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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/12/2014 4:05:53 PM

NghtyGrlNeedsLv2

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Musicmystry, no I wasn't looking for sympathy, you assumed, therefore remember what that word means (BRAY!).

God, I came here trying to find an answer. I thought other Doms would be honest enough to clear it up. Sorry, I forgot EMPATHY was in the MASTER's CODE of ETHICS which I notice some who claim they are Masters are just frauds, & no nothing of the code.

This is why so many subs are jaded. Because, when we have a question, we can't even turn to other "Masters" & ask for help or guidence.

Thank you to those who tried to help. For the rest of you, sorry, I took up your time, but then I didnt force you to read it.

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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/12/2014 4:12:35 PM

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If my answer came across as unhelpful, I am sorry.

Too, I am sorry for your pain.

4 years is a lot of time to invest in something when the other party is ambivalent.

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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/12/2014 4:27:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: NghtyGrlNeedsLv2

Musicmystry, no I wasn't looking for sympathy, you assumed, therefore remember what that word means (BRAY!).

God, I came here trying to find an answer. I thought other Doms would be honest enough to clear it up. Sorry, I forgot EMPATHY was in the MASTER's CODE of ETHICS which I notice some who claim they are Masters are just frauds, & no nothing of the code.

This is why so many subs are jaded. Because, when we have a question, we can't even turn to other "Masters" & ask for help or guidence.

Thank you to those who tried to help. For the rest of you, sorry, I took up your time, but then I didnt force you to read it.

You can turn to other "Masters" but d/s has nothing to do with this.

You're afraid you care for a guy who's still seriously hung up on his ex. You'd like to think that the pet name he has for you has special meaning, so special that it actually means he's not hung up on his ex after all.

You're hoping against hope on one hand, and just wish you didn't feel what you feel for him.

Heartache sucks. I wish I had a better answer for you, but there's no manual on d/s daddies, doms masters or men that will say "if he calls you "whore" it means he's in love with you." You're wishing there was some deep d/s commitment imbedded in being called "pet" or "babygirl" or "little one" ..... or "whore". There isn't.

One day at a time, and this too shall pass.

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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/12/2014 4:27:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: NghtyGrlNeedsLv2

Musicmystry, no I wasn't looking for sympathy, you assumed, therefore remember what that word means (BRAY!).

God, I came here trying to find an answer. I thought other Doms would be honest enough to clear it up. Sorry, I forgot EMPATHY was in the MASTER's CODE of ETHICS which I notice some who claim they are Masters are just frauds, & no nothing of the code.

This is why so many subs are jaded. Because, when we have a question, we can't even turn to other "Masters" & ask for help or guidence.

Thank you to those who tried to help. For the rest of you, sorry, I took up your time, but then I didnt force you to read it.

You thought we would be honest enough to clear up your confusing problem? Why did you phrase it like we have the answer but are just withholding from you? Ok so maybe we are withholding it. But bitch you didn't even bring us any coffee. We don't solve problems without coffee. Or green tea in my case. Oh and get me a Cinnabon too.

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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/12/2014 4:38:32 PM

Masterthemoment

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ORIGINAL: NGNL2
I wish to hell, there was a manual on Daddys, Masters & Doms, or just better communication, say what you really mean, not what you know will get you what you want. I guess that can be said for both sexes...

I just thought another Dom would give a clear, cut answer...

What you really want is a manual on people. People will do what's in their self-interest most of the time. It benefited him to love his ex-wife and use you as a bit on the side. Now he's done with you. I can come up with many possibilities, but whatever the reason for the change, he's left the relationship and you should too. I once had a relationship go sour, and I spent waaaaay too long feeling sorry for myself. Don't be a me and spend years in love with someone who doesn't love you.

A whore is someone who fucks for money. Period. Some folks like it because it feels Naughty and Taboo, but that's not the real issue here. The issue is as DaddySatyr and anjelikaJ have said, what you want and thought he wanted and what he's now told you he wants are completely different things. As you've said, you love him. In my experience the length of time a relationship is mourned is directly proportional to the duration & seriousness of the relationship. So evacuate the premises and the relationship and start grieving for yourself and the lost possibilities.

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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/18/2014 12:38:00 PM

HeldandHappy

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There's no manual when it comes to people. If there were, new parents would have it a lot easier because the first manual would be for them.
Words have meaning because of who utters them and how, period.

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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/18/2014 6:02:09 PM

angelikaJ

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There's no manual when it comes to people. If there were, new parents would have it a lot easier because the first manual would be for them.
Words have meaning because of who utters them and how, period.

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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/19/2014 1:55:26 PM

Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: NghtyGrlNeedsLv2

Musicmystry, no I wasn't looking for sympathy, you assumed, therefore remember what that word means (BRAY!).

God, I came here trying to find an answer. I thought other Doms would be honest enough to clear it up. Sorry, I forgot EMPATHY was in the MASTER's CODE of ETHICS which I notice some who claim they are Masters are just frauds, & no nothing of the code.

This is why so many subs are jaded. Because, when we have a question, we can't even turn to other "Masters" & ask for help or guidence.

Thank you to those who tried to help. For the rest of you, sorry, I took up your time, but then I didnt force you to read it.

Ah. So you weren't posting for sympathy -- you were posting for empathy.

Still leaves you with the options of (1) ask the psychics here or (2) ask him.

Or option 3, bitch about the people here. How's that working out?

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RE: When your Daddy calls you this. - 5/19/2014 2:09:22 PM

Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: blacksword404

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ORIGINAL: NghtyGrlNeedsLv2

God, I came here trying to find an answer. I thought other Doms would be honest enough to clear it up. Sorry, I forgot EMPATHY was in the MASTER's CODE of ETHICS which I notice some who claim they are Masters are just frauds, & no nothing of the code.

This is why so many subs are jaded. Because, when we have a question, we can't even turn to other "Masters" & ask for help or guidence.

Thank you to those who tried to help. For the rest of you, sorry, I took up your time, but then I didnt force you to read it.

You thought we would be honest enough to clear up your confusing problem? Why did you phrase it like we have the answer but are just withholding from you? Ok so maybe we are withholding it. But bitch you didn't even bring us any coffee. We don't solve problems without coffee. Or green tea in my case. Oh and get me a Cinnabon too.