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RE: What if? - 7/13/2006 1:04:02 PM

crouchingtigress

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i honestly lay the blame for this catastrophe at the feet of the Master, to me this is yet another guy that wants "another" to add to his household with out putting the kind of energy he should to educate himself on what he is getting into. Slaves behave badly when they are allowed to do so, had he nipped it in the bud everyone would have been much happier.

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RE: What if? - 7/13/2006 3:08:42 PM

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Somehow, while Feasties idea sounds like a good one, I have the suspicion number 2 would only find another way to make #1s life more hellish and it does not sound like #1 deserves to be punished, chuckles. I would sit number 2 down, tell her the ways are to be, and tell her if she does not like it, to hit the door.

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RE: What if? - 7/13/2006 3:41:11 PM

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I have to agree with everyone else. #2 is definitely a problem child and it sounds to me like "master" isn't interested in getting anything under control. That girl needs to be shown the door, and quickly. #1, however, needs to step up her game as well, and stand up to this woman who is trying to usurp her position.

I've been concerned about getting into a poly situation, myself, for the reasons stated in the OP. This is why we have determined we need a male second. It may be a broad generalization, but men aren't as petty, devious and manipulative as women can be, and I know I can't live with another woman under the same roof. Been there, done that, burned the t-shirt.

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RE: What if? - 7/13/2006 8:31:25 PM

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Dear Mastersbrat1965, Ladies and Gentlemen;

One thing I've found repeatedly throughout my life, is that you cannot force friendship, force behavior and force opinion, prejudice and such.

That said, this is why I personally have a trial period to which the outside person enters and see if they can get along with my first slave. I picked my first slave for a reason, the rest are enhancements to the life and home I seek--a loving and peaceful home without drama.

Perhaps there is more to this, what is given us. Just judging on the face value of the post, I would not allow the first slave to be hurt so unkindly by slave two. I would not have tolerated such bold 'topping from the bottom' behavior or disrespectful words and or behavior and wouldn't tolerate it from slave one either.

If the behavior didn't change; I would dismiss slave two; as it is clearly conduct I wouldn't consider 'slave like.' Apparently, the second girl would need to be with a Master she could have exclusively.

That said, Masters can make an error in judgment by not giving equal treatment to slaves. I would really be interested to know why the drama--perhaps she has come in and finds herself with all the work as slave one slacks and has become a bit dominant or flaunts status and or provokes the feelings and issues.

I have also come across people who identify as a Master-slave couple, and not really have the standards of which the second slave may have which is higher and feels she/he has been mislead, lied to or finds themselves in a different situation as promised and frustrations rule rather than leaving an unhappy house.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
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