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Is my profile too much? - 5/23/2014 7:35:10 PM

NinjaNighmare

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I'm not really new to the lifestyle, but I'm new to CM. My problem is that I'm never really satisfied with whatever I put in the "About me" section of my profile. I pretty much want to say what I want in a sub without sounding like an asshole or tool.

Honestly, I think I'm just overthinking things, but I digress. >.>

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RE: Is my profile too much? - 5/23/2014 7:40:26 PM

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Your profile appears fine and written well. Your interests are varied. The only concern I see as a possible issue is simply your age. Without a means to be vetted as knowledgeable, safe, and responsible is the only thing you may wish to address.

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RE: Is my profile too much? - 5/23/2014 7:42:57 PM

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I see. I've had that issue come up once actually, but I didn't think much of it at the time. Thanks for your input.

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RE: Is my profile too much? - 5/23/2014 7:52:32 PM

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Since you are looking for someone for a LTR it might be good to add your vanilla interests. You'll want to find someone who is not only compatible with kinky things, but can enjoy the leisure activities with you.

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RE: Is my profile too much? - 5/23/2014 8:05:10 PM

NinjaNighmare

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Ah, thanks. I had that when I first made my profile, but thought it was saying too much. Appreciate the feedback, everybody!

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RE: Is my profile too much? - 6/10/2014 7:21:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NinjaNighmare

I'm not really new to the lifestyle, but I'm new to CM. My problem is that I'm never really satisfied with whatever I put in the "About me" section of my profile. I pretty much want to say what I want in a sub without sounding like an asshole or tool.

Honestly, I think I'm just overthinking things, but I digress. >.>

I like it. If you like it, then the one you seek will also if you think about it, right?

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RE: Is my profile too much? - 6/18/2014 7:24:50 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NinjaNighmare

I'm not really new to the lifestyle, but I'm new to CM. My problem is that I'm never really satisfied with whatever I put in the "About me" section of my profile. I pretty much want to say what I want in a sub without sounding like an asshole or tool.

Honestly, I think I'm just overthinking things, but I digress. >.>

To continue my previous post on this...

I like it. If you like it, then the one you seek will also if you think about it, right? Honestly, women are just a visual as we are so the ones I have met here mentioned profile issues but only after they decided to meet me based on my pictures and how the profile came across as honest rather than full of hot air. Some of these women will be very knowledgeable about Doms and may even have been one when they decided not to be one and look for honestly and ambition rather than experience and dishonesty.

Let me apply this to real life. Star hates Goreans. I used to focus my profile as I am, a Gorean who like many practice BDSM. She met me anyway based on my honesty and pictures in 2008 or 9 and we are together now. We are engaged. So, you are overthinking and we all did but I think you will be fine. Just fine.

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