are not consistent with the core of a submissive. The arguments about what makes a true Dom or true sub go on and on, but the basic elements are clearly defined. Sure, we want to know what you look like, but at the same time it must be when the Dom is ready to require it. Most subs take for granted the needs of the Dom, and what pleases the Dom - and usually get it wrong.
- Can I serve him or her at all times?
- Am I willing and able to make a total commitment to him or her?
- Am I proud of myself for serving selflessly, honestly and sincerely?
- Am I willing do do all that he or she asks of me?
- Am I ready to love him or her as I am loved?
and lastly
- Do I think I am a good match to a particular him or her, both physically and mentally?
This last point sounds like a paradox, but I think its important to ensuring the comfort level of the sub as well as for the Dom. And, after all the other questions are answered, might come the request for a picture....
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