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Prostate Milking - 7/12/2014 8:57:06 AM   
nychudson500


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Status: offline 		Hello, Amanda again. I had some luck posting on the forums in January. I got some good responses and met a few people who ended up being very helpful. Some people definitely did not agree with my lifestyle, but I suppose that's understandable. Anyways, I am back again with a few more questions. I hope to find some great advice for the second time!

Last time, I posted about trying to find a replacement for sex as a reward for my slave because I was no longer interested in regular intercourse with him. We tried some things that people recommended here. So I am trying to learn more about prostate milking now because that hasn't been so easy to figure out. I searched this forum, looked at some websites, even read some blogs. There doesn't seem to be a lot of consistency. So I'd like to hear from people who have direct experience... if they are willing to share!

I am curious about how to do it most effectively. So far I tried fingers (kinda gross) and Aneros (better, but slow). I am also curious about how long to go between each time I do it. Again, I am not sure and can't seem to find much consensus. And any other relevant hints. :)
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RE: Prostate Milking - 7/12/2014 9:05:50 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		enema. nitrile gloves. vaseline. over and done. in that order.

< Message edited by mnottertail -- 7/12/2014 9:06:44 AM >

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RE: Prostate Milking - 7/12/2014 10:54:11 AM   
MistressDarkArt


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enema. nitrile gloves. vaseline. over and done. in that order.


All of which you can have him do himself at your command.

Btw: no vaseline. Use a water or silicone-based lube. Vaseline gums up orifices, breaks down latex, and makes greasy messes that are hard to clean.

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RE: Prostate Milking - 12/23/2014 4:14:29 AM   
sissycdmiranda


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Status: offline 		i can never achieve ejaculation from my prostate

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RE: Prostate Milking - 12/26/2014 7:07:59 AM   
experiment2


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Status: offline 		i think most prostate milking does not result in an ejaculation or a "normal" orgasm, but rather a slow but steady flow of cum from the cock that drains the male of semen stored in the prostate reduces his urge and/or desire to orgasm.

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RE: Prostate Milking - 12/26/2014 10:27:09 AM   
decker19


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Status: offline 		Prostate milking is a "ruined" orgasm, more of an uncontrolled leaking than a rush. My Mistress used to arouse me with her hand while using the Aeneros on my prostate. The idea was to get me excited but then ruin the orgasm by milking my prostate. Yes, the Aenoeros takes some time but the "almost" real orgasm which gave way to a ruined orgasm both drove me wild and left me frustrated - which was exactly the effect she wanted to achieve. I hope this is useful.

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RE: Prostate Milking - 12/26/2014 10:39:33 AM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nychudson500

Hello, Amanda again. I had some luck posting on the forums in January. I got some good responses and met a few people who ended up being very helpful. Some people definitely did not agree with my lifestyle, but I suppose that's understandable. Anyways, I am back again with a few more questions. I hope to find some great advice for the second time!

Last time, I posted about trying to find a replacement for sex as a reward for my slave because I was no longer interested in regular intercourse with him. We tried some things that people recommended here. So I am trying to learn more about prostate milking now because that hasn't been so easy to figure out. I searched this forum, looked at some websites, even read some blogs. There doesn't seem to be a lot of consistency. So I'd like to hear from people who have direct experience... if they are willing to share!

I am curious about how to do it most effectively. So far I tried fingers (kinda gross) and Aneros (better, but slow). I am also curious about how long to go between each time I do it. Again, I am not sure and can't seem to find much consensus. And any other relevant hints. :)


First I'm curious as to why you would reward your slave for good behavior?? his being allowed to serve you should be reward enough. Otherwise, in My opinion, he is simply serving in order to earn a reward and not simply for your pleasure. JMO

For milking there are also Electro Ejaculators that are quick and efficient. Some numbing cream, ice, or painful CBT will negate any possible pleasure he might receive from the uncontrollable emission.

