thompsonx -> RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? (7/3/2014 7:19:51 AM)
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ORIGINAL: RareByrd Based on past experience, I'd say *most* men who identify as Dom do not like eating pussy--I base this on actual willingness to do so in real life, not professions in a profile. I think your experience reflects reality. I'd also say a good proportion of men who don't identify as Dom don't eat pussy. Once again you seem to have a firm grasp of reality. I've dated quite a few in my 41 years, and would tolerate them when I was younger. I hate to say, I also handed out quite a few blowjobs to guys who never came close to reciprocating. I only recently identified how pissed off this makes me feel. I understand if your point is that you expected reciprocation for doing something that you don't find particularly enjoyable. What I mean is :that you sucking his dick is something that makes him pretty happy... what do you get out of it? If having a cock in your mouth is something that makes your pink parts tingle then anything it does for him is really ancillary and whether you get "paid" for your blow job with some pussy eating (while it would be nice) is also ancillary. If on the other hand sucking his cock is something,while it may not be particularly offensive it is not on your list of things "I just gotta do", you do in hopes of reciprocation. Is that not something different? If you do not get what you "paid" for then you have every right to feel cheated. It goes a long way towards explaining why I am now a demanding bratty "bottom" rather than continuing to label myself as a sub--because I am tired of being taken advantage of in this and several other ways. So when it comes to oral..."you give what you get"? You want endlessly-giving subs who deeply enjoy servicing you? Try giving a shit about *their* pleasure for once. I was sooooo effing sincere and service-oriented and it took many years to get it beat out of me. I now realize I have to be selfish and insist that my needs actually get taken care of, because it just won't happen otherwise. Once again a pretty firm grip on the obvious[;)] Too many men are just *incredibly* selfish in bed. I think the word you are looking for is stingy. I bolded the proper use of the word selfish in the referenced remark. Not kidding at all, there should be more in sex Ed about women's entire sexual anatomy, not just the strictly reproductive bits, but the clitoris, with which many men are apparently not familiar, or at least not aware of how important it is. I was lucky when I was 17 my uncle paid me to take an intensive course in the sexual practices of the different ethnicities of the world. It was 6 long profound years of intensive study and practice but now, at the age of 69, I feel it was worth it. Every orgasim I give or recieve is a reflection of that dedicated study. We should also teach young girls that sex is not just sexual intercourse, and it's not over when the guy comes. Omg...forced sex after orgasm...whodathunkit?
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