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littleone35 -> RE: Being used (7/10/2006 6:22:44 AM)
This would not even be an issue in my case. Master does not share and for me that is a good thing because one of my hard limits is not to be shared. The only man i want to please is him, if being with another was a way to please him then i would not be with him. If it works for you and makes you and he happy hey great as long as you are sure you will not get an STD from it. It is just not for me. Matt's littleone

irishbynature -> RE: Being used (7/10/2006 6:33:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 This would not even be an issue in my case. Master does not share and for me that is a good thing because one of my hard limits is not to be shared. The only man i want to please is him, if being with another was a way to please him then i would not be with him. If it works for you and makes you and he happy hey great as long as you are sure you will not get an STD from it. It is just not for me. Matt's littleone Yeah, but 'what if'...... Your Master said to you "I am thinking of the two of us exploring the idea of sharing...this would please me greatly.." Just stuff to chew on[:D]

littleone35 -> RE: Being used (7/10/2006 6:37:50 AM)
if being with another was a way to please him then i would not be with him. irish this is what i said and i stand by it i love him but it is a hard limit for me (not being shared) and he knows that. Why would i want to be with a master who would not respect my hard limits? I would not. Matt's littleone

irishbynature -> RE: Being used (7/10/2006 6:39:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 if being with another was a way to please him then i would not be with him. irish this is what i said and i stand by it i love him but it is a hard limit for me (not being shared) and he knows that. Why would i want to be with a master who would not respect my hard limits? I would not. Matt's littleone Gotcha! Totally respect your stand! Warmly, irishbynature

shivvy -> RE: Being used (7/10/2006 7:39:55 AM)
my first Master woz very big on sharing me, and i often scened or played with Dom/mes other than my Master. And whilst i had no "say" in who i served or how, He woz always responsible for my safetly and well being. STD are and issue, but i assume your Master won't wanna catch nuffin nasty off you, so HE should look after you. but as with every thing, it all comes down to trust. my current Master has already told me He has no intention of sharing me, which i think is grand, but if He changed His mind, then i would do woteva He wanted from me. Hope this helps. luv shiv xx

Maxiann -> RE: Being used (7/10/2006 8:24:06 AM)
Being used in this way by my Master ia a way of life for me now. Master has always enjoyed seeing me used by other men and often by women also. For me is is part of the way I serve my Master and is a requirement of my servitude I just accept it as such. Maxiann

OsideGirl -> RE: Being used (7/10/2006 1:17:11 PM)
I have this listed as a hard limit, as well. My view is that it's all about what you've negotiated. If you're okay with it and it's done safely, go for it. Safely also includes how he goes about arranging the situation as well. I had a friend who was in the very exact same situation (including the black part, oddly enough). One of her hard limits is that there will be no pictures of her on the internet because it could endanger her job. He set up an ad on CM behind her back that included picture of her and emailed other pictures out to strangers. He was amazingly disrepectful and careless with the life she has built.

babysburnin -> RE: Being used (7/10/2006 1:49:34 PM)
If you have chosen your Master well He will not put you in harms way. I have similar struggles about "opening up and pushing the limits sexually (with others)". My advise it to express your comfort level and the "whys" you may have reservations. I personally, would not like an "outsider" introduced until I was very ready for it...for me, it could have reprocussions afterwards, if I am not ready, that would ruin my Dom and I's relationship, and my trust in Him. Thinking about it and getting aroused is one thing...doing it and the reality is another.

Daddysredhead -> RE: Being used (7/11/2006 10:43:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist If you both want it, go for it. Afterwards, if you don't like the way it made you feel, tell him so. Hugely important! -----------------------------^ Daddy and I set up a little rendez-vous once that was mainly for me to see if a particular fantasy we both had was as hot as we thought. It was horrible and I told Him so. It was a sensitive topic for a while, but now, we laugh about it.

mymasterssub69 -> RE: Being used (7/12/2006 4:11:46 AM)
it also excites my Sir to see me being used by others however we haven't actually done it yet but he is planning something special for me before i get married my advice - trust your Master but if you feel that he's putting you and your life in danger, tell him now of your concerns before it happens not after

amlonging -> RE: Being used (7/12/2006 5:14:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: swtsurrender36 i'm currently talking to a Master, who says it turns Him on to see His slave being used by another man.(preferably african american) . i was wondering what other submissives/slaves think about this. This is new to me. One side of me is turned on by the thought of seeing my Master sitting over to the side watching this..and one side of me is a little scared ..seeing that this is something outside my box. i think tho that with what i know about this Master He is a very loving and protective Master and He would never set this up unless it was a safe situation. Would love some insight on this topic.. All my best, swt It is TRULY intoxicating ...to know you are pleasing your Dom by serving another in front of Him, allowing really, both, to "use" you

MrrPete -> RE: Being used (7/12/2006 5:58:49 AM)
How to handle inter-racial sex - get a blindfold

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