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AAkasha -> RE: constant money requests (6/14/2014 10:16:16 PM)
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali
They exist. Just bc you personally haven't encountered one or don't understand the fetish doesn't make it invalid or not real. I don't understand why anyone would want to be peed on. But that doesn't mean other people don't enjoy it.
I'll certainly concede that my knowledge and understanding in no way effect the truth value of a claim. However, they do of course effect whether I believe a claim. For instance, just because you personally haven't encountered Bigfoot or don't understand Bigfoot doesn't make it invalid or not real. However, until such time as one has sufficient evidence for the existence of Bigfoot, skepticism of said claim is reasonable and justified.
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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali
And I think most fin subs rarely, if ever, participate on the discussion end of the site bc of how financial domination is generally viewed. They usually understand how their fetish could appear strange to some and don't want to be judged. And given how harshly the Fin Dommes and findom in general is sometimes viewed on this end, I can see how they would be wary to talk about it.
If it's rarely than by all means someone please link me to some finsub posts and dispel my ignorance. If it's never....that seems rather suspicious to me, considering that the portion of the fetish that's viewed negatively (people with their hands out begging for cash) is so heavily represented.
I think there are a variety of types of financial masochism, for lack of a better word.
But I will give you two.
First is the desire for exploitation. Feeling used. It manifests in a lot of ways, but some men eroticize financial exploitation. Here's the reality though: I think most men get off on the idea/concept/threat of it, but when they wise up (after orgasm) they are much more logical about their finances. It's just a masturbation fantasy. They like the idea of being exploited but are content to trade emails with a femdom and get off on the threat and laying out of the process, then they orgasm and never part with their money.
The second kind of financial sub is one who has a fantasy about an unobtainable woman, out of his league, a princess, a "goddess" who uses him for money, lavish gifts, but fucks other men. It's similar to cuckolding. But once again, this is something a man can just fantasize about, talk about, get off on, and never part with his money. You know all those pay princesses that complain about the time wasters? These are guys that get hard when they read the exploitative profiles, then email a few times and get off on the degrading threats but they never part with their money.
Rather than question IF the fetish exists, also think about how it is created and manifests itself. Like any fetish. Just as a shoe fetishist might have masturbated with his aunt or babysitters shoes and reinforced that fantasy, a financial sub perhaps fell hard for a girl in his youth who used him for his money but always kept him at arm's length - but he masturbated, a lot, to her image. Or as I mentioned, it's a version of cuckolding - he spends all the money, she fucks other guys. But she's smoking hot and it's degrading to him that she will only be around him when he's spending money. Add onto that more flair if she's really demeaning about it.
These are fetishes that are demanding and honestly if I were a pro femdom they would NOT be worth the time. I have met men with these fetishes and trying to see eye to eye even in a non exploitive way is difficult. Because men that eroticize and fetishize money are the most meticulous about their cash - trust me, all these pay princesses are spinning their wheels most of the time and would make more bank working fast food. They just think it looks easy because part of the draw is to APPEAR like you are drowning in gifts. Most subs are taking these ladies for a ride and getting off on it - which is fine. The market will sort itself out.
Try not to be bothered by it.
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