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Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/19/2014 9:10:00 PM   
Valkyrien


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ORIGINAL: I have to say your photos aren't to my personal taste either (but kudos for having your clothes on and showing a hobby) but others might enjoy them



This got me thinking, what kind of pictures are well perceived by a sub / slave?

I hope more than 3 people will post their thoughts this time...
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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/19/2014 9:58:08 PM   
littleladybug


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Status: offline 		I personally have no issues with your photos. Actually, I think it's interesting how you did the 4 poses...

I happen to like photos like yours better than just the plain old selfie.


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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/19/2014 10:12:09 PM   
PandoraFoxxx


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Status: offline 		I agree with littleladybug. I also would like to add that it is always really nice to see people outside their own bathroom mirrors They show a few different aspects of your personality, and the workout pic montage shows that you have pride in and dedication to how you look. A commitment to working out is not for everyone, but it is a commitment that takes a good deal of self discipline...A very good thing to see in a Dominant.

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/19/2014 10:33:05 PM   
CrazyHarleyQuinn


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Status: offline 		Something that shows me who they are, outside of kink. Showing me through their photos their smile, their hobbies, and maybe one shirtless selfie in there if it shows their rockhard abs they worked so hard at to get (although, that's generally not my type, because I'm not somebody who works out). No dick pics in sight, that's a must.

Pretty much, if I'm able to see through their photos that they aren't too into themselves, or all about sex, then they get an A+ in my book.

Well, just for pictures. You didn't mention the profile part. =p The profile part is most important for me - because I'm kind of looking for a Dom. I have a Daddy Dom currently, but it's temporary, because it's long distance.

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/19/2014 11:07:53 PM   
Valkyrien


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the feedback so far. I have added a few more pictures.

Please keep the thoughts/comments/feedback coming!

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/20/2014 1:23:18 AM   
GoddessManko


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Status: offline 		Yea, my friends tend to make fun of the guys who take gym selfies, I have on occasion, and I did it once (just wanted to show my legpress) and pretty much got a dose of it and I don't even have an instagram account full of them like most people. It happens. Sometimes you're just proud but it comes off as douchey. Funny thing is I have a friend who is physically impressive but he's so obsessed with making fun of people who are not as formidable as him, not talking to him a bit of a relief. The fact you care she made that comment says it might be the former rather than the latter.

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/20/2014 4:05:52 AM   
InHisHeart


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Status: offline 		I saw nothing unappealing about your photos, they're all different, some casual, some with a more serious approach, some fun. If I were looking, the pic with the dog would especially get my attention, I love animals and do animal rescue so having a pet adds a few beginning points in my book. What would turn me away would be nude pics and especially dick pics. I would think 1) he's way too hung up on himself and 2) is a dick is all he has to offer.

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/24/2014 10:18:06 PM   
realtuffdom


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Status: offline 		I have discovered that the types of pictures I have on my profile are probably exactly what you need to let everyone know that you are a true, excellent dom. I say this with much humility and modesty.

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/25/2014 8:36:22 PM   
Marioneta


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Status: offline 		Your pictures are great, in my opinion. Lots of variety. My favorite may be the bathroom mirror one where you're dressed up- 'cause every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man, after all. I like the work out photos but I wouldn't suggest using it as your primary picture as it might suggest vanity.

I look for face pictures, though it's not a deal breaker if a Domme (I'm looking for a female dominant) has none on display. The most important thing is what is communicated through the picture. I like to see some intensity. A series of smiley faced shots doesn't do much for me as I like bad bitches. It's nice too when it looks like the person put a little thought into the composition of the photo. A halfway-to-blurry, unflattering angle under terrible light in a messy bedroom selfie hurts us all.

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/27/2014 6:20:13 PM   
smileforme50


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ORIGINAL: InHisHeart

I saw nothing unappealing about your photos, they're all different, some casual, some with a more serious approach, some fun. If I were looking, the pic with the dog would especially get my attention, I love animals and do animal rescue so having a pet adds a few beginning points in my book. What would turn me away would be nude pics and especially dick pics. I would think 1) he's way too hung up on himself and 2) is a dick is all he has to offer.


^^^^ What she said ^^^^

I don't expect people to have self pics on their profiles.....I don't have one on mine. It's a matter of privacy. I don't want my face plastered all over a bdsm website. But to each his own. If you don't mind putting your picture or pictures up, that's great. But there's nothing wrong with not putting one up.

What I look for more than pictures of the person is what they WRITE in their profile. I try to not be the grammar police, but if all he can write is "This is my profile" all in lowercase, or he misspells every third word, then I'm not interested.

It's also nice to see something in his profile....whether in his pictures or his profile writing, that says he is looking for more than just a good blowjob.

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/29/2014 6:26:30 PM   
curiouskitty87


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Status: offline 		Pretty much what everyone else said. If you only had a picture of yourself at the gym I could see how some girls might perceive that negatively if they were to make assumptions like "he is trying too hard" or "he is really hung up on physical appearances" but the fact you have a variety and a well written, thought out profile makes you stand out for all the right reasons.

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/30/2014 6:55:16 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Howdy! I like your profile photos. In your narrative you say that working out is a big part of your life, so showing pictures of that makes sense to me.

I also like your profile narrative. It gives a nice, well-rounded view of who you are, your values, and what you would like to find.

Still, searching online is a tough market for straight men. You might want to jump-start your search by connecting with your community in person. At the very least, you'll probably make some new kinky friends.

Very best of luck to you!

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RE: Well perceived photos on a doms profile. - 6/30/2014 7:16:13 PM   
SirWizDom


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Status: offline 		yes well done. I've always tried to give a more complete picture of who I am through my pics as well, I think its a good idea. I understand there are many members on sites like this that, for one reason or another, cannot show their private life. I don't have those issues fortunately.
Again, nice insights.

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