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Uniforms - 7/9/2006 9:04:49 PM   
LotusSong


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As individual as we all claim to be.. do you realize we conform to a dress code?

Leather- fabric of the day

Guys, shaved head, gotee, white tee shirt, black leather vest, jeans or leather pants, harnes boots.  Whip on left side for added toppiness definition.

Ladies: Leather bustier or body suit, long nails, long hair, high heels.

Heck.. we conform more than a military parade reivew :)

Go figure 

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RE: Uniforms - 7/9/2006 9:15:58 PM   
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I've never been to a club, or a munch, so i can't give my opnion from that perspective, but i can from my own personal opinion.

Master wears jeans and a t-shirt. No leather, no customary whip by his side, and definitely no boots.

And he doesn't have me wear corsets, high heels, or any of that. He does like me to have long hair, long nails aren't important, but he does like them to be clean and polished. As far as the clothes he has me wear..... skirt (the length doesn't matter) and a top, usually revealing, but not see-through; and always with nothing underneath.

Dress codes are a matter of preference and nothing more.

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RE: Uniforms - 7/9/2006 9:24:54 PM   
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That's funny, I've never been to munch or BDSM event. So, I personally really don't know what most Doms look like.  But the gotee, tee shirt, vest, leather pants, thing is not happening I assure you. I do not like that look at all. 


edited to add more thoughts....
Maybe the whole bald thing is a act of non-conformity or something, I honestly don't know. I just know I've always hated having hair on my head, and today it just struck me as a good idea to whack it off.

I like the female stereotype dress though. Those are nice.


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RE: Uniforms - 7/10/2006 2:45:48 AM   
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Yep. I used to go to events in London and you could see on the underground those people that were heading for the same destination. It amused me how people were willing to sweat in the underground in leather, PVC and latex dresses just to look the part. I guess the smart ones arrived by car or taxi.

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RE: Uniforms - 7/10/2006 3:12:10 AM   
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You know , meatcleaver , coming on the tube to a bdsm\fetish event is one of the things that out of england visitors to thoes partys are excited about. being able to wear your fetish gear in public is a great turn on.
usualy at the party in Israel ppl are coming in black shirts and pants, or any kind of fetish wear that they got. because it is preaty hot and humid in tel aviv most ppl dont wear leather, many see wearing leather as crualty to animals such as yours truly.
I like to be diverse with my performance, or else it would be so boring.

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RE: Uniforms - 7/10/2006 3:52:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

As individual as we all claim to be.. do you realize we conform to a dress code?

Leather- fabric of the day

Guys, shaved head, gotee, white tee shirt, black leather vest, jeans or leather pants, harnes boots.  Whip on left side for added toppiness definition.

Ladies: Leather bustier or body suit, long nails, long hair, high heels.

Heck.. we conform more than a military parade reivew :)

Go figure 

Lotus  


Some of the world's "great non-conformists" are ....... not lol. Look at the goths....

I hate leather. I don't wear boots. The only thing in your list I do is shave my head, and that has zero to do with kink.


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RE: Uniforms - 7/10/2006 6:01:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

Some of the world's "great non-conformists" are ....... not lol. Look at the goths....

I hate leather. I don't wear boots. The only thing in your list I do is shave my head, and that has zero to do with kink.



Hummm, shaved head and a big black robe! 
I can think of some kink that would go along with that!!  Hee hee heeeeeeee

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RE: Uniforms - 7/10/2006 6:52:14 AM   
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Not me hun - i wear what i want when i want and screw conformity.

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RE: Uniforms - 7/10/2006 7:11:39 AM   
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I don't know about the whole conformity thing, but I've been wearing black and leather before I ever heard of or knew anything about bdsm the kink scene blah, blah, blah.  Its just always been something I enjoy wearing, but not something I wear to every bdsm scene event.  I wear what I feel comfortable in whether that's jeans, leather all black or something other.  It really shouldn't be all about the clothing that makes the person.  Most of the people I've seen doing some of the best scenes at events rarely have on anything more than a decent pair of jeans and a t-shirt..  Its all good.

Rosa

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RE: Uniforms - 7/10/2006 7:44:21 AM   
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MM I love a man in uniform
::giggles::
LOL but yeah we all conform... we are all unique just like everyone els

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RE: Uniforms - 7/10/2006 7:53:32 AM   
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Dear LotusSong, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I do respect your post about uniforms however, today there is no conformity these days. 
 
In the 1970-1980 circa of BDSM wear, it was discreet.  Only once inside a club, a person's house and on Halloween, was fetish wear openly worn.  In addition black attire was the normal, not always leather. 
 
Wearing leather, goes back to the biker days of BDSM, as leather chaps was a necessity, as were the boots, as not to entangle themselves in their motorcycles and, a time before motorcycle helmets were required.  World War II German and American uniform surplus supplied cheap leather, uniform boots for motocycle police, equestrians were easy to find.  Mid-western groups, chaps were the uniform of the ranches and goes way back to Spainish ranching, American's Old West as they provided protection for the legs and the chest.  Vests, leaving the chest protected in leather, left arms free to work the rope and whips, and not be entangled.  First, vests were protection from limbs, branches, vines and other elements and then adapted to riding motocycles.  The history of wearing things to the left, goes back to the first elements of warfare and equestrians.  Mounting from the left, the sword side avoided knocking the horse's sides with the the sword.  The swordsmen were historically right handed, even if left handed by nature, were trained to use the right hand.  So, the draw was left to right across the body to remove the sword from it's carrier.  So, knights and warriors were seen as authority and power, the sword was on the left.  It carried over into BDSM.  Bestowing of leathers was no different than bestowing of the coat of arms and symbols of authority of knights.  The black, was color of choice for executioners and uniform of the Imperial countries, as blood does not show up as much on black rather than brown or another color.
 
Wearing these items, it was passed along to me, that we wore the black, wore our floggers and the 'uniform' per se, to honor those who came before us in paving the road for the community at large as well as being in a 'union' of fellow participants to which uniformity of principles and ideas we (in general) could all agree to.
 
Floggers are routed back into history, as well.  Egyptian authority and enforcement of law was symbolized by holding a flail and only could be held by kings.  The Roman flail, was associated with Christ's suffering before his crucifiction submitted to sadism, to blood as to have him renounce his faith and service to God.  The Roman flail again was associated to Roman law and authority.  The British "cat o nine" which is a flail was the Admiral's power and authority as it connected to the Crown.  Muted, the modern flogger we know today is as symbolic to some of us as it was in ancient times.
 
Unfortunately, the meanings are not passed down to the next scene generation as it was in my salad days.  However, there are many things borrowed from old times past, that just plain work and are common sense.
 
That said, it is my observation that each region, territory and group has different 'dressing' codes during the 1970s-1980s.  The black was the formal and most appreciated.  Now days, it seems the old timers like me wear the black but, it is very tempting to go extremely casual.
 
I agree-- clothing does not make a Master.  Fetish wear is not worn inside an everyday M/s household.  However, when we do wear the black we honor the past and present when we do.  My whip skills do not deminish if I wear my undergarments (corset) or if I wear formal (long skirt, lace, 40-42 button length gloves) and or, if I wear my leather (Leather vest, cover, gloves, etc.)
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 
 
 
 

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