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dmarc -> Mind bondage (7/10/2006 6:34:13 AM)
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Hi,
I do notice more and more people are interested in Mind Bondage, or the psychology or D/s relationships, The mind is fascinating and For a Master its equally fascinating and if anything an the ultimate adventure to work within the mind of a sub/slaves, and if your lucky enough to have someone willing to let you work in there head, that is . This sounds a bit like brain surgeon stuff, for some it is for other its not. Like anything its down to preference and also the consent you gain or are given. For Me Mind bondage Must be taken seriously. You can play with a person for years and go through the ever-growing list of the bondage experience. But one area that is free even when the physical world of the sub/slave is controlled is the mind (some may argue this is not true, and again I believe its down to point of view and the people involved). So I shall share with you my understanding and thoughts of Mind bondage.
The mind is both the centre of ones self and the character of the person (mentally). The 2 facts need to be separated out.
So firstly the list of Minds elements that make it the centre of ones self ("COS" For short), for those still wondering what the hell I am on about its like the operating system of a person and includes the following:
1)How to walk
2)How to eat
3)How to Communicate (language)
4)How to do there Job
5)The understanding of there environment
6)The understanding of there advanced education(university & collage Education)
7)There understanding of themselves
8)There understanding of sex
etc)I am sure there is more on this list. But I shall move on to the second area.
The character of the person ("COTP" again for short), includes the following:
1)There Habits
2)There Likes
3)There Dislikes
4)There Techniques of life (e.g. how one wash’s themselves)
5)There dresses style
6)There preference to food
7)There Preference to sexual experiences
etc)Again I am sure there is more on this list.
OK, I hope from these 2 lists (which are in no means complete) give’s an idea of what I am talking about, COS should not be altered or modified. So this means that any conditioning that your training contains must be focused based so that it makes the greatest impact on the COTP. To give you an example. Take a female and although I am not a female I am sure ever women has been taught to sit when going to the toilet. So say sub/slave as part of her Master's training, she is being conditioned so she will naturally always Do the toilet standing. So whenever she goes to the toilet the Master insures her position is standing, if she sits she gets punished, ok fair enough. But what the Master does not train is who she relieves herself, therefore leaving the COS alone and allowing her to function as a human being. I hope I am showing you that my views of train lead to a clear difference from conditioning the COTP and Not the COS of a person.
Ok So I would like to ask you all, to look at the COTP list and share together which elements you wish to discuss e.g. dress style, Likes etc.
I will start with mine, which is habits; Habits can be hard to break. So there conditioning a sub/slave can be long and hard regarding this, the first habit I like to change is the sitting habit, were a sub/slave must sit exposed when in private premises. I would first clearly state the desires, and then enforce with punishment. I would expect at first to give many punishments out, and then as time progresses the punishments would be less and the sub would achieve my wishes and sit the way I desired without me enforcing the desire or requesting it.
Well I look forward to your views.
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