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FieryOpal -> RE: Geeky/Normal-Sadomasochistic-Dom/Sub Says Hi! (6/5/2014 5:54:00 PM)
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Well, you're very straightforward. This is the Intro section, which is supposed to be a relatively cut & dried process. You did the right thing by posting your discussion topic on the non-Intro forum. If you haven't already, you should check out the Ask a Switch forum.
From what I've read over there, which you may or may not have yet encountered IRT there in the UK, here on line there is a polarization with Dominant women and submissive women. Ordinarily, Dommes want subs and femsubs want Dominants, not Switches. Don't take it personally.
You should have better success with female switches. The reason why I'm telling you this is because virtually no Domme will be interested in a guy who says he's a 99% Top-oriented Switch. I am one of the few who will consider a straight male switch, but he has to be 75-80% sub at the very minimum. Your best bet with a submissive female is to downplay any bottoming tendencies. You can discuss BDSM compatibility later, not right off the bat in most cases because there are more Collarspace women seeking LTRs than a mere NSA play partner. If and when you engage in primal play, you will almost assuredly get kneed, kicked and/or punched in the groin. [:D]
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