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Samuraifun -> Dom curious about submitting. (5/12/2014 9:25:41 PM)
Life long dominant wanting to explore submission with an experienced domme. I'm not looking for a ltr. Want go slow.

BecomingV -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/12/2014 9:48:55 PM)
Welcome to the Boards, Samuraifun. After reading your profile, I would suggest that you write a new one to reflect your newest interests. Are you now a Switch, with Dom tendencies? Since you aren't seeking a LTR, are you seeking more of a kinkster connection? Those are the sort of questions I think might be needing to be clarified in your profile. All the Best!

Sexyladydee -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/12/2014 9:59:33 PM)
You might also want to clarify why you want to change and have this new experience. Personally I wouldn't trust that you could be submissive after being a life long dominant. A red flag for me. I'm not selfish, just stubborn and usually right. LadyDee

Samuraifun -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/12/2014 10:02:21 PM)
People change. Needs change.

Sexyladydee -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/12/2014 10:06:41 PM)
Understood. But a Domme when vetting a possible sub looks for red flags. Safety is important for both parties. In your profile say something about yourself that would have appealed to you in a sub when you were living on the Dom side. And good luck in finding what you need. I'm not selfish, just stubborn and usually right. LadyDee

Samuraifun -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/12/2014 10:12:52 PM)
I'm a long way from being ready to submit. My journey requires much discussion. I know the destination. Getting there is where I need guidance.

BecomingV -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/12/2014 11:02:26 PM)
Your profile says, "lifelong Dominant." Are you sure about the terminology here? Are you a Dominant whom wishes to experience being a bottom? Bottom - receiving the sensations Your profile pic has that ^^^ tone. You don't need to know yet, but to attract interest, some effort is involved. As of now, your profile is simply unclear. Some things can be judged by a profile. Too short - stingy, guarded or just out for no strings sex/kink, but unwilling to be honest about it. Too long - self-involved, pompous and vain. Both are "all about me" profiles. One good place to begin exploring is the Switch threads. While exploring this kind of transition, it is most helpful to befriend other kinksters and learn.

Rasciallymisty -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/13/2014 4:45:46 AM)
Hello and welcome to the discussion forum where we talk about a wide variety of subjects ranging from relationship issues to exchanging recipes. If you have any questions, we have a Search feature that will help you find past threads on just about any topic you can imagine. Take a look around and see what we are all about and if a topic interest you, then join in and tell us your thoughts and feelings. Its nice to have you here with us ......Good luck in your search.

Moderator3 -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/13/2014 10:02:39 AM)
Please read the updated guidelines for this section. When a new poster joins the forums in the Introduction section, we welcome them. All questions need to be directed to another area of the forums rather than answered here because answering them sometimes goes into areas that aren't inline with the guidelines. This is a safe and welcoming area. I know that some of this is new to the more experienced on the forums and change takes time, but for some time now, it has been known that snark or correction isn't for Introductions. This isn't new. * Samuraifun, I will be in touch with you as soon as I check a few things in other areas. That won't be a bad thing. [:D] * To all others, let's welcome new posters to the forum and check out the guidelines. There is a reason for how we are doing things and if you wish to be helpful, direct new posters with a question to another area of the forum for their questions. Thank you

Samuraifun -> RE: Dom curious about submitting. (5/13/2014 6:28:46 PM)
Thanks, mod. That was a bit intense.

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