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RE: Prostate Milking - 12/26/2014 12:45:12 PM   
Taymyr


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Status: offline 		After a great deal of trial and error, I have become proficient at milking my slave who is locked in a secure steel chastity device. I use the Aneros milker and KY jelly or its equivalent. I am able to drain him without removing the chastity device and he does not experience any sexual pleasure, which is perfect!

He finds this process quite humiliating and I have capitalized on that, placing him in stocks and milking him in front of other women. It's lovely!

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RE: Prostate Milking - 12/27/2014 3:31:33 PM   
wannapleez


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck
First I'm curious as to why you would reward your slave for good behavior?? his being allowed to serve you should be reward enough.


Maybe because some Dommes prefer to go past "enough".

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck
Otherwise, in My opinion, he is simply serving in order to earn a reward and not simply for your pleasure. JMO


Wait! You're going to sit there and tell us with a straight face what the genuine motivations are of someone you don't even know? To quote the great philosopher, Larry the Cable Guy, "I don't care who you are; that's funny, right there."

Nearly every Domme that I have served has occasionally given rewards for good service. Not once were said rewards my motivation.

I'm genuinely sorry that your experiences have led you to think in such grossly over-generalizing terms. But not everyone in the world behaves the same as those in your realm of experience.

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RE: Prostate Milking - 12/27/2014 3:47:34 PM   
wannapleez


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Prostate milking is a "ruined" orgasm


Actually, no. Prostate milking can be used as part of a ruined orgasm (and what your Mistress did sounds like that), but the two are hardly synonymous. Most ruined orgasms have nothing to do with prostate milking. And conversely I know of no prostate milkings that even approach any kind of orgasm (neither in reading nor in personal experience).

Riffing off experiment2's excellent description, prostate milking generally results in the production of as much semen as an orgasm would, but it usually just leaks out with little or no physical stimulation driving the ejaculation.

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RE: Prostate Milking - 12/27/2014 3:58:44 PM   
wannapleez


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nychudson500
Last time, I posted about trying to find a replacement for sex as a reward for my slave because I was no longer interested in regular intercourse with him. We tried some things that people recommended here. So I am trying to learn more about prostate milking now because that hasn't been so easy to figure out. I searched this forum, looked at some websites, even read some blogs. There doesn't seem to be a lot of consistency. So I'd like to hear from people who have direct experience... if they are willing to share!

I am curious about how to do it most effectively. So far I tried fingers (kinda gross) and Aneros (better, but slow). I am also curious about how long to go between each time I do it. Again, I am not sure and can't seem to find much consensus. And any other relevant hints. :)


Personally, I receive my most effective prostate milkings when I am being pegged. For me, pegging doesn't provide much physical arousal, but the psychological arousal is off the charts. If my prostate is milked during the process, then the psychological arousal goes even higher.

For something like that, if my physical arousal matched my psychological arousal, Mr Happy would be 10 feet long and could be used as a battering ram in a Tolkein movie. Now if your slave is of a similar mindset, then yes, milking would be a reward. But I know a lot of guys for whom the psychological isn't enough (in and of itself), and so for them, it might even be a punishment. Have you established with him where milking falls for him?

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RE: Prostate Milking - 2/5/2015 9:31:29 PM   
MsLovingLife


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Status: offline 		Interesting read...I have had no luck with prostate milking my slave. Have tried fingers, and the Aneros. Hmmm....will try again. LOL - like tomorrow :-)

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RE: Prostate Milking - 2/28/2015 6:37:25 AM   
DandyBoy11


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nychudson500
I am curious about how to do it most effectively. So far I tried fingers (kinda gross) and Aneros (better, but slow). I am also curious about how long to go between each time I do it. Again, I am not sure and can't seem to find much consensus. And any other relevant hints. :)


quote:

ORIGINAL: wannapleez
Personally, I receive my most effective prostate milkings when I am being pegged. For me, pegging doesn't provide much physical arousal, but the psychological arousal is off the charts. If my prostate is milked during the process, then the psychological arousal goes even higher.


