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Advice for a Newbie - 7/18/2014 5:28:24 AM   
atyourservice333


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Status: offline 		How does a slave/submissive finding a female dominant? Any advice? Thanks in advance
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RE: Advice for a Newbie - 7/18/2014 10:17:59 AM   
Miyani


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Status: offline 		By going to where the female dominants are, and getting to know them as people. Just like you would a girlfriend, or hell, even a friend.

Your profile is hidden, so I can't see where you're from, but I'd recommend getting out into the local community and seeing what you can find.

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RE: Advice for a Newbie - 7/18/2014 3:45:09 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Well, not having a hidden profile would be a first step.

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RE: Advice for a Newbie - 7/18/2014 7:19:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nobody answered a single question asked. How do you go about meeting a mistress without having to look for dodgy number in some dodgy mag? i'd like to meet real deal but always been let down through no fault of mistresses but lack of real info on where to connect? Any advice?

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RE: Advice for a Newbie - 7/18/2014 7:38:44 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: danky1

Nobody answered a single question asked. How do you go about meeting a mistress without having to look for dodgy number in some dodgy mag? i'd like to meet real deal but always been let down through no fault of mistresses but lack of real info on where to connect? Any advice?



danky, what do you want? Your profile states that you just want kinky play. If that's the case, try craigslist.

Keep in mind that munches, play parties, etc., are designed for people looking for relationships rather than play.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Advice for a Newbie - 7/18/2014 7:44:28 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Collarchat has a professional services section, Danky. Perhaps there's someone listed there near you who catches your fancy. You will have to pay to play.

If you're looking for a relationship or at the very least, good friendship, your best bet is to do a search on FetLife for groups and activities near you. Get to know both women and men in the lifestyle, and make yourself useful by volunteering to help at events.

Best of luck!

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RE: Advice for a Newbie - 7/18/2014 8:05:21 PM   
danky1


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Status: offline 		Thank you Darksteven that was a big help. Yes I am new to scene but experienced it on and off in my life. I would like a regular partner but live in beautiful but small town so not sure how to go about meeting like-minded people. Think I will have to travel!!

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RE: Advice for a Newbie - 7/18/2014 9:16:06 PM   
Arturas


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ORIGINAL: atyourservice333

How does a slave/submissive finding a female dominant? Any advice? Thanks in advance


For some reason I think it is more difficult than finding a male Dom so my advice to you would be to find a lifestyle club fairly close, attend the munch they likely sponsor for prospective members and put your best foot forward in dress and behavior to stand out and then once you get your foot in the door by becoming a member then attend regularly and stand out so you are noticed and are approached. I think that will be more effective than trying to attract attention here or on the other side with your profile. Luck to you. It will happen if you do your best.

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RE: Advice for a Newbie - 7/30/2014 5:46:38 PM   
LadyNeith


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Status: offline 		You just literally can't find any Dominant women? Or are you asking how to attract one/get one to be interested in you?

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