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Rochsub2009 -> RE: Cuckolding question/advice (7/5/2014 8:22:00 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SubGuy4Life
Hello all,
This is my first post and although I have been on the collarme website for awhile I am now trying to become a more active member, I am however a novice and apologize if I offend anyone.
I have developed a deep craving/need to be a cuckold, but not the fake cuckold crap that comes up in a quick google search. I am seeking a Goddess to love and be loved by. Are they real Women out there that enjoy/want to be a cuckoldress, or is cuckold something that fake subs have twisted and warped so much that a Mistress hears cuckold and runs for the hills? I am not a cross dresser, sissy, nor do I consider myself gay in the slightest fashion. I have always toughly enjoyed sex and I think the combination of that and wanting to a submissive drives my desire to be a cuckold. For example it could be said that sex is the thing I want most, giving control of that to a Mistress is submission. Then to add on to the fact that she takes what I want most and teases me about having sex with other people is ultimate submission. I am not saying I never want sex (quite the contrary) but I think there would be a huge power exchange there. Which I think is what drives women to be dominate. Am I crazy/ making any sense? How do I get past the stereotypical crap that is associated to find a Mistress that is looking for similar things and not the fake money grabbing people on here? Is my idea even real or has it been also warped by the fake crap, ie maybe I am looking for something that isn't real. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, or at least to know there are like minded people like me.
Thank you all for your time!
SubGuy4Life,
Welcome to CM (or should I say CS?). I haven't read most (any?) of the replies that you've received, so forgive me if I repeat something that's already been said.
Like you, I am a male sub. I have quite a bit of experience with cuckolding. Probably more than anyone who has participated in this thread so far. So let me share a few thoughts from a male sub perspective.
Firstly, most men that I hear talking about cuckolding are actually describing a voyeur fantasy, and not true cuckolding. By this I mean that the majority of them aren't even in a relationship. How can you be cuckolded if you're not in a relationship? Yet, I see guys come onto this website all the time begging random women to "cuckold" them. How is that possible when they don't even know the women that they're asking to do it?
Furthermore, cuckolding is a minefield that can inflict serious emotional damage to the uninitiated. Say for example your wife decided to "cuckold you" as you desire. Well, suppose that the guy that she chooses is smarter, handsomer, richer, more charming, more engaging, more interesting and just more fun than you. Moreover, suppose he has a much larger penis and f*cks her in ways that you've never even contemplated. How long do you think it's going to take her to realize that he's a better option than you and leave you for the new guy? So rather than realizing your fantasy, you may in fact experience your nightmare. But guys who fantasize about this stuff never think about that. So take a moment to think about it. If he f*cks her better than you do, why does she need you? Simple question, but when you think about it, the answer may hurt.
Here's a thread that I think you should read in its entirety. I think there is lots of information in it that you will find helpful.
Very educational cuckolding thread
I hope that helps. Good luck.
-Roch
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