Still a little green in this department, but I'd agree with wannapleez that psychology is the key factor in hands-free orgasm, almost as much as technique. I'd recommend teasing him and his cock for about a week straight while manipulating his interior or with him self-manipulating his interior at your discretion, as MistressDarkArt suggested. Get him conditioned to be right on the edge with the sensation on his prostrate. Gradually wean him on to solely prostrate play and verbal teasing. The combined denial and reconditioning might do the trick. Repeat the process enough and his mind should rewire his body so that prostrate massage = orgasm.

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ORIGINAL: Taymyr
After a great deal of trial and error, I have become proficient at milking my slave who is locked in a secure steel chastity device. I use the Aneros milker and KY jelly or its equivalent. I am able to drain him without removing the chastity device and he does not experience any sexual pleasure, which is perfect!

He finds this process quite humiliating and I have capitalized on that, placing him in stocks and milking him in front of other women. It's lovely!

Hopefully I'll get there, someday, because that is incredible! You are both very fortunate!

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RE: Prostate Milking - 2/28/2015 2:12:40 PM   
MariaB


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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck



First I'm curious as to why you would reward your slave for good behavior??


OMG does this mean I've been doing it wrong all these years?


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RE: Prostate Milking - 2/28/2015 2:45:42 PM   
Whippedboy


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Status: offline 		Dandyboy has it pretty close to what works for me.
You can tease his penis (however works best for you two) but some physical stimulation should be happening for a few days (longer the better).
Also teasing with an anal toy for a few days. Key here is not to let ejaculation happen.
I found a toy like this works best for me.

http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotic-Novelties-Ez-reach-Prostate/dp/B003CYL014/ref=sr_1_6?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1425162583&sr=1-6&keywords=prostate+toys

The nub really seems to make a difference.
So when I or my Domme are going to do this, we keep me on edge for a few days, or however long you want, but the build-up is important for this being successful.
I typically lay on my back with my knees drawn up and either I use the toy or my Domme.
The sensation is FREEEEAKY! I LOVE it!
It's pleasurable, but def not an "orgasm feeling."
I can get a pretty decent spurt sometimes. But it is mostly more streaming out. Different every time.
I may also apply some stimulation to my penis at the beginning just to get things going. But once you find that JUST right spot, you can tell and I know it is only a matter of time.
Can take anywhere from 10-45 min. Though I can't go 45 min straight... :(
Hope that helps cuz it's cool as shit when it happens!
Good luck!

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RE: Prostate Milking - 2/28/2015 4:03:30 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		You have to weed through the ads trying to sell you a guide, but there are dozens of free instructional videos around.

a guide to prostate milking

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RE: Prostate Milking - 3/5/2015 7:56:02 AM   
MistressFiera


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Status: offline 		I have a unipolar electric plug meant for a pez unit. This item is medium sized but hard. On this particular occasion I did not have the unit on but was just milking him with it in a bent over worshiping position. Fully lubed and consistent in milking for like 10 minutes or less he said the feeling was as though he had to pee but I told him to let whatever it was out and when he did he told me afterward that was the most intense orgasm he has ever had. So that is how I do it. When it works you just go with it! I have had one other friend have success with this same method so that is good!

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RE: Prostate Milking - 3/5/2015 9:57:07 AM   
Bhruic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Taymyr

After a great deal of trial and error, I have become proficient at milking my slave who is locked in a secure steel chastity device. I use the Aneros milker and KY jelly or its equivalent. I am able to drain him without removing the chastity device and he does not experience any sexual pleasure, which is perfect!

He finds this process quite humiliating and I have capitalized on that, placing him in stocks and milking him in front of other women. It's lovely!


Lucky him! That's one of the hottest things I've heard described here in a long time :)

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RE: Prostate Milking - 3/20/2015 6:22:27 PM   
yourshades


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Status: offline 		I would agree .....it will confuse him . He should only be there to serve and please you .

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