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MistressDarkArt -> RE: New guy wondering how this works! (6/26/2014 11:36:29 AM)
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Howdy Ashemsu, welcome to the boards!
You'll soon discover that kinky people are just like 'vanilla people with a twist'. So if you approach kinky folk as people first, kinky second you'll have a much better chance.
You'll also discover that our lifestyle operates on give and take. So if you want a dominant woman to tie you up and tease you or make you cum repeatedly, there will have to be something in it for her other than catering to you. For easy instant gratification, get out your wallet. For something more meaningful, develop a friendship/relationship with a dominant woman. Accept that you will pay in time and heart or in money. Pick your preferred currency and get comfortable with it.
Since you are young, new and inexperienced with the lifestyle, likely your best bet will be to find a TNG (the next generation, 18-35) group nearest you. Volunteer at munches, events and demonstrations; offer to do grunt work too and not just the fun stuff like demo bottom. Get to know both men and women. Wow them with your willingness to help and participate.
Best of luck on your journey!
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