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long distance online relationships - 5/20/2014 10:51:28 AM

mebeyourslave

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Hello al

I am a slave and am exploring bdsm, due to my demographical location I am not able to find an appropriate domme.i was considering online collarong and online interaction woth mistresses.
But my question is, how famous/infamous is online relationship amkngst female dominants?

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RE: long distance online relationships - 5/20/2014 11:04:18 AM

MistressDarkArt

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Welcome to the boards.

Other than pay-for-play, the general consensus is most dommes have no need or desire for online-only relationships. We are inundated with real-life guys who are willing to come over to help us with our yard and home, take us to dinner, and happily nestle in our arms during the wee small hours of the night.

YMMV. It's possible there are exceptions, but I don't know of any.

Also, be apprised there are many 'dommes' online who are males posing as females. If that's acceptable to you, you will have much better luck with the online thing. Be very careful what you do online, as any photos/videos/chat can be made permanently public to anyone with an internet connection.

Your best bet would be to find a local group/munch/event closest to you and introduce yourself to your community. Get to know them as people; volunteer at events and be helpful to everyone there. You will soon have friends which could lead to the kind of relationship you'd like to have.

Best of luck! Please hang around and join in the conversations.

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RE: long distance online relationships - 5/20/2014 11:09:19 AM

MistressDarkArt

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I see you are in India. I'm not familiar with the kinky culture there, but you might want to check out FetLife to see if there are any activities in your area.

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RE: long distance online relationships - 5/20/2014 11:13:24 AM

DarkSteven

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Namaste!

I dunno what the kink scene is like in Bangalore. MDA's advice about finding local munches and parties is spot on if such things exist there.

Here are some starting points:

https://fetlife.com/groups/3022

https://fetlife.com/groups/7921

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RE: long distance online relationships - 5/21/2014 7:20:41 AM

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Hello and welcome to the discussion forum where we talk about a wide variety of subjects ranging from relationship issues to exchanging recipes. If you have any questions, we have a Search feature that will help you find past threads on just about any topic you can imagine. Take a look around and see what we are all about and if a topic interest you, then join in and tell us your thoughts and feelings. Its nice to have you here with us ......Good luck in your search.

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