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payingoinker -> Most popular kink? (6/22/2014 5:16:15 PM)

Thoughts?




Exidor -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/23/2014 5:24:26 AM)

Probably spanking, if that's even "kink" any more...




nwbie -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/24/2014 2:53:46 PM)

I would say bondage :D




DarkSteven -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/24/2014 6:48:53 PM)

Yeah, I would have said spanking or bondage.




RemoteUser -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 1:13:12 PM)

Killer clown enema play precursor to a gangbang with midgets holding tasers and rabbits wearing spiders as hats with aftercare in the garden watching classic live vegetable sex porn as plants cross pollinate.

Or...bondage.




mnottertail -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 1:20:14 PM)

You left out doritos up the ass.




RemoteUser -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 1:25:49 PM)

No I didn't. (I just couldn't retrieve them. Or the bag.)

(On an entirely unrelated note, got a swiveling flashlight?)




mnottertail -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 1:27:30 PM)

Eggs and ice cubes.




RemoteUser -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 1:34:43 PM)

Should I use deviled eggs? (This is starting to sound like a theme date.)

What would you suggest I use as a footstool to get my ass close enough to the ice dispenser built into my fridge?




mnottertail -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 1:42:46 PM)

Deviled if you feel naughty, and scrambled if you are ambivalent, I should think.




RemoteUser -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 1:56:18 PM)

Ambivalent sounds right, but let me ask my pill bottles first. (They always know best.)




Moderator3 -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 2:00:55 PM)

All I have to say to you all is: http://www.collarchat.com/m_2093880/mpage_1/tm.htm It works for another current thread as well.

Have fun!





RemoteUser -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 2:03:49 PM)

Yay, assicure!

Now I have this wonderful image of white water rafting through caves.

Hey. I should have added that to the most popular fetish list. I think it's too late to edit though. [&o]

(I wonder if I could get a conference call happening with Richard Gere and the casting crew of the "Hammy Hamster" movie.)




HoneyBears -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 3:28:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Moderator3

All I have to say to you all is: http://www.collarchat.com/m_2093880/mpage_1/tm.htm It works for another current thread as well.

Have fun!

OMG, that thread was for real!
Are there that many dirty-ass people running around?

I have to brag on my boy here. Eat a well-balanced diet with plenty of fiber, fast the day before or a half-day, drink plenty of hydrating fluids (not fruit juices).
He has never had to prep with an enema.

Our favorite kink(s)? He is telling me it is oral worship, including rimming, then OTK spanking with ass play.
Mine is having him beg to please me. He has made begging an irresistible art form.
Our favorite vanilla kink is our sex-talk and bathing together, along with fondling.




Hotch -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/25/2014 3:42:54 PM)

Missionary




RemoteUser -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/26/2014 6:29:54 PM)

With, or without, the walking staff, frock, and thurible?

(Reminds me of one of the best lines ever during costume play: "It's a bad habit, but I love it.")




orgasmdenial12 -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/27/2014 3:41:29 PM)

Masochism, or pain. I don't know any submissives who don't do pain at all. But I know plenty who don't do rope (myself included).




SexyThoughts -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/27/2014 4:40:27 PM)

Data point of one and we were both drunk. A former retail sex shop owner at a party told me, her most sold objects, were first vibrators then shitty fluffy handcuffs, then shitty riding crops.

Vibes win hands down. According to her like bra's or shoes, no one stops at just one type of vibe until they get one for every mood.
Every second woman will buy a sexy whip or riding crop to as a bad girl bedroom fashion accessory, but few will actually hurt people with them.

But kink-wise the socially acceptable vanilla default for "spicing things up" is a symbolic pair of cheap faux fur lined handcuffs dangling from a finger. Hen parties, 21st's, Valentines day, Birthdays, mothers and fathers day, just vacuum them off the shelves. And because they only last a few sessions, and the sessions are spaced apart, they're practically consumables compared longer lasting quality bondage gear that only gets sold once.

But retail is getting stomped by online sellers hard, so online sales would be a better marker.




FieryOpal -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/27/2014 5:12:22 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SexyThoughts

A former retail sex shop owner at a party told me, her most sold objects, were first vibrators then shitty fluffy handcuffs, then shitty riding crops.

Vibes win hands down. According to her like bra's or shoes, no one stops at just one type of vibe until they get one for every mood.
Every second woman will buy a sexy whip or riding crop to as a bad girl bedroom fashion accessory, but few will actually hurt people with them.
<snip>

Hey, I'm exceedingly fond of my non-shitty riding crop, made of stiffened black leather.
FYI, it is intended for directional use and guidance, the same as originally intended when riding one's steed.
It isn't mean to be used as a whip or to inflict pain at sado-masochistic levels.
Much like a slap to the face, the beauty is in the sting. (Both convey the message who's boss, but the crop is much safer. [;)] )

I've known too many (vanilla) women who have gotten accustomed to using vibrators to the point where they can only orgasm with one, and no longer with their boyfriend or husband. [:o]

I only need one...for my sub. You can get the kind for multi-purpose use, with different settings for speed and pulsations, that fits on a belt and/or suctions to the freaking wall. [8|]




orgasmdenial12 -> RE: Most popular kink? (6/28/2014 3:15:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SexyThoughts
Vibes win hands down. According to her like bra's or shoes, no one stops at just one type of vibe until they get one for every mood.


I get that I'm probably the exception, but vibrators do nothing for me. I'm not even really sure why I'm supposed to find the sensation of vibration sexy, it's nothing like sex? It wouldn't be an issue but almost every guy I meet is convinced that all women love vibrators and it takes me quite a while to get them out of that mindset.

The less funny part is that several friends and lovers have spent a lot of money buying very expensive vibrators for me, thinking that because I'm a very sexual person, I must be really into vibrators, or that maybe all I need is a really good vibrator. They just get put in the drawer to gather dust. I think a lot of vibrators get bought as gifts because people think all women love vibrators, when they don't.

Also, most kinksters I know have specialist stores that they get their kit from - anyone buying bdsm stuff from a sex shop is most likely a newbie or is just experimenting. It'd be interesting to compare stats on things like canes and floggers from kinky merchants.




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