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Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 12:41:32 AM

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The mere thought of being bound, helplessly gives pleasure to most of us including me. As we slaves cherish to part away with our freedom with the expectation of getting immense pleasure in engaging in BDSM sex. Imagine you are being abused, dominated and you are helpless. I like that condition.

At times I feel that my hands are cuffed from behind, my ankles chained, me collared, blindfolded, gagged and in an underground dungeon miles below the surface, that even sunlight don't reach. There I am locked, enjoying unlimited BDSM whereas the world knows that I am dead.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 1:06:37 AM

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Honey, I hear this kind of fantasy wank fodder all the time, a fantasy which is far removed from reality. Who is going to go through the trouble of whisking you off to a deep underground dungeon shaft for the express purpose of keeping you bound you so that you are no earthly good as a slave to any real-life Master or Mistress? How could you then be of service as a slave? You speak of "engaging in BDSM sex," yet if your Mistress wanted a sex slave, why would she need to expend this amount of unnecessary effort and incur the expense of keeping one as a pseudo-captive, and what makes you think we have dungeons at our disposal?

You have what appears to be a registered free slave certificate. Have you ever been submissive to anyone or had a Master before, ever served as a servant and acquired any skills? Was this person responsible for your daily care and upkeep, and what did you do to contribute to the household or to pull your own weight domestically? Reality-check time--nobody wants an unproductive slave. It is by making yourself useful and adding value to your Dominant's life that you become a desirable and cherished slave, not some abuser's damaged goods or dangerous psychopath's next victim, or worse.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 1:33:19 AM

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Almost all people (it depends on situations) get fascinated by BDSM and this is as per my opinion. In BDSM some like me feel pleasure obeying master's/company's order and some cannot resist ordering to their slaves as a corporate CEO. Everybody is into BDSM but the terminology may be different. But a thing is for sure and that if you have multitude of talent then if tend to occupy the post of a dom whereas slaves are entities that are poorly bred, not well read and perhaps because of that, submissive.

I feel that in me there may be a character who is submissive, beautiful, sexy. Yes, anything which is submissive, beautiful is undoubtedly sexy. I feel attracted to this cute character and also I am straight. The attraction is such that I want to be in BDSM with that beautiful character and from here arise the theory and practice of this lifestyle. Though frankly, like to make a candid confession that I have not experienced BDSM earlier as I am a decent person offline, but I feel that I need to share my feelings and fantasies with the world via the web.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 1:49:42 AM

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I feel attracted to this cute character and also I am straight. The attraction is such that I want to be in BDSM with that beautiful character and from here arise the theory and practice of this lifestyle. Though frankly, like to make a candid confession that I have not experienced BDSM earlier as I am a decent person offline, but I feel that I need to share my feelings and fantasies with the world via the web.

You might want to make a correction in your profile then. Either you are not a woman or you are not seeking a Dominant woman. It can't be both if you are straight. This fantasy construct of yours is based on your low opinion of yourself and of submissives in general. You say slaves are "poorly bred, not well read," and that is totally untrue and these have nothing to do with one another and are simply a reflection of yourself. If you feel you are poorly bred, then do something pro-active to raise your station in life. If you are not well-read, then make self-improvements there to educate yourself as you are able, and release yourself from this negative and self-defeating self-image.

You are your own slave, nobody else's, and have made yourself a slave in your own mind. When you enter into a relationship with a Dominant, there is a power exchange that takes place. You, my friend, have no power to give in your current state, so the submission you offer has little to no value -- Do you not see that? Become someone of value and worth, whether as a slave or not.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 1:51:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: me2014

Almost all people (it depends on situations) get fascinated by BDSM...

It is getting more popular since 50 shades of shit but still nowhere near "Almost all people" yet.

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...Everybody is into BDSM...

Umm... nope. Not even close.

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but the terminology may be different. But a thing is for sure and that if you have multitude of talent then if tend to occupy the post of a dom whereas slaves are entities that are poorly bred, not well read and perhaps because of that, submissive.

An extremely miopic and porn-contaminated PoV.

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...like to make a candid confession that I have not experienced BDSM earlier as I am a decent person offline,

What makes you think that these are mutually exclusive to each other???

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but I feel that I need to share my feelings and fantasies with the world via the web.

Maybe try the "Creative writing" section... third corridor on the left

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 4:02:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

You might want to make a correction in your profile then. Either you are not a woman or you are not seeking a Dominant woman.

I just checked the profile and it says Male Dominant which makes this whole post even more confusing.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 5:28:03 AM

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Sooooo, you are a decent person and decided to share your fantasy with us because we are not good folks?

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 5:51:05 AM

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Welcome to the lifestyle. I'd suggest heading over to fetlife run a search for your geographical area and find a munch there. Attend the munch and act like a normal person. You know like you would any other time you're hanging out with people in a bar. Good luck hopefully that will help get things sorted out for you.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 8:31:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: InHisHeart

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

You might want to make a correction in your profile then. Either you are not a woman or you are not seeking a Dominant woman.

I just checked the profile and it says Male Dominant which makes this whole post even more confusing.

Yikes! Now it is a Slave/Domme couples profile, both female, and one is bisexual. This seems more like an attempt to fit into
whatever dynamic will get them/her/him the attention they seek.

Op, there is nothing wrong with your fantasy. We all have our own secret sexual scenarios. What you shouldn't do with this
fantasy of yours is to assume every person you meet will fit into the desired characters that play out in your head.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 8:44:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: InHisHeart

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

You might want to make a correction in your profile then. Either you are not a woman or you are not seeking a Dominant woman.

I just checked the profile and it says Male Dominant which makes this whole post even more confusing.

Yikes! Now it is a Slave/Domme couples profile, both female, and one is bisexual. This seems more like an attempt to fit into
whatever dynamic will get them/her/him the attention they seek.

Op, there is nothing wrong with your fantasy. We all have our own secret sexual scenarios. What you shouldn't do with this
fantasy of yours is to assume every person you meet will fit into the desired characters that play out in your head.

On a positive note, anyone interested can look at this thread and save themselves a lot of wasted time.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 8:46:58 AM

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And that appears to be its entire 'General' relevance. A way to quick flush.

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 4:55:47 PM

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But a thing is for sure and that if you have multitude of talent then if tend to occupy the post of a dom whereas slaves are entities that are poorly bred, not well read and perhaps because of that, submissive.

Wow... that's... a little offensive.

I must be poorly bred and not well read to enjoy losing control. Lets just throw away my university degrees, not to mention military medals and commendations. /sarcasm

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 4:59:06 PM

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When you enter into a relationship with a Dominant, there is a power exchange that takes place.

Not necessarily

... Consensual nonconsent anyone?

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RE: Me in BDSM - 6/21/2014 5:54:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: FightingChains

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When you enter into a relationship with a Dominant, there is a power exchange that takes place.

Not necessarily ... Consensual nonconsent anyone?

Hey, you're not kidding me, Fighter. I'm dealing with someone right now who keeps insisting he's not a sub. He sure is behaving like one with me...so one of his nicknames is "subbieboy." (hehehe)

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