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RE: Lying Deceitful slave - 6/9/2014 1:14:49 PM

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I've seen a post just like this a few months ago on another site. Facepalm I doubt youre serious because why keep him if he's so bad? Thats not being good to yourself. How can one treat you well when you dont even treat yourself well by releasing such a person

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RE: Lying Deceitful slave - 6/9/2014 4:05:03 PM

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You're equipped to help someone with a mental disorder? If he truly does have a mental disorder, what kind of damage would you do to him if you punish him badly enough to "NEVER FORGET"?

I think if you really want to help him and you think he needs it, get him to a professional that will know what to do for him. If he's not truly mentally ill and just a liar, thief, and con artist, why have that in your life?

Saying you will kill him for contact with your tenants is pretty over the top. Doesn't seem like you're making thought out decisions does it? If he's making you that emotional maybe you need him out of your life. Everyone knows you don't make ultimatums that you aren't prepared to carry through.

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RE: Lying Deceitful slave - 6/9/2014 4:09:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissesVicious

Athena,

That is why I have not rushed to judgement or punishment in spite of the fact that I want to beat his brains in.

Beat his brains in? That and the threat of killing....wow. Who's got the mental problem again?

Can't say i think it's very domly wildly out of control to the point that you're making threats.

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RE: Lying Deceitful slave - 6/9/2014 4:13:01 PM

GoddessManko

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ORIGINAL: MissesVicious

I have a 24/7 live-in slave. It has been 7 months. All along he has made up excuses and at times I have flat out called him on his bullshit. For instance, I asked him what he was doing, he didn't realize that I had been watching him for several minutes. He straight up lied about what he was doing.

He is not allowed to look at my phone, computer screen, etc. One day I was walking upstairs and had forgotten my phone so I turned back to get it... he thought I wasn't looking and quick ran over to my phone to see whom I had been texting.

These are not isolated instances, I catch him in stupid lies and outright shadiness all the time.

BUT NOW

He told one of my roommates to pay him the rent while I was in Florida last month. He had absolutely no authority to do such a thing and I flipped. I told him that if he ever interfered with my tenants again I would kill him.

Needless to say, he did... but then he lied about it and said that the tenant approached him and he had just set the money aside for me and had forgotten about it.

Long story short, he approached the tenant and asked for the rent. Then, he lied to me about how the situation transpired. He asked the tenant to delete the text messages between the two of them so that I would have no proof. SO he lied about something very serious, disobeyed, and then tried to cover the whole thing up.

I don't want to release him but I do want to make him NEVER FORGET how bad it will be if he continues with this behavior.

In every other way, he is OUTSTANDING. He would do anything for me and he does. I truly think he has a mental disorder and can't help it and I am prepared to do whatever I can to help him or kick his ass, whichever it takes.

I am just venting and trying to calm down before I approach this thing at all, and it has already been over a week.....

Comments are quite welcome.

You just explained why prodommes and findommes exist. Yet these same shady subs have the nerve to complain about them. There are very few genuine subs out there unfortunately. You need to be HIGHLY selective of who you let into your life and world. Some of these so called "subs" are just CREEPY STALKERS who attached a title to make it seem like "worship".
You need to get this weirdo out of your life ASAP, I'm sure you didn't need us to tell you that. How on earth did it take 7 months? Are you the D or the s? Sounds like he's running the show here if you don't mind me saying.
Honey YOU DO NOT LET SUBS PLAY YOU LIKE A FIDDLE.Some of these phonies WILL try. Not a matter of if but WHEN. Keep eyes and ears open please. It's your responsibility as a D. I hear so many accusations leveled at D's but apparently the ones throwing them haven't dealt with the other side with sub wannabes. They are more common than findommes in my opinion. Sorry to say.

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