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MHOO314 -> Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 12:25:32 PM)

Here is an interesting question for a Monday afternoon--a Mistress is ready to get married--to Her slave (note I said slave)--does She propose? Does She Order? Does She give him the details and he is expected to obey and show up?
 
This should be fun----thoughts?



MissAli -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 12:36:44 PM)

Oh, I didn't find this interesting on the first read, but the second read got my head turning.
I suppose with my current pup, I wouldn't ask for sure. I would come up with some fun and interested way to tell him. That's all it would be: letting him know that it is what I was going to create for us. I'm sure I'd come up with some fun, probably painful for him, enjoyable way to let him know that we were going to be wed.

That aside: I don't plan to ever marry. Hahaa. So, there ya go. Though, were the word marriage simply exchanged for a life-time ceremony...same thing.



mnottertail -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 12:48:18 PM)

Set it up to whip the slave/submissive.........the safeword is 'Will you marry me'?

The scene is telling them what when where how and why. As you stroke

A reverse proposal if you will.

Then at the last, the Domme is free to say, Yes or No, depending on their whim.

Ronne



MHOO314 -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 12:52:38 PM)

ROTFLMAO



TeeGO -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 1:04:59 PM)

Mistress Hathor, that is a good one, oh my. 

Were I a slave in such a relationship, I would expect her to tell me we were and that would be that.   Of course getting to such a deep relationship is not something I would jump into quickly.  I kind of seriously doubt I will ever be in that deep of a relationship, but one can hope.






Minino -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 1:29:51 PM)

Congratulations Mistress Hathor...a good cuestion today.
If the things are well  , she always propose....after order and protect to him permamently.wow¡
But the life  everytimes are a surprise good or badly...snifff.
we most be very hardest fot to go on.....
Anyways a incendiary word "Married"...
Wops i forget the crazy things that a submissive could do for her Mistress.
It could be one , for example....but not the only.je,je,je
Regards:
Minino.



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 1:45:58 PM)

As with anything in the M/s relationship, I always ask, with a smile.
Whether the question is "Will you run to the store and buy Me some lemon ice?" or "Will you marry Me?", the only acceptable answer is, "Yes, Ma'am!"
Therefore, any question is phrased politely, but would still be received as an order.
*WEG*
That said, I know of some submissive boys, as well as slave boys, who did get down on bended knee and ask their Lady to marry.  The Ladies said yes.
 
quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Set it up to whip the slave/submissive.........the safeword is 'Will you marry me'?



Good one, Ronne!  Our honorary Domina is all over this! 



thetammyjo -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 1:48:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Here is an interesting question for a Monday afternoon--a Mistress is ready to get married--to Her slave (note I said slave)--does She propose? Does She Order? Does She give him the details and he is expected to obey and show up?

This should be fun----thoughts?


Others' thoughts on this is very interesting because I wouldn't marry a slave not just because I all ready have a husband but because I see the role of slave and husband as being different.



Oumae -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 3:18:54 PM)

Lol.... good one Ron.

Oumae



jonathan -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 5:06:04 PM)

i would say b) or c), and they're really the same thing, just worded differently. As She already owns him, the idea of marriage is just one more thing that She wants, for whatever reason. So She gets it. my Goddess told me about Ronne's post here. Safeword? Oh, right, always had them, never used one. VERY interesting scene. Psychological, physical, and emotional all rolled into one. Mmmmmmm.......

Given an order, obedience is mandatory.



yourMissTress -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 6:12:05 PM)

My girl asked Me, and then a few weeks later I asked her.  All that mattered to Me was that we both wanted to spend the rest of our lives with each other.



janiceleeinsc -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 7:29:09 PM)

This is interesting.   He asked me.   We are taking our time because both of us have been through a bad divorce.  This time, I decide the rules, but there is still a matter of equity laws.  Everything is now out of my name, and into a trust fund.  

Respectfully,  Mistress_Jan

That is because I lost $17,000 to my previous ex who was a vanilla. Grr. Grr. 
Explains my issues with men I suppose. 



SweetSarijane -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 8:51:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Set it up to whip the slave/submissive.........the safeword is 'Will you marry me'?

The scene is telling them what when where how and why. As you stroke

A reverse proposal if you will.

Then at the last, the Domme is free to say, Yes or No, depending on their whim.

Ronne



ROFL......oh I love that!!!! Totally hilarious and wicked.



personagrata -> Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/10/2006 10:04:07 PM)

Propose? A Mistress????

Rhetorically speaking, “No” is not an option for a slave, so the question would be futile, since the answer would be “Yes Ma’am”, or any variation to that.

Unless, as a husband, the “boy” would have a different status, and not be a slave anymore. The subject now is a change of status to the once slave, now the issue is: would the Mistress order the –still- slave to the new position, or ask for his opinion?

This was meant as  reply to Mistress Hathor, but the system did not allow me to correct !!!



BitaTruble -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/11/2006 12:30:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Here is an interesting question for a Monday afternoon--a Mistress is ready to get married--to Her slave (note I said slave)--does She propose? Does She Order? Does She give him the details and he is expected to obey and show up?
 
This should be fun----thoughts?


Along these same lines, does a Mistress expect the slave to take her last name in the event of marriage?

Celeste



MistressOfGa -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/11/2006 8:38:26 AM)

MH,
Interesting.  I am old fashion in the sense that if he didnt ask me, chances are, I wouldnt ask him.



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/11/2006 12:04:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Here is an interesting question for a Monday afternoon--a Mistress is ready to get married--to Her slave (note I said slave)--does She propose? Does She Order? Does She give him the details and he is expected to obey and show up?
 
This should be fun----thoughts?



IMO...She does propose,and then the 2 of them work on details together.
This a ceremony about coming together as equals and both parties should have a say.I found that in My vanilla marriage,I gave him details and things to do...A checklist of sorts and it was awesome.All tasks were completed.

slave bishop she just goes ahead and sets it all up,does the list.I like to see submissives or slave take an initive and not need a Mother to tell them what to do all the time.



Calandra -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/11/2006 1:22:20 PM)

I married my cubby on July 12th 2003... I planned a beautiful scene and then asked him... I knew he'd say yes, but then things kinda went screwy in our lives and the next time I asked him, we just kinda knew it was the right thing to do... we both want to be together forever if possible...
 



mistressrose10 -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/11/2006 1:48:47 PM)

While Mnottertail's response was diabolically funny, I'm with you on being a little old fashioned and having him ask.I think some slaves may require strong hints to discern that you want to be asked!



LotusSong -> RE: Hmmm, does She ask or order? (7/11/2006 3:59:50 PM)

.RE: Of course getting to such a deep relationship is not something I would jump into quickly. 

I would be very concous of that.. and my way would be "Being the inelligent slave you are, should you ever ask me to marry you.. I would",  then leave it in his lap to ponder.

I always leave an "out"

But I REALLY do like the safeword one :)



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