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Collaboration - 7/16/2014 4:02:43 PM

Madamned

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Hi :) What are your thoughts on collaboration with other Dommes?
I would be happy to meet another Domme and offer RT sessions together, I even thought about creating a website together. I think it's just more fun this way and you can share your experiences with someone. I can talk to my friends about it but they actually have no clue how everything works. I do it alone at the moment but I am hoping to find a suitable person to collaborate. Do you think I should just browse profiles and send messages to Dommes I find interesting or post somewhere and wait for replies?
If you done it before, what are your experiences?
Also, if you are interested, please PM me.

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RE: Collaboration - 7/17/2014 9:17:25 AM

Miyani

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I think it's a good idea to get to know someone before you try to negotiate a scene with them, whether they're top, bottom, dom/me, sub, whatever. And I know from personal experience that one of the common scams here is "you'd be perfect for our dungeon, let's audition you on cam." (No, I didn't fall for it. :P ) So it's likely that if you start off with a collaboration request, people won't respond, because they'll assume you're not who you claim to be.

My strong advice would be to get out into the local, RL community and get to know people. Make friends with other dommes, and with subs, and then see if any of them want to play all together with you.

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RE: Collaboration - 7/17/2014 10:36:54 AM

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I assume with the talk of websites and offering real time sessions you mean that you want to both be pro-dominants and do scenes together? As opposed to a friend/lover who would top alongside you?

I second the suggestion that you go and make friends in the community. Any prodomme worth her salt won't want to waste her time and risk her reputation by agreeing to work with someone that she hasn't seen in action. She'll want to know you're safe, knowledgeable, and a good fit for her style, and I'm sure you'll want to do the same to her.

You'll also need to do some homework about the legal side of things - everything from taxes to liability insurance to making sure you don't accidentally violate your local prostitution laws. Adding in more people makes it more complicated. And I really wouldn't recommend advertising on a kink site to find a sub to make you a website - do NOT trust any sort of personal information or professional/financial stakes to someone looking for sexual release. Hire an actual web developer and get agreements in writing.

If I'm misunderstanding and you're just looking for a play friend, it still comes down to going into the community. See who you hit it off with. Once you are well-liked, I'm sure you'll have no problem finding people to play with. Miyani is right that the internet is so full of scammers I'd be suspicious of someone just approaching me with that offer.

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RE: Collaboration - 7/17/2014 10:53:57 AM

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^^^OP, the ladies have spoken. I agree with them 100%.

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RE: Collaboration - 7/18/2014 11:03:46 AM

Arturas

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Interesting. So, gang bang is now "collaboration".

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RE: Collaboration - 7/18/2014 1:19:49 PM

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Interesting. So, gang bang is now "collaboration".

Coffee through nose, monitor and keyboard totally slimed....How about a little warning next time ok?

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RE: Collaboration - 7/18/2014 2:29:10 PM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

Interesting. So, gang bang is now "collaboration".

Coffee through nose, monitor and keyboard totally slimed....How about a little warning next time ok?

Ditto; that was hilarious!

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RE: Collaboration - 8/8/2014 5:08:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx [Part I]

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx [Part II]

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

Interesting. So, gang bang is now "collaboration".

Coffee through nose, monitor and keyboard totally slimed....

How about a little warning next time ok?

Was that what you said before, during or after the Vegas convention gang bang you just returned from?

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RE: Collaboration - 8/8/2014 8:59:48 PM

thompsonx

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

Was that what you said before, during or after the Vegas convention gang bang you just returned from?

There was no gang bang...they were seperate and discreet encounters.

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RE: Collaboration - 8/22/2014 3:48:08 PM

SweetlySadistic1

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Hmm. Well, this is in a non-Pro situation but there is a Domme in another State who sometimes shares her sub/bottom with me. The reason I say "sub/bottom" is he calls himself a sub but he's really more of a bottom, but whatever. Anyway, he comes to my State for various reasons once every few months & he and I will get together for a day or so, and we all (she/he/I) are happy with the situation. It works out for us. She & I have never co-Topped him together though, as we live in different States. I think it would be fun to do though.

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RE: Collaboration - 8/22/2014 6:29:04 PM

LookieNoNookie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Madamned

Hi :) What are your thoughts on collaboration with other Dommes?
I would be happy to meet another Domme and offer RT sessions together, I even thought about creating a website together. I think it's just more fun this way and you can share your experiences with someone. I can talk to my friends about it but they actually have no clue how everything works. I do it alone at the moment but I am hoping to find a suitable person to collaborate. Do you think I should just browse profiles and send messages to Dommes I find interesting or post somewhere and wait for replies?
If you done it before, what are your experiences?
Also, if you are interested, please PM me.

I've actually done significant research on this (excellent question by the way) and I find it's only effective when the two women are chowing down on each other as if they haven't had a decent meal in 3 weeks.